Why forgive her again and again, forgive again and again, what s going on?

It can only be said that you care about him a lot.

Think clearly, speak clearly.

Nothing can be forced.

Think about it, what to do!

Look at the opening point. Give yourself a way out, give others a way out.

Hope you're all right

You can't do without her, you are passive in love, and she grasps this weakness of you. You need to improve yourself, like a seesaw, if you want to get what is in front of you, you have to add weight to yourself to lean like you.

Because you don't have faith and you're afraid of losing her. You can prepare a secret audio and video recording equipment like in a TV series, talk to the man, and pretend to exchange money with him to make the man leave the woman, and test his attitude, if the man resolutely does not leave, then there is no way, your life should be like this. If he is willing to exchange, he will say that he will raise money and show the audio and video materials to the woman, and maybe she will change her mind.

Your wishful thinking is useless, the key is that the woman's wish to turn back.

Divide it, don't take chances.

She couldn't let go of that person.

If you are also not willing to forgive her again and again, it will be a vicious circle.

Why can't she have friends? Is there necessarily something wrong with men? You're too narrow-minded, isn't it, how will she live with you in the future? It's not love, it's selfishness!

Asking the world is a ,...... of thingsFirst of all, you see if she really loves you, if she doesn't love you, you will divide it, and the woman in the world Dole is! What's more, she's the only one?

Forgiveness does not mean erasure. More or less it will still leave a shadow, if you can face it and it is not a matter of principle, you can try to forgive, of course, it also depends on whether the person is worthy of forgiveness, the nature of the good has no intention of making mistakes, then it's okay, in the face of a friend who has hurt you, when he apologizes to you, I think, you should not easily forgive.

Because only by respecting and loving oneself can we gain the respect of others for us. For those who have hurt us, even if we want to forgive him, let your tolerance and generosity have weight and value. In this way, others will learn a lesson, change themselves, and take you seriously.

In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, but we can't avoid being hurt by friends, some are mentally hurt, some are physical, in short, these injuries will bring us pain.

When we are faced with harm, each of us will respond in a different way. Some people endure in silence, and some people fight back, which also reveals their own personalities and ways of dealing with the world. There is a good saying, what others do to you is what you do to others.

If someone hurts you, you can easily forgive, for someone who knows gratitude, he can also perceive your tolerance and generosity, for a heartless person, he will only think that you are easy to talk and bully, and even laugh at you in your heart for being stupid and cowardly.

For your kindness and your generosity, such people will not care about you and hurt you with greater harm. There is a classic line in the movie "The True Color of Heroes", that is: You always have to pay it back when you come out to mix.

Every adult should learn to pay for their actions. If you do something wrong and hurt others, you should have the courage to take it, apologize to others with a sincere attitude and practical actions, obtain the understanding of others, and you should also know how to be grateful, cherish the opportunities and trust given to you by others, and never turn yourself into the snake that bites the farmer. 

First of all, if you forgive someone who betrayed you, if you forgive him, there will be a second and a third. People will have a fluke mentality. If you forgive once, he will think that he may forgive the second and third times.

Second, even if you try your best to forgive each other, because of betrayal, the relationship between the two deteriorates, and there will always be a little pimple in your heart, and you will never be able to go back to the past. Third, forgive someone who betrayed you. The other person will not feel that you are generous and forgiving, and will not cherish you because of your forgiveness.

On the contrary, they will think that you can't have him without coincidental circumstances, emotionally worthless, humble, and wantonly trample on your dignity. Fourth, because of betrayal, there will be no more trust, but more suspicion and suspicion. Forgive the betrayal, and you will worry about the betrayal of the other person again.

You live in this worry and doubt all day long, and you don't trust each other. Betrayal is a shameful and hurtful thing. Even if betrayal happens, we can't allow ourselves to suffer.

If we look at betrayal from a different perspective, it is not necessarily a bad thing for us. Secondly, the current betrayal of filial piety may be okay, and you can leave decisively, which is much better than betrayal after marriage, and it will be difficult to solve the real rock jujube at that time. In addition, betrayal allows us to start a new life and find someone who truly loves and cherishes us.

In short, I will never forgive in the face of betrayal. Betrayal means that there is really something wrong with the two people. Instead of reluctantly, it's better to find one that really suits you. Therefore, it is not easy to forgive a person who has betrayed him.

Since it has been hurt, it will not be easily forgiven, unless it is properly compensated and sincerely apologized. Here's why:

1.Just apologizing won't help

If a person is hurt physically, or mentally, or if the other person loses something important, then these injuries are unbearable, and what is the use of apologizing for the person who has been hurt? Is there anything that can be remedied? Can it alleviate the pain of the other person?

Actually, you can't, so it's useless to apologize.

An apology is just knowing that you are wrong, but the damage has already been done, and there are some things that cannot be remedied with an apology. So in fact, it needs to be compensated, and it is not sincere to say sorry perfunctorily.

