Do you want to save face!? Which is more important, face or lining?!

The face of the Chinese is greater than life and death.

If you don't believe, you can go to the countryside to see the funeral. No matter how the children treated the elderly during their lifetime, they must do it vigorously after death: hire people to blow, hire people to cook, hire people to cry and mourn. In short, the momentum must be huge, and there must be many people!

In the same way, you can look at the wedding of the Chinese. Regardless of whether the relationship between the two is good or not, whether they can get over the end, 12 Daben must be standard, 3,000 wedding photos are the lowest configuration, and fifty or sixty tables of large tables must be set up in a luxury hotel. In short, the momentum must be huge, and there must be many people!

One of the favorite words of the entertainers is, "You must come when the time comes!" Save face for me! ”

I was young, graduated from technical school and went out to work, and a few years later I got back a daughter-in-law, who was a working girl like him.

The two of them worked diligently for three years and saved 60,000 yuan. But after a wedding, the young couple has a debt of 70,000!

Yes, they spent more than 100,000 yuan on weddings, treats, and three gold, and in addition to the gift money they received, they also had a debt of 70,000!

I said, can't the wedding be simpler? Hair **, no. He is the only child in the family, and the success of the wedding does not affect the face of his parents for a lifetime, even if he and his daughter-in-law are willing to do it simply, the parents of both parties will not agree.

The small wedding was indeed very scene and beautiful. But after the scenery, the little couple began to eat bran and swallow vegetables, and tied them into their belts to pay off their debts. I can almost predict how much they would have to fight over their struggling lives.

In the final analysis, the love of face is to ignore one's own inner feelings in order to cater to the evaluation of others.

For those who love face, life is no longer to live for themselves, but to live for the fulfillment of other people's evaluations.

It is said that Chinese live tired, and it is not unrelated to the love of face.

is like what the joke says: Don't envy the person who drives a Maserati to live in a villa, he may owe 20 million in bank loans and live in dire straits every day; Don't covet a BMW to live in a luxury house, he may owe a bank loan of 2 million, and he can't get an inexhaustible mortgage every day when he opens his eyes; Don't look down on those who ride trams and live in small houses, he may have a deposit of 100,000 yuan, and he has a good life.

Living for the eyes of others is a void, a burden, a me......diocrity day after dayAfter a long time like this, one day, you will forget what you really want.

Entrepreneurs don't care too much about face, if you are not worth anything, your face will be worthless.

You yourself are worth it, even if you don't want to lose face, others will give you face.

However, many people care too much about face.

1.It is a sign of self-esteem. Moderate self-esteem is a good thing, but after that, there will be overreaction and affect interpersonal relationships, such as conflicts with lovers and colleagues.

2.It is a manifestation of vanity. I don't have confidence in my heart, I always want to behave a little better, a little better, which will make me very tired of living, in fact, people, just live a relaxed and real life, what it is, so there are more people who recognize you.

3.It is a sign of inferiority complex. I'm afraid that people will look down on you, care too much about other people's opinions, and when it comes to face, you will either be impatient with your relatives or be harsh on yourself. It makes everyone miserable.

It depends. In the face of major rights and wrongs, we must maintain our own face and not retreat .........

If it were ordinary life, there would be nothing. Sometimes everyone is joking, why bother to be serious, it's not good to be too face-saving at this time.

Living in this era, I think everyone likes face very much, there are a lot of faceless things, we could have done it but just because we want to save face, how to say it, people's vanity is very terrible.

Under normal circumstances, everyone has to save face.

Don't you want to lose face?

These are very face-saving, so if I am told that I have no face now, I will definitely have to talk to others about it.

Actually, I'm not a very face-saving person. I don't think the building is bad, as long as people don't treat me too much, I can accept it.

It's really face-saving.

People want faces, trees want bark, and they all hope to be glamorous, self-respecting, and face-saving on the outside.

Everyone needs face, they all want to have dignity in front of others, if it hurts face, it will be sad.

Of course, the lining is more important, but in life, you can not lose face as much as possible.

In real life, everyone pays attention to different aspects. Some people focus on face, others on practical benefits. Of course, I think that practical interests are more important, but try not to lose face in life, after all, not everyone is thick-skinned enough.

With a lot of confidence in your pocket, tangible interests are the key to affecting your life.

When I first came out of school, my self-esteem was really heavy, and it was actually very important to save face in my work and life. But it didn't do me much good, it made me get stuck everywhere.

Saving face when I get along with my friends in life means that I have to suffer a lot of losses; Getting along with my colleagues at work means that I need to do a lot of work to maintain this harmony.

This has put a lot of pressure on my life, and it has also made me really feel that saving face is not going to work in life. Since then, I still pay more attention to practical interests, even if the leader wants me to bear the blame, as long as the compensation is in place, I don't feel embarrassed.

This is actually real life, and people who want to save face in life are often not very good in life. The gentleman can be deceived by shouting, but in fact, he wants to die to save face and suffer the crime.

Of course, the inside is important in life, but face must also be sought.

Although we are always shouting in our mouths that "people cannot be looked at, and the sea water cannot be measured", in real life, judging people by their appearance is a human characteristic. This method is actually widely used in life, you don't want to lose face once, but if you don't lose face every time, others will think that you are shameless.

There may be nothing wrong with pursuing profit in real life, but we must also maintain our own image in the hearts and minds of others. Being able to maintain an image without affecting one's own real interests is the best way to solve a problem.

But in real life, you often can't have both. Whether you want to choose whether you want to save face or have a heart depends on your life and then makes a decision.

No matter which path you choose to take, try not to make decisions that are not conducive to your life because of the evaluation of outsiders.

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.

I think face is actually a layer of clothing, a shame for modern people. It is also a chicken rib, the food is tasteless, and it is a pity to abandon it.

Modern people don't seem to be able to give up the problem of face, or he has not been abandoned since ancient times. But often people who do big things will be villains and gentlemen. It means that face is actually harmless, it depends on how you look at this problem.

If a person can give up something, the worldly, then he will either be at the top of society or the bottom of society in the future.

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.