Why do people still ridicule me when I get better and better?

Because there will always be people with bad intentions who don't want you to surpass him, to be better than him, to achieve the goal of exalting themselves by mocking you and belittling you.

You feel that you have become better and better, whether it is or not, what you said yourself does not count, this is one, and second, even if you are excellent, it will not affect others to ridicule you at all, there is no inevitable relationship between the two, but if you are really good enough, you will naturally completely ignore the sarcasm of others, and that's it.

Because others are jealous of you, you are too good, so they feel resentful, so there is a phenomenon of sarcasm at you.

Those people who ridicule you must be inferior to you in some aspects, and they can only get over it, because they know that they can't compare to you now, and maybe they won't be able to talk to you in the future, so don't worry about them. Just be yourself.

Don't care what others say, the person who sarcastically mocks you must be jealous of you, go your own way and let others say it.

Your discount is just a little bit as good as before, but it's still a big step away from excellent people, so you still need to work hard.

It doesn't matter whether others ridicule you or not.

It's that the person who is sarcastic about you has a problem, whether he is good or not, he wants to be sarcastic and sarcastic.

When you become good, you don't excel for the sake of others, and you don't have to care about other people's opinions, especially those who sarcastically mock you, they don't deserve your attention at all.

No one can guarantee that it will be recognized by everyone, Ma Yun is excellent, it's not the same, there are still people who complain about him, as the saying goes, no one is perfect, and some shortcomings are normal, so you don't have to keep improving.

It's normal, excellent people are evil people in the eyes of some people, sarcastic you can make yourself feel at ease and do nothing, don't care too much.

Everyone is desperately living, for themselves and for others. Everyone's existence has his meaning, big or small. No matter what the meaning of our existence is, after all, it is to make ourselves a better person.

And sometimes if we want to be an excellent person, it may be that we meet someone you like, and his excellence makes you prohibitive. So, you will work hard to make yourself worthy of him and stand by his side, why is that?

1. Dissatisfaction with real life When we feel something in life, this feeling is often a kind of self-perception of life, thinking that this kind of life or such a way is not something that can bring you anything, nor can it guarantee your future life. Therefore, when you feel that others are better than you, you will feel that your ability is not enough to support your future life, and you will not be able to give the other person the life they want. Therefore, when you feel that others are better than you, you will start to question your current state and whether your abilities can support your future life.

Second, meeting him makes you feel inferior to an excellent person, there is never a shortage of admirers around you, and there will be countless people among the admirers who want to get close to the excellent through hard work. What circumstances can make a person feel inferior, that is, when the person you like is better than you in everything, especially when you can't support the future for him, you will feel and circle to inferiority, feeling that you are not capable of giving him the future he wants. Therefore, when you feel his beauty, you will feel that you can't be too bad, and you also need to work hard to make yourself excellent, so that you can have this excellence with peace of mind.

But, in fact, the other party doesn't ask for anything, and he doesn't want you to give any help, all he wants is for you to accompany him, that's all.

3. You want to give her a better future When two people are together, what they should think about is the future and the present. How to be yourself in the moment, how to give each other enough security in the moment. When he wants the future, you can give him enough support and confidence.

Therefore, you also want to be able to help him when he encounters difficulties or career bottlenecks, and be able to accompany him all the time. At this time, all you can think of may be to change yourself and make yourself excellent, so that you can have enough confidence that no matter what you encounter in the future, you can love him with the same attitude that responds to all changes.

Quit laziness and insist on getting up early on time. Laziness is not the inevitable reason for us to achieve nothing, but there must be our laziness in achieving nothing. Waking up early may change what you don't bother with the feast, but insisting on getting up early will definitely be better than getting up at noon every day.

Keep track and learn to manage your life. If a person can manage her life well, no matter what kind of social status she is, it means that she is already a very good person. So how do ordinary people manage themselves?

Learn to be grateful and be good at discovering the beauty and goodness around you. In the past, when I was doing e-commerce, my boss always emphasized to me the importance of gratitude, no matter how good the people were, we would find that most of them were people who had helped them.

Maintain lifelong learning and meet more people on the same channel. A person's lifelong study is nothing more than to gain more insight and experience in a world that we are still not clear about, and to imperceptibly update and enrich one's three views and conduct oneself in the world.

Quit laziness and insist on getting up early on time. Sticking to the record, Malu Yin learned to manage his own life. Learn to be grateful and be good at discovering the beauty and goodness around you.

In short, maintain a good image, a confident attitude, a humble attitude, have a heart that loves to learn, and keep climbing up, and one day you will become very good.

If you want to become better and better, you should strengthen your heart, learn more about the state section knowledge that you have not learned, and exercise more, as long as a person is confident, he will become very good.

First set a long-term goal, and then decompose the goal into a small goal, in the completion of a small goal, and finally the long-term goal will be completed. That is to say, there must be a direction to do things, and then work in that direction, although there may be many thorns in the middle, then overcome the thorns to pursue your goals.

If you want to become better and better, you can only keep learning and improving your professional skills.

If you want to become better and better, you need to keep learning, constantly improve yourself, and be self-disciplined.

Exercise more and improve your personal ability to work hard.

What do you judge by what makes you good:

1. Outsiders think it is excellent: graduation from a prestigious university, going abroad, high-paying jobs, supervisory positions, stable prospects, etc.

2. Excellence in self-identity: I have reached the goal and height I want to achieve.

The former does not need to be pursued for others, because such things will eventually change and be lost, and you will be very miserable when the excellence that you spent your whole life in exchange for is suddenly gone.

I think the latter is excellent to pursue for life: my execution, character maturity, ability to resist setbacks, ability to learn, persistence in what I like, these aspects, I am better today than yesterday, this is excellent.

About a beautiful short and big tail that looks like a cheese cat Chen Yuanyuan, go to WeChat *** to meet the interesting me, there are miniatures I made, paintings, flowers, favorite Xin Qiji and Ouyang Xiu, all kinds of ridicule and complaints.

Of course, you need to make yourself better, not to please anyone, just to please yourself, you should strive to become better!

Insist on studying, exercising, and exercising.

Overcome procrastination. I used to be a very serious procrastinator, and then I once failed to apply for a project because of procrastination, so I thought a lot about it.

If you want to be good, you have to invest in yourself!

Overcome procrastination. used to be a very serious procrastinator, and later once Youfeng failed to apply for a project because of the delay of good things, so he thought a lot about it.

Insist on learning, insist on transporting silver movements, and insist on forging lead to refine the body.

You are excellent, and the matching hall naturally has the right person with you. Ant Void.

In this way, it will not look bad compared to others.

Do you want to rely on others for the rest of your life?