2.Will this person be hurt a second time

If this person has caused harm to others, although he apologizes, but in fact he does not think so, such a person may also cause secondary harm to the other party. Therefore, nature cannot be easily forgiven.

And if the perpetrator did it on purpose, then this apology will make the injured person relax their vigilance, and even create a chance for the perpetrator to be hurt twice.

3.It's hard to really forgive

The real forgiveness of the person who hurts himself is actually not a sentence on the surface, but the heart really doesn't care about it, don't care about it, whether it is mental or physical harm, it has been **. Instead of wronging oneself in order to forgive others.

Therefore, if the other party sincerely apologizes and makes appropriate compensation, and his own trauma has healed, then he can forgive the other party.

In a relationship, whether it is a boy or a girl, they should be single-minded, if two people really can't live, then they have to choose to break up, and then look for a new relationship, so that they will not be hurt, but some people are not single-minded and hurt the girls who love them again and again, so will the girls forgive each other again and again?

1. If the other party really has a hard time and makes herself angry, the girl will forgive the other party.

In the relationship, we all want each other to be transparent, the other party has nothing to hide from themselves, and loves themselves wholeheartedly, but sometimes the higher we demand, the more often we are hurt, and sometimes boys have no way to meet everything for girls, it is indeed bitter, so that girls are angry, in fact, girls can also forgive boys, because girls will also look at problems from the perspective of boys, girls know that only mutual tolerance can make the relationship last.

Second, if the boy's feelings are not dedicated and hurt the girl, the girl will not forgive the other party, again and again.

In the relationship, if the boy's feelings are not single-minded, and he plays ambiguously with other girls, when the girl finds out, he reminds the boy that the boy still does not change, and may do more out-of-the-ordinary things, the girl is very angry, will not forgive the boy again and again, and will finally break up with the boy, because the girl knows that the boy can't give the love she wants.

3. If it is a white lie, the girl will forgive the boy again and again.

Some boys cheat on girls, in fact, for the good of girls, this is what we call white lies, for white lies, girls will forgive boys, because they know that boys do this is a sign of love for themselves.

If a boy loves a girl, then please treat her well and don't hurt her again and again, otherwise such a relationship may end in nothing, and it is a pity to lose a beautiful marriage.

Girls will endure boys again and again, but this patience is not unlimited, when a boy touches the girl's bottom line, she will definitely not forgive the boy again.

Some girls will forgive each other again and again in their relationship, mainly because their personalities are weaker and more emotional, so they will be soft-hearted and forgive each other.

As long as it is not a mistake of principle, most girls should be able to forgive each other, girls are very soft-hearted and will always hope that the other party will change, so it is easy to forgive each other.

Social, because girls are very soft-hearted to the people they like, so they will always forgive each other.

If in a relationship, the guy does a lot of things that are sorry for the girl. A girl may choose to forgive once, twice and not more than three times. Because it's not more than three. I think girls also have a bottom line, so I hope boys can understand girls' hearts.

In the relationship. A woman may forgive a man once or twice, but it is impossible to spare him three times, because there are no more than three things, because women also have a bottom line for feelings, so men can't go too far.

Girls will certainly not forgive such behavior.

Because a person can still be forgiven once in a while, if such a thing happens again and again, then this girl will definitely be disappointed in him.

Hello, this varies from person to person, everyone's personality, hobbies are different, and the way of treating emotions is not the same, sometimes you may choose to forgive again and again, but there are few such people, usually the so-called things are not more than three, and generally will not forgive again and again.

In a relationship, if the woman loves each other very much, I think he may forgive the other person again and again, because the woman has no self-esteem and has lost herself.

In a relationship, some kind or weak girls will forgive the boy again and again. But the number of injuries is too much, and they will also resist.

When the disappointment is enough, the girl will leave, because the girl will not forgive each other again and again. Therefore, girls also have their own bottom line.

When a girl loves deeply and loves very humblely, no matter what mistakes the other party makes, he will forgive the other party again and again. Because she cares about this person very much, in such an emotion, this girl will be more likely to be hurt.

People will make mistakes, if it is an unintentional mistake, forgiveness is tolerance, and not forgiveness is calculation; If it is intentionally wrong, it is stupid to forgive, it is normal not to forgive, and in the end, it is impossible to forgive you again and again.

Surely there will be no forgiveness once and again, there is a limit to human patience, and once it exceeds his limit, she will never forgive you again.

Occasionally, if you make a mistake in the relationship, the girl should forgive, but if you make a mistake again and again, the girl will not forgive it again and again.

It's up to you. You have to look at the man, look at his behavior, character, etc., and choose if you are optimistic. Don't be in a hurry to get involved with him and see if he treats you well.

It won't be like this, he forgives you for the first time, then if you do it again for the second time, he will not choose to forgive you, or even choose to break up.

Women forgive again and again, not because she doesn't hurt, but because she endures.