Others ask me, what should I do if I haven t found a partner at the age of thirty?

A female colleague at the open-air milk tea stall said this to a male colleague, and the man seemed a little overwhelmed and speechless.

However, when I heard this, I was also taken aback by the words of the female colleague, isn't this exactly what I am talking about? I'm just 30 this year, and I don't have a partner yet, so what?

The male colleague next to him said timidly: You also know, we only have a little salary a month here, except for their own living expenses, the dead salary they get is less. The female colleague then came to another sentence, the standard of a good man is to have the potential to rise steadily at work, at least 20%-30% salary increase every year, and will not hesitate when he wants to buy something, otherwise he needs to reflect on himself.

This kind of humiliation is telling you how much failure you have: "The monthly salary of 3w that graduated with you", "The founder of Mobike cashed out 1.5 billion, and your peers are abandoning you", and so on, it is really heart-wrenching.

Every time I see such a title, I guess it's the same as others, the more I look at it, the more anxious I become, especially for the people who are running for three, why are they so powerful and can grow so quickly in a short period of time. Every time I see an outlet, why don't I catch it? In fact, it is not easy for men and women.

People who don't have a partner at the age of 30 don't want to promote this as a good thing, and we are also worthy of respect for girls who like to pursue material wealth, after all, you are not me, everyone has their own way of life.

In fact, others may be out of kind care and greetings, but in today's society, most people don't need such so-called care, for your good, this kind of words. It's all a personal matter, and there is no need for others to get involved. If someone asks you again, you can say who said I didn't.

When someone asks you why you are in your 30s, why are you still not looking for a partner, then you can say that I haven't met my ideal other half yet, maybe fate hasn't arrived yet, and there are many people in their 30s who are not married, so there is no need to be too anxious.

When others ask you if you are 30 years old and you are still looking for a partner, you can do this, he has not met someone who is destined, and it is impossible to find someone to marry casually.

Thank you for your concern for the older youth, the matter of finding a partner has been carried out according to the prescribed plan, this matter is not in a hurry, you can only take your time.

You can say that you can't find something you're happy with, so that others will sound like you can't find it because it's not your reason. Of course, you can not be disgusted by it.

If a person does not get married when he is thirty years old, the reasons will vary, but the result is the same, that is, he is not married. If you are not married in your twenties, there will be a lot of people who ask questions, because asking this question will not bring you burden and disgust, but if you are not married at the age of thirty, there will generally be fewer people who ask, after all, no one wants to find you unhappy. But the family, especially the parents, brothers and sisters, will show that they are very anxious, and will ask you regardless of the occasion, you have to do it, in this case, the perfunctory is that I am looking for it, I am looking for something like that, to tell the truth, I haven't met the right one yet, and the impatient one will be whether to get married or not is my own business, why are you in a hurry, etc., but the real specific reason is only known to you!

There are some people who always like to ask other people's private lives, in this case you tell him that I am 30 years old, and I don't want to find a partner, and when I am 60 years old, I still don't want to find a partner, so after you do him a few times, he will not ask you personal questions when he is bored, in fact, these people are really boring.

When someone asks you what this means, it may mean that he is not confident enough in himself, so you need to comfort him, and he will say that he looks good and will definitely find it.

You can say that 30 years old is still very young, and if you don't meet someone you like at this age, you won't settle, and you will want to find a relationship in your heart, but it must be the person you like.

It's not that I'm 30 years old and I'm not looking for a partner yet, it's just that because of the person who loves me, she hasn't come yet.

You can tell him that you haven't met the right girl with eyes, and if you do, you will naturally develop, and this kind of thing can't be rushed.

First of all, you can say that I have been waiting for someone, I have been waiting for thirty years, and I don't mind waiting any longer.

You say that it is about him, if you care so much, I will help you introduce the person, it is really a lot of things, but I also want to thank him for caring about you so much.

For this situation, others must have bad intentions, and I think you can treat him directly.

Because I don't want to find it, how free a person is, and I haven't borne it yet, so I can't get married just because I should get married.

The person I like and the one who is suitable for marriage with me has not yet appeared, so what's wrong with being 30 years old? I earn money first and then support her.

Let's just say that I haven't met a suitable one, if you have a good one, I will introduce one? Just kidding and it's over.

Waiting for your introduction? There is no suitable one.

So to speak. Hope.

Man: I haven't had enough! Woman: There are too many people chasing!

Let's pick again, definitely not to make a living.

