Regarding my future, can you help guide me on how to go in the future?

You are more confused, or because you don't fully understand yourself.

1. What are your interests? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed? If you don't know your interests, you can take the Holland Career Aptitude Assessment to get a general idea of your interests.

2. What is your personality suitable for? Different jobs are suitable for people with different personalities to do. Recognizing your personality is a very important step. Understand your personality traits before making a decision.

3. What are your strengths and strengths? What are some of the skills that can be used? What should I do about what I lack?

4. What weaknesses do you have in your personality that need to be overcome? Don't let weaknesses get in the way of your growth.

5. The first chapter of the book "Workplace Redemption - Written for the Confused Grassroots" also provides a more detailed and specific method, which is very helpful to you, and you can also go to the book to find the answer.

Judging from your description, you are now in a period of confusion, and if you have no burden at home, you don't have to rush to earn money first. What you lack now is the problem of ideals, beliefs and life positioning, I think it is better for you to go to the army for training, and now there are many opportunities for development in the army, and those who have been soldiers and those who have not been soldiers have more life experience, which will bring unexpected gains to your future development.

Hehe, the road is your own. There's a saying called Go your own way and let others do the talking!

Judging from your description, your family should be a very real family, and your rebellion is also a kind of helplessness of love. It can be said that your subjectivity is not strong, you have not done something successful before, and you have done things at the beginning without ending with a lead, etc. This leads to doubts about your ability to deal with things now.

Your parents love you very much and don't want you to start a business, for fear that you will suffer losses and financial losses. You are loyal from the bottom of your heart, and you want to make greater contributions to the family, and you are a filial son, Zhaochan does not dare to go against the wishes of his parents, and feels that he cannot reflect his own value. I want to do it but I can't do it!

I want to say it, but I can't say it! These many opposing issues lead to rebellion against your parents.

You need to change this rebellious personality and change your parents' distrust of you now. Otherwise, if you continue like this, you will be depressed and rudder for years.

I'll give some advice:1Remember one sentence:

You can't change others, you can't change yourself! Your parents must have been honest farmers. They didn't receive much teaching since they were young, and they only learned to be diligent, hard-working, and frugal.

You must not be able to accept your current thinking and philosophy, so it is very difficult to change them. Only you change yourself.

2.You have to find a job right away, no matter how much money you have, and do it without complaining. You have to know your parents, they don't ask you how much money you make, they just ask you to be safe. Don't talk to your parents about it at this time. Your time is not yet ripe to start your own business.

3.Learn to be grateful and be generous. If you can't do this, then it's impossible for you to be dedicated.

4.Envision a career, (also note here: the career you envision must be something you are interested in, don't do things just to make money) consider your own operational strength.

Tell your parents slowly. When telling them, the start-up capital must be small, and your parents are most afraid of failure and wasting their hard-earned money. If your parents don't agree, don't worry, let alone get annoyed, wait a few days before talking, and so on, your parents will agree.