My cousin has no money and always asks me to pay for her dinner? 20

From the content, it can be basically seen that your personality is also a "bad good person" in the current society. When relatives come into contact with money, especially when they are currently under a bit of financial pressure, it is really difficult to choose, and as a 16-year-old her, it is almost impossible for you to change what you think about herself. Therefore, in order to retain this family affection, appropriate money may be indispensable in a short period of time, but it must be controlled, from once a week to once a month, and gradually reduce it is necessary.

I can only make it clear to her that the other party can understand best, and if you can't understand it, you can understand it slowly, otherwise you will eventually get used to it and become more and more out of control.

bluntly said that I don't want to invite her to dinner, everyone's money is not blowing in the wind, if you really care about you, you won't say anything else, if you don't care about you, you can just break it. Neither can relatives.

Then you directly say that you don't have any money, you really can't get used to her too much, if her parents don't know, it's best to tell her parents, if your cousin asks you why you're so stingy, you say it's my money, why should I give it to you, my brother still settles the account, we are not pro, although how to do it is a bit ruthless, but I really have to make it clear, I think your cousin may use you as an ATM in this situation.

Show him that if she is still like this, it means that she is ignorant and should stay away from her.

For this kind of person who says again and again and doesn't listen, you can just ignore it if you only know how to ask for what you don't understand, and your own health is not very good, just tell her directly, if she doesn't even care about your body, don't do it, I hope your body can get better soon

Whoever calls you rich, you are the one who slaughters you. If she tells you to go to dinner and you don't go, can she still kill you? That's vanity at work. That is, to die to save face and live to suffer.

It shows that you have a good relationship, you are more generous and casual, and you are naturally willing to kill you for dinner, which is a fun behavior, and there is no other intention.

You're really a symptom of hyperthyroidism. It's a normal request for your cousin to have no money to let you have dinner, you can accept it or not, but what is the psychology of scolding your mother behind the surface acceptance?

It's not appropriate for the other party to eat all the time without face and skin, you are not only behind the bb but also keep accounts with your family so clearly, it's not a good thing, it should be said that it's really not a family, don't you enter a family?

If you ignore her, or hide the money, and she comes to you again, you will say that there is no money, and the boss is in arrears of wages.

Ask her parents for it, anyway, she didn't treat you as a relative.

If you really don't want to come back, forget it, if you have more eyes in the future, don't come out at all, she is not embarrassed, you are embarrassed.

Since she is like this, then don't let it be so tactful, just pick it out,

My cousin didn't have any money, and she kept asking me to pay for him to eat. Then you have to be careful.

Introduce it to me, and I'll accompany you if you lose it.

Introducing a friend and brother to her as a boyfriend, and eating doesn't cost much, one more is not too much, and one less is not too much.

directly said that he would work overtime and not go out.

I eat a lot, and every time I mention it, I say that I borrowed it, and I never pay it back when I have money.

Summary. Maybe it's because they think you're someone who can help them solve their life problems. But you also need to communicate clearly with them that there is a limit to the help you can provide, and they also need to work hard to find a job and solve their own life problems, rather than relying on you completely.

It is advisable to communicate openly with them and work together to find a solution.

My cousin doesn't have a job, I spend money on food, drink, and accommodation, so why are my two sisters looking for me here?

Maybe it's because they think you're someone who can help them solve their life problems. But you also need to communicate clearly with them, let them understand that the help you can provide is limited, and they also need to work hard to find a job and imitate themselves to solve life problems, rather than relying on you completely. It is recommended that you communicate openly with them and find a solution together.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Maybe it's because they think you're someone who can help them solve their life problems. But you also need to communicate clearly with them, let them understand that the help you can provide is limited, and they also need to work hard to find a job and imitate themselves to solve life problems, rather than relying on you completely. It is recommended that you communicate openly with them and find a solution together.