Because they feel that they want a better life, and they don't pin their hopes on feelings, they are not in a hurry to find a partner. I am in such a state of mind now, because in my opinion, feelings will be met sooner or later, even if it is in a hurry, it is useless, it is better to wait slowly, maybe we can wait for the most suitable person.

Maybe many older people will face the urging of their families to get married, they will feel that they are so old, why not rush to find a partner, in fact, they don't really know these people, although they are a little older, but they have their own pursuits, and they also have their own ideas, and age is not much of a burden for them, but others are in a hurry, and sometimes they are too anxious, and there is no use, but it will make us miss the most suitable person, So people will choose to wait slowly.

People in their thirties, their ideas are more mature, and their vision is more long-term, so they also have their own standards for treating feelings, as their friends or family members, we should give them some support, more than one should not always urge them to fight them, that will only make them more anxious, not for their good at all, really good for them, is to accompany them well, give them more understanding, so that they will meet the most ideal relationship.

In this world, not everything can be rushed to come, sometimes we need to wait, so in the process of waiting, we must work hard to make ourselves a better person, so that when we meet the most suitable person, we will leave a good impression on each other, and we can also meet a particularly beautiful relationship.

I hope that everyone doesn't care about other people's opinions, even if they are very old, I also hope that people can meet the most suitable person and have a particularly happy relationship, because their own happiness is the most important thing.

It's because these people are used to being single, and they also feel that they are younger, so they are not in a hurry to find a partner.

Because of their personality, they feel that if they can't meet the person they like, they would rather be single and reluctant all the time, so they are not in a hurry.

Because these people are very stable, have their own ideas, have their own jobs, and can live well by themselves.

As the saying goes, when a man gets married, a woman gets married, and when we grow up, we have to fall in love, get married, and build our own family. But some people will grow up to be single for some reason, and these people will feel anxious if they are still simple and physical when they are older. But I don't feel that way......The reason why I have this is because I think that love and marriage depend on fate and cannot be forced, the life of self-amusing pants in a single state has not been affected, and now that people are getting older and older, they don't have to worry about these three reasons.

1. Love and marriage depend on fate, which cannot be forced.

Falling in love and getting married is not a casual thing, you need to be with someone who is really suitable for you. If you don't meet the right person for you, you can't fall in love and you can't get married. ......Therefore, falling in love and getting married depends on fate, which is something that cannot be forced, and everything should go naturally.

Therefore, even if you are older, you don't need to feel anxious if you are still single.

2. My life has not been affected by anything in the single state, so I am not anxious.

Although he was single when he was older, his life was not affected by this. ......In the state of being single, I can arrange my food, clothing, housing and daily life well, and I can also have intimate interactions with my relatives and friends, everything is in a normal state, so although I am single, I do not feel anxious.

3. Nowadays, people are getting married at a higher age, and they don't have to worry.

Nowadays people pay more attention to the quality of life, but also pay more attention to career development. Therefore, people are getting older and older at the age of falling in love and getting married, and it is very common to fall in love and get married after the age of 30. ......Because of this, although I am still single at an older age, I am not anxious because of this, let alone anxious.

Summary. You ask the girl, why don't you find a partner? He said that he was not in a hurry, he waited for 30 years old, you said that you would be old at the age of 30, and no one wanted it, he said that people are not old. You didn't finish your words after that, what the hell did you say?

I asked the girl why don't you find a partner, he said he was not in a hurry to wait for 30 years old, I said that 30 years old are old and no one wants them, he said that people are not old, and I said that you are not.

You ask the girl, why don't you find a partner? He said that he was not in a hurry, he waited for 30 years old, you said that you would be old at the age of 30, and no one wanted it, he said that people are not old. You didn't finish your words after that, what the hell did you say?

I'm sorry I typed a few words less,,I asked the girl why don't you find a partner,He said he was not in a hurry to wait for 30 years old,I said 30 years old and no one wants it,He said that people are not old,I said you are not a rich woman,He said that he will raise me when he is 30.

Does this girl raise you too?

It's not that I typed you less.

He said that when he is 30 years old, he will raise you. That's what it means, right?

Right. Isn't he kidding you? What is the relationship between the two of you? Is there a lover relationship?

Not really. What he expressed was a joke.

I chatted with him and I said I was bored to death, he was playing with other men and sent me a screenshot, I said get out, I'll chat with someone else, he said he hung up, and he called me ** later, saying why didn't I call him ** just now, and said that I know how much I value you.

Looks like she's interesting to you! You have to pay attention.

Every time they saw me, they called me and sometimes asked me if I smoked.

It's good, your relationship is very good right now.