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There are many kinds of friends.
Friends and friends in general.
You have to distinguish this.
Think about it.
You cry to a friend who has a very average relationship. What have I been wronged ... And how.
Do you think it's possible?
But it's not the same with the dead friends. You can let go of yourself. What to say. They absolutely wish you well ... There are times when you don't say it. They're actually more anxious than you when they're sullen all day.
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Some can be vented on the Internet, make a netizen, talk about the premise, and sometimes you can vent your emotions with your hands, why drink and smoke or something.
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Find a friend you trust, since it's a friend, there's nothing to hide, it's better to say it, isn't it, and a real friend doesn't care if you bother her or not, you tell her, but he will feel that you treat him as a friend. Friends are indeed a lifelong thing, and if you don't tell them about your troubles, isn't it too much to see? Friends are the ones who share their joys and troubles.
I usually have something to do, I'm annoyed, and I need to talk about it. I will go to my friends and tell them that I will feel better, and they will give you the most sincere comfort.
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Good friends don't hate your vulnerability.
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I don't cry in front of my friends, I don't feel the need to disturb others.
I remember watching a youth idol drama a few years ago, and I forgot all about the plot, but I always remember the sentence "Not all grievances are lucky to be exposed in the world". Often like this, when the mind is turning a thousand times, at the moment when the emotion is about to erupt, suddenly, it is so calm. Those grievances are not worth mentioning when they come to their mouths, and who is not surviving in the gap between life and work, and naturally there is no need to bother others because of this.
In front of the people who care about themselves the most, no matter how much they are wronged, they will turn into unwilling to bother, so a thousand words have all become a sentence of "It's okay". It's our instinct to love. After all, it is past the age when you cry when you are sad and go home when you are wronged.
As adults, the more aggrieved and hysterical we are, the more peaceful and indifferent we are on the outside. It is in this kind of repeated and contradictory self-talk that an independent and mature self is gradually formed.
In my early years, when I read "Open to Luxury", Yishu Ling's sentence drilled into my heart: "The grievances that can be said are not grievances." "I think so.
When you can get things out of your mouth, a little comfort from your perspective can soothe your heart. And things are difficult to talk about, you can't tell others, and you can only know it by yourself, which is considered a grievance.
I remember when I was a child, I was a little wronged, and I cried to my parents, I wanted the whole world to come and watch, that kind of coquettish and anticipatory attention is really not a grievance. When I am an adult, even if I have a full heart, I will only cry silently alone, and even continue to smile, pretending that nothing has happened. This kind of unspeakable grievance can be regarded as a grievance.
You're an adult, so why shouldn't your friends and your parents? You are trapped in your life and feel aggrieved, and those who are busy with their livelihood like you, under the tired shell of rushing, there are many unspeakable grievances. Everyone is taking care of themselves in their own little world, so how can they bear to disturb it?
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Yes, when I had an emotional breakdown because of too many things, I cried in front of my friends, anyone needs a place to vent their emotions, and sometimes friends are your best reliance.
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I don't cry in front of my friends, I usually cry in front of my family when I'm sad and sad. Because your friends can't understand you, they will only think that you are weak and don't easily expose your vulnerable side.
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I will cry in front of my friends, if it is a real friend, then the other party will not mind you crying in front of him, he will tolerate you, and he will comfort you.
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I will cry in front of my friends, because I am a very emotional person, and when emotions come, I can't control myself many times, and I think crying is actually a release of emotions, but it is better than holding it in my heart.
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Yes, when I encounter something sad, I will cry in front of my friends, and I can't cry in front of my friends, so when do you want to cry? It's hard to cry alone, no one to comfort you, it's depressing.
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Yes. Because you are your true self in front of your friends. Because I trust my friends and rely on my friends, it's nothing to lose face in front of my friends, otherwise what's the point of being a friend?
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I don't cry in front of my friends, because I think crying is an affirmation of my weakness, and I won't let myself be weak in front of my friends.
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You will cry in front of others, no one will be, crying in front of others, others will only laugh at you, all you have to do is make yourself stronger, so that others have no way to laugh.
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No, I feel ashamed, I feel like I can't cry if I cry in front of my friends, I just want to laugh, but it's okay to cry in front of my boyfriend.
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No, that's your own business, why do you cry in front of others, be strong in front of others, even if you cry, you have to find a place where there is no one.
It mainly depends on whether you feel it or not. If you like her, chase her, at least she has no aversion to you, and there are many opportunities. Some people may not get a true love for the rest of their lives. So cherish it.
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