I met her parents yesterday, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If they don't like you, they will say it to your face during dinner, or let the girl tell you directly, they won't make any hints with oranges, as long as you are upright and beneficial, what is there to worry about?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm dizzy, just say it directly, man, don't stuff things in your heart!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, for the first time, from the perspective of my father, even if I have a subjective consciousness, I can't easily make a conclusion, after all, we are still too strangers to each other. And you have to talk to her, at this time, the boy wants to get straight to the point, so that he can get affirmation and manliness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think so! She said it was too cold and didn't mean anything else. There may be, and you'd better ask your girlfriend about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you love her, make it clear to her parents that you love her. Hopefully her parents will be able to keep you together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ah, ask your girlfriend first! Ask her what her parents think! The point is that you're married, it's not them, right? Maybe her dad may have a little bit of an opinion about you, and I said it's best to discuss it with your girlfriend, "Hehe, I wish you all happiness."

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Emotional things are always full of twists.

    This is a necessary process, you have to have your own way of life! Don't be distracted by other external factors.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Father made you return to the embellished.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's so necessary.

    First: Although the woman's parents are not the final decision-makers who decide whether the woman marries you, they are also the main decision-makers.

    Some women, although they love the man, if their parents do not agree, they may also give up their love in exchange for the happiness of their parents.

    Before you propose, go to the other party's parents and pay attention to whether they are satisfied or dissatisfied with your actions and words.

    If you are not very observant and the other party's parents are still polite to you, then you can also ask the other party if her parents have a good impression of you, and search for files and disagree with your relationship.

    This is very heavy, you know each other, she shouldn't lie to you when she speaks, she said no problem, of course, it's good to be cautious, she said that she doesn't care about them, then you have to be cautious, and you have to ask for marriage when you are sure.

    Second: Decide whether you should propose or not through the opinions of the woman's parents to avoid the frustration of a failed proposal.

    If you propose, but fail, you will definitely be very hurt, more uncomfortable than the thunder of the sky, so you should not fight a battle that you are unprepared and uncertain about, before you should fight, you must prepare the weapons that should be prepared, so that you can return victorious.

    In addition to asking for the opinion of the other party's parents, you also have to knock on your girlfriend's thoughts on marriage, although some girls love you, but she doesn't want to get married so early, she still wants to be free for a few years, if that's the case, you don't have to propose.

    Only when the other party's parents do not object to your relationship, and the woman loves you enough and you want to get married, can you propose to the other party, win all battles, and marry the beauty home.

    Before proposing, remember to make the atmosphere more romantic, so that the other party can feel your sincerity, and when you send a signal of "marry me", you will receive a "I promise you" excited signal in less than a second, which feels so beautiful when you think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    And together, I definitely want to see my parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to ask if you really love your girlfriend, if you really love her, then you have to be firm, you have to work hard to make her happy, with firmness, everything is not a problem. The etiquette of meeting your girlfriend's parents for the first time still has to be done.

    Tobacco and alcohol: Wine to send, you are also in front of the year, even if her parents do not have the habit of drinking, but at the end of the year, her family to relatives or something always use, is a practical gift. Although the same is true for cigarettes, after all, smoking is harmful to health, so it is not recommended to send it.

    Tea: Sending tea can not only be used by your girlfriend's parents, who can't drink it, but also to entertain guests during the Chinese New Year.

    Dim sum gift box: You can go to Daoxiang Village or or buy a box of better dim sum from you, not in the many, but in good packaging. It's better that they know.

    Think about who your girlfriend's parents are besides his parents, you can sell them as a main gift, or buy something fresh or something to eat if it's like a child. The elderly like children, and her parents should think that you are a very attentive hot.

    You can also buy some of the more famous specialties in your area, if you are not from the same area.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How can this be called sudden? Is it your partner who informs you that his parents want to meet and ask him to take you home? If that's the case, then isn't that good, because your partner has already mentioned you in front of his parents and is still relatively happy with you.

    They want to see what a very beautiful object looks like in their child's mouth. And I feel that the two of you have been dating for a long time, it's time to meet, so that your love relationship can be recognized by your parents and completely settled. Especially the man's parents have a very strong desire to see their future daughter-in-law, and they feel that their son is not too young, so they hurry up and settle down, so that they can get married as soon as possible.

    It's a good sign, put your mind in order, discuss a specific time with your lover and your partner, and ask his parents if they have anything in particular that they like. Then prepare a decent dress, prepare a gift, and happily go home with him to meet his parents. You don't need to feel nervous or scared or anything, as long as you behave decently, have a sweet mouth, and take the initiative to help with some housework with a little eyesight, you will definitely be able to get the approval and liking of the target's parents.

    Of course, if his parents are hiding it from you, they are asking to meet you privately without his knowledge. It's a bit of a tricky situation, except that they want to see what kind of person their kids like. For the most part, they are unhappy with you and think that the two of you are a bit of a mismatch.

    However, the soldiers will block it, and the water will cover it. Be prepared, think about what they might ask you, and be flexible. Even if they have a bad attitude, be sure to show your mature and atmospheric side.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you can meet, of course, if you don't plan to develop with him for a long time, don't meet, find a reason to shirk it.

    In fact, I've seen some of the object's parents before.,I feel that some are really unnecessary.,At that time, I thought about being a little more generous.,I thought it was a normal meeting.,As a result, people made it very formal.,Finally, after the breakup, I feel very sorry for my parents.。 So if you are aiming to get married, and you have a relationship with your partner to the point where you can talk about marriage, you can indeed meet other people's parents, pay attention to the number of gifts, as if you have to bring a meeting gift or something.

    If you haven't thought about it for the time being, but your partner said that her parents just want to meet you, and it won't be more formal, I think this situation can also be seen, be generous, maybe this is a request from other people's parents, just want to meet, if you keep saying that you can't see, it will make people unhappy.

    But if it's very formal, but you haven't thought about the future with her, don't meet for the time being, because formal occasions will inevitably say a lot, and if you don't plan to be with others for a lifetime, don't be happy with other parents for the time being.

    As for whether this is formal or not, I think your partner should know, after all, it's your own parents.

    And if you decide to meet, it should be you who visit them, not them, and I think you can discuss it with your partner. If you really want to be with your partner, then try to behave better, dress appropriately, be able to speak, pay attention to etiquette, not humble or arrogant, and sometimes I guess you have to prepare some words like your future plans.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws. See it, you can't hide from it. That's up to you to see how you lack the looks, so prepare well.

    You just carry the morning tea generously, and try to show the excellent side of the sedan chair itself. Beat the level!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dear friends, my reply to you is: 1. It is estimated that you are currently in a relationship, so first of all, I sincerely congratulate you! 2. If you are very fond of the woman, I personally suggest that you should first share the good news with your parents, which is an obligation and behavior to respect your parents; 3. You said that you have already met the woman's parents, and you don't know how the other party's parents feel about you?

    In terms of words, attitudes, and manners, you should have your own inner feelings, right? Sincerely hope you are doing well! 4. Compare your heart to your heart, both parents are equal, and you have already accepted the "test" of the other party's parents, so I think girls should also come to your house and accept the "test" of your parents; 5. After all, the days are long, so it is recommended that you first discuss and communicate with your own parents the idea of "bringing a girl into the house to meet your parents", