My boyfriend broke up with me, how can he still say he loves me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In your words: If you divide it, you will have fun!!

    Yes, you don't have to pay attention to it, you don't have to understand what he said to you.

    Men are like this, they don't cherish love when they are in front of them, and they regret it when they lose it. To put it mildly, men are sometimes more mother-in-law than you women.

    Since he chose the road himself, then this responsibility should also be borne by him.

    In fact, what he is doing now is very irresponsible, he proposed to break up, but now he still loves you and puts you in a dilemma. The relationship you are now on this end can never be completely ended, and the other end cannot accept new feelings. This seems to be playing tricks on you, making fun of you, and delaying your youth.

    So, again, you don't have to pay attention to it, let alone understand what he said to you. Live your new love life well!!

    Finally, I wish you happiness!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Men are often like this, maybe you have been together for a long time, and at the moment when you are about to lose each other, you are really a little reluctant in your heart, so the impulse moved him to say that sentence to you, but understand that this is just a momentary feeling! If he really loves you, he definitely won't break up with you. So, there's no need to think about what he said, give yourself a fresh start!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe he feels guilty in his heart, he still misses the relationship between you, and he can't forget about you and this relationship soon, and he feels a little guilty about this feeling and you, so he is still saying that he loves you, he is sorry for you, and because of the nostalgia for the feelings between you! Complete!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Explain that he proposed to break up with you, just to test you to see if you care about him, but you also agreed, or he was forced to break up with you for some reason.

    If you still like him, if you really love him, ask the reason, don't always be so rash about emotional problems, it is not easy to meet a true love in life, learn to cherish everything around you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you often quarrel? Or he rationally thinks that it is not appropriate for you to be together, so even if two people have love, they have to break up, because he knows in his heart that two people cannot be together forever, and even if they are together, they will not be happy. Maybe you are the one he loves, but you are not the one he is going to marry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It shows that he still has feelings for you, people are emotional animals, and it is normal for you to feel reluctant to get along for so long, maybe he just mistakes this feeling for love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is usually said that this kind of boy is more greedy, belongs to the bowl of eating in the pot, from your words, you can see that you are a very serious girl, but, like the boy who is broken is not worthy of your love to cherish, pay attention to your side, maybe you can find your true love! Bless you! ~~

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he had to break up with you, but this is unfair to you, since they have broken up, why let you know that he is thinking about you! He didn't think about you from your standpoint!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After breaking up and saying that he loves you, he means that he still needs you in some things, understand?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tell you to break up, he is too embarrassed to do it, afraid of hurting you, so he leaves some room to speak, afraid that you will kill yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He doesn't love you anymore, but he still wants you to love him all the time, vanity!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If I love you, I won't break up with you, trust me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not bad, he can still take care of your feelings, and if you count the points, you can divide it, what's there, who will turn this earth without it! ~

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe he has something unspeakable, just ask him why not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He is implicitly saying the opposite: I don't love you! We're done, don't come to me again!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He wanted to step on two boats and find the other, but he didn't want to give up the one

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What is there to love and not love, no matter how much you love your hands apart, you can't be together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Men will say that they are innocent when they break up again.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I dare say that the man loves face

    Let him listen to Zheng Zhihua's song well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why do you believe him? Now that we've broken up, what else to talk about whether you love or not!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's strange, there are a lot of people like this.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, it seems to me that the meaning is already very clear and obvious. He just doesn't like you anymore, wants to break up with you, and doesn't want to be with you. As a man, from his own point of view, no boy would be unwilling to be with the girl he likes (except for special circumstances, of course, but that is mostly a bloody plot only in TV dramas).

    The reason why he said that he still loves you is only to give himself a high-sounding reason to break up with you.

    My college roommate, a very handsome young man, his love is probably what you said, but the hero and heroine are reversed. I remember that he was very fond of a little girl at that time, so to speak, and it can be said that he changed his whole self for that girl, just to better cater to his criteria for choosing a mate for this girl. Later, the two of them developed into a couple and began their love career, but it was also a tragic experience.

    This boy seems to be pleasing this girl in love, and he is always submissive, and he doesn't even dare to gasp. This also caused the girl to become more and more arrogant, self-righteous, and even began to look down on the boy. After a long time, this girl ignored my roommate.

    Eventually, she and my roommate broke up. The reason for the breakup is that I still love you, but we are not suitable and cannot be together. As a result, my roommate stupidly thought that he was not doing well and wanted to correct it.

    But no matter what he did, the girl rejected him.

    On the day when we felt hopeless, we drank a lot of beer with our roommates, and a few young lads talked a lot together. The roommate cried and said that he had paid too much for this relationship, but he didn't expect it to be such a result. We comforted him, but it didn't seem to have much effect, so the brothers drank together, and that was by far the most drunk.

    Looking at his appearance, he was very distressed, but he was helpless.

    Life is like that, like to joke with you from time to time. But friend, you have to believe that there are only those in this world who can't afford to let go, and the tide of time will eventually wipe out the initial throbbing, leaving only a brief blush and heartbeat.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you insist on breaking up, it can only mean that he doesn't love you anymore, so it's completely untrustworthy to say that he loves you, so fulfill him, such a man is not worth it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Summary. That's why I said after I broke up, I love you and hope to get back together with you.

    Hello, the answer to your question is being sorted out, please wait a moment.

    Hello, I think your boyfriend still loves you very much.

    That's why I said after I broke up, I love you and hope to get back together with you.

    I broke up at the beginning, I hurt him and his parents, and now he says he still loves me, but we can't go back, even if he goes back, his parents can't go back.

    It's his, he's a military man.

    You have feelings for each other.

    Why not solve the problem, the parents' perception is only one aspect.

    Because I was going to break up with him in the first place, she has always been very good to me, and now that he says this, are we really not going back?

    I think it would be hard to go back if he said that.

    Parental opinion can do the work, and this may not be just a parental reason.

    We were getting married at the time, and I broke up, hurting him and his family.

    If he is truly in love with you, then all your problems can be solved.

    We haven't been in touch for a few months, we got in touch again the day before yesterday, and when we came back from vacation and said they wanted to see me, and we both cried when we met.

    Now what he is proposing is likely to be a condition.

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