I broke up with someone I loved, and he asked me to be his sister, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Women reject love with friendship.

    Men use friendship to get love.

    He still wants you.

    And you. If you want to break it thoroughly.

    It's better not to.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Refuse ......It's a sign that he can't let you go. He still has feelings for you, and he can't let go.

    Your mode of getting along is because of your habits.,So it's between lovers.,It's impossible to over-the-top to my sister all at once.,He's self-deception.。

    If he has a girlfriend, can the other party accept the existence of a sister who used to be his ex-girlfriend? So refuse, maybe it will be uncomfortable, but don't make other people's emotional transitions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of person is disgusting, and he wants to break up with you again.

    I also want to keep you by my side just in the name of my sister.

    Stay away from him greedy.

    You can find better ones.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then you have to analyze why he did this?

    1.Or he's still in love with you.

    2.Either he is afraid that you will be sad after the breakup.

    In addition to these two explanations, there is no other reason, you should weigh it yourself, I hope it will help you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you still love him, it's better not to be good, it's hard for a past lover to be friends again, let alone a sister, it will only make you more miserable!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not clean. Legacy troubles. Ask yourself, would you like to? Will your future boyfriend agree?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Say no, then stay away, start a new life, you can not give my answer, but you can't go without my advice, or you will only get hurt.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Show that he doesn't care about your feelings at all, and ignore him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't break the thread in the lotus root when you break it, he thinks that he will bring other women to introduce me to you This is my girlfriend, you are uncomfortable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Did you break up with her or did she bring it up?

    If the man proposes that the woman has such a request, it means that she still has you in her heart and does not want to break up, but is just forced by your request, but still hopes to find a way to continue to keep in touch with you.

    If the woman proposes to break up and still says so, it may be that there is still a little affection and wants to leave a chance for reconciliation in the future. Or maybe she doesn't want to hurt you.

    Say love or not, you still have to feel it with your heart, and when you think of her, most of you are smiling, then it should be love. When she is with you, she is mostly smiling and happy, which means that she should still love you.

    Some people say that when you are happy together, you like it, and when you are unhappy, you are still together, which is love.

    But in fact, love is different in everyone's heart, and everyone's way of expressing it is also different.

    In any case, I hope that the landlord can grasp his heart well and weigh this decision well.

    Is she really heinous and must break off her relationship? Or are you afraid that you will regret it when you think about it, but it is better not to see each other again in the future?

    Or are you ashamed of her, so run away?

    Cherish your hard-won feelings, and don't let go easily when you hold hands.

    I saw a passage in the forum today and sent it to you:

    When you fall in love, be blind, deaf, and foolish. To be blind is not to look too much at the other party's figure and appearance. To be deaf is not to care about the evaluation of parents and friends, and to be a fool is not to measure the economic conditions of the other party's family, but to collide with each other's hearts with their own hearts.

    Wishing you happiness!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hehe. Since you choose to separate, why do you care if you love or not?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think so, because once you really love, it's impossible to be brother and sister after you break up!!

    Even if there were, the woman was cruel.

    Because he thinks it's okay, but it's an inexplicable hurt to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I suggest you listen to Eason Chan's "Brother and Sister", you will feel it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She should have loved you, if she hadn't loved you, how could she let you be her brother? In this way, she should believe in you very much, love is built on believing, and it also begins when believing, since she believes in you, how can she never love you? I suggest you go to find her, slowly accept the new identity she has positioned for you in your heart, and don't hurt her so hastily, okay?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you have chosen to break up with him, it doesn't matter if he loves you or not, forget it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Anyway, I think you're doing something a little extreme

    It's actually good to be friends, but most people can't let go

    What kind of brother and sister, these relationships are still not good, so it is easier to let go, and it seems ambiguous

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Although I don't know why you broke up, if it was two people who used to love each other deeply, then it is unreasonable for him to make such a request at this time.

    First of all, if he still has some nostalgia for you, then he will do whatever it takes, including his self-esteem, to keep you, and will find a way to protect your relationship instead of using the way of changing identities to keep you, which is unwise and stupid, even if this is his delaying tactic, but this kind of brainless man, don't you feel very tired with him;

    Secondly, there is a kind of man who obviously doesn't love you anymore, but he still has to take care of his own face, and wants others to think that he is a very responsible man, so he thinks that he will sacrifice himself to let you be his sister, no matter whether he will take care of you like a sister in the future, but as long as this thing happens, then you will always feel that the sympathy and warmth that you love and don't love you occasionally give to you is useless to you, and you will feel that it is a shame, and you have to say that he is good. This kind of man is the most hateful, and he is not as simple as the kind of man who is envious of his life and cut off and happy;

    In addition, I don't know if you are the main responsibility for the breakup, so I just briefly analyzed it for you from an objective point of view. Also, there's nothing wrong with loving someone, it's wrong to love someone and cling to loving someone you shouldn't love, you know?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you still like him, then don't agree to him, break off this relationship as soon as possible, and send it to find your own happiness, if you don't like Lu Seep anymore, then there is no way to agree.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you really loved.

    How can it be easily forgotten.

    Don't forget.

    Because when you want to believe and forget.

    It's when you think about it a lot.

    So. When you remember.

    Don't be in a hurry to forget.

    It's about telling yourself not to think about it anymore.

    The time book has been long.

    Danzhou Tan Xian forgot.

    It doesn't hurt that much.

    Gradually. You'll find out.

    It turns out that you don't care that much.

    It turned out that everything was a thing of the past.

    For those of us who want to forget.

    Perhaps time is the most effective way to hurt the disease. Alas.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let's learn to give up, turn around and leave before we cry, what we get in exchange for tears is not firmly Pei Chunliang; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door anymore, or hit your head with a wide and bleeding until you don't wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Time is the best medicine, with the passage of time, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, rotten to adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce to pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the remaining mark of life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Momo for you, thank you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Although it is said that time can dilute everything.

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    Suppose, if you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, and there may be other reasons.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to forget it with a lifetime of friendship.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    I hope you can be happy and bring it to Lule!

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