My brother is about to collapse the whole family, my brother is about to collapse the whole family,

I have a relative who is now just like your brother.

Frustration at work is one of the reasons for him, most notably because of love.

He has slapped many times, and each time it is the end of a breakup.

Maybe it's because I've been injured too much, and now I'm in my 30s, and I'm staying at home all day, and I don't talk much at work.

Manifestations of insane disorders at the point.

When he was angry, he scolded his father, and sometimes even hit him.

It's exactly the same as you said anyway.

It is a psychological pathology, so to speak, depression.

I think the reason for this is mostly due to failures and setbacks.

If he doesn't manage it early, he stays one day at a time.

Until a nervous breakdown.

It is not okay to ask him to see a psychiatrist now, and generally strong people will not admit that they have psychological problems.

Like the second floor said, you'd better probe him carefully, through his friends or acquaintances or something.

See if he's been frustrated by failure, or something else.

Then aim at his wounds, believing that they can bring him back to normal life.

Bless you!

I can't say what caused your brother to be like this. But from my experience, your brother is a man who has been pampered since he was a child, and there is nothing to prove his ability. You are a person who has a strong sense of responsibility and feels that there is a lack of solutions to specific problems.

Then, you should find a thing for your brother to do that can give full play to his strengths, don't go to see it every day, think about things that upset you, otherwise your bad mood will be transmitted to your family.

To save your family, you first have to be happy, and then try to "infect" your happiness to your family, and if you can't, at least don't let their unhappiness infect you.

When you encounter unhappy things, the first thing that comes to mind is not how to "solve", because many unhappy things seem to be unchanged, but in fact they will be forgotten over time, and the first thing that comes to mind should be how to "dilute" the unhappy things with another positive thing.

For the initial manifestations of typical depression, go to a psychiatrist as soon as possible, take some antidepressant pills, and buy him some emotional regulation and motivational books.

Parents are a little more concerned, and it is better to go to the doctor all the time, otherwise, it will be very troublesome.

He has normal intelligence and no problem with his spirit, but there is a generation gap with you, because you have never thought about what he is thinking in his heart, or that a certain way of communication you have adopted has touched his scales, your brother should be a very emotional person, try to communicate more, but first of all, he must melt the barriers of his heart, when a person does not trust others enough, any bad action can cause a sense of disgust, this task should depend on you. Don't mention the countryside! This psychological problem is not a regional cause.

Your brother is very sensitive, I think you have to deal with your relationship and find a way to make him confident, he has an opinion about his father, there must be a reason, you should find out the reason and prescribe the right medicine. Don't preach to him too much, but let him understand for himself through some means. For example, show him meaningful movies and so on.

Also,I hope he can meet cheerful and kind girls by himself.,This can also make him confident.。。

It is also possible that your brother is in some special psychological state during this time, and after a long time, I believe that he will be sensible and will know the good of his family. Give him some time, step by step, and let him get better slowly.

You should always talk to him about positive topics that interest him and try to avoid mentioning his vulnerabilities.

What he needs now is self-confidence.

He needs someone to encourage him.

You have to try to take him out and do more things that interest him.

Sometimes the more you show concern, the more you will make him impatient.

You have to act as if nothing happened.

Inadvertently complimented him.

Over time, I'm sure he'll change.

He may have a mental disorder, and it is recommended that you take him to see a psychiatrist.

I don't know how to say it, we only have sympathy, I really don't know, I hope you can live well.

It's useless to complain, it's better to go outside, the outside world is so exciting, and if you have more contact, he will change, and he will have hope for life

It's up to you to wake him up.

Why not try to forgive them, older elders.

Everyone's family is different.

You can't have them as a stand-in for your biological parents.

They will definitely think more about their children, which is your husband.

Take your time, time is the best concoction.

It's okay to laugh more and move more.

Don't think of yourself as a princess.

Because your husband and you are going to support each other for a lifetime, it's not that he is tired of you and treats you as a baby all his life.

Who is bored and will not be annoyed for a lifetime.

This is your mistake, the way to be a wife, to respect your husband and love your son, to be diligent and thrifty, to live within your means, and to serve your in-laws without complaint.

Self-reliance is the right to speak. Now that you are eating and living in the old man's house, you must have to endure it.

In fact, it is a matter of getting along between two generations. It's best to move out on your own.

Did you tell his parents that you were going to have a baby?

I am very sympathetic to the situation of you and your mother, first of all, the house is the joint property of the husband and wife, and it cannot be because of who earns more and who is less, there is no one's house, so you should have a share! But Dad and his family think about it like this, Mom's economy has not been good, and it is not the main family income, and now after selling the house, not only does not consider your situation, but my sister's family also has a lot of debts, even if you want them now, they can't take it out! If you go through the legal process, it will be invalid after the litigation period, and the family will be dissolved, and your mom and dad will become a substitute for this matter!

For the sake of your mother and her family, which is not easy to form, you should discuss and communicate with your father and sister, and don't let your mother be caught in the middle! I hope my father and sister can give you some love, my sister now has children, you have to care more about your sister, people's hearts are full of flesh! At the same time, on the premise that you don't go through the legal process, even if you don't get anything, I have to advise you a few words!

You can fight for money when you don't have money, you are more lonely without your mother, you sacrifice money instead of life, and your future will be glad that you did it right!

After reading your experience, I sympathize with you. The following is my opinion for reference only: it can be seen that you care about your mother and family, and now you must make a choice, if you don't get the money, give up, and never bet on your mother's happiness.

Sometimes giving up is a kind of relief, a kind of relief, your life is still a long way, think about it in the long run, experience life with your heart, you will find that there will be too much helplessness...

Talk to a lawyer, or you can ask your university professor who teaches law and see what to do.

Your mom is just thinking about you, and you just want to tell him what you care about more.

There are indeed many contradictions in the combined family.

Hey, civil is hard to decide.

Your mother is not wrong to think that way. It's just that it's been a relationship for more than 10 years, and it's been a mess now,,, the foundation of family feelings is not solid, so your eldest sister won't give a good face in the future. . . You said, your sister is lukewarm, in fact, if she has a good attitude, you don't have anything to do in the middle circle, after all, you will go out in the future, find a capable husband, much stronger than your sister.

But now, your sister doesn't know what attitude to treat your mother.

Sympathy, he's more selfish. It's a big deal, it collapses, and if you really don't have feelings, you can get all the benefits. You don't have to worry too much, you have to work too, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain.

Raise yourself yourself, and support your mother again when you have the ability in the future. You are your mother's only dependence. Don't count on your stepfather.

Do everything you can to save. If it's not worth saving, forget it. If it's worth saving. Save it no matter what!

Feelings don't come easily. So it must be cherished.

Even if it's a family that's about to break up, you have to work hard.

Even if it's not for you.

Also for the sake of the children.

A sincere apology can save your feelings, even if it's not your fault, you have to blame yourself.

You think too much A lot of things are unchangeable for you Your sister is 14 years old at the age of rebellion It's useless for you to be anxious at the moment You are mainly looking for some friends who are more familiar with her to ask your sister's QQ and the like, little girls are quite fond of surfing the Internet, maybe you or her friends will meet her on the Internet At present, there is only this way It's not that you're useless In fact, your sister is spoiled.

I can understand your feelings. She actually chose to leave, and she would arrange her own future affairs. If she doesn't have a place to eat or live outside, she will naturally contact you first.

Because you have a deep sisterhood. I'm sure your sisters will feel the same way. Don't worry too much, wait for her at home quietly.

I hope your sister will be reunited with her family soon.

Your little sister is too young, she still needs you to educate her, when she has family affection but doesn't pay attention to it, she may not know its importance until she loses it. You're also worried about your little sister, so you have to educate her well and get along with your little sister when she comes back in the future!

Friends, quietly think that they will go a**? Their best friend's house? Or is it a family of relatives?

And that kid who wants to run away from home wants to go**? What's with? At this time, you need to be calm the most, you think about it and analyze it well!

Finally, I hope you will be reunited soon! Good luck!

Today's children are like this! We also came from adolescence, and we didn't cause any trouble for the family.

Maybe after a long time, she will want to open it and she will come back.

I hope you cheer up soon and find your sister soon...

Adolescence, be considerate.

Adolescent girls are no less rebellious than boys, and there is a saying that at the beginning of a person, sex is good. No one is born destined to be what kind of person he is. A person's personality is directly related to the family environment, the school environment, parents and friends, and so on.

Your old girl can run away from home and be a 14-year-old girl. I feel a great responsibility to be her parent! The child is small, and the truth can be taught slowly, but the principle must be told to her!

I hope your sister will come home safely and safely soon. In addition, you should play a supervisory role as a sister, rest assured, the child will definitely be recovered. Published in the newspaper, TV station.

Do the search for revelations. Based on what you know, she's going to go out. Home is the best, learn more.

Will definitely find it! When the child comes back, I hope you can educate her well. In my opinion, your sister's is not willful, but stupid.

I don't know the darkness of people's hearts in society.,Blindly do what you want to do.。 This is stubbornness! I wish you all a speedy reunion with your family and a good education for your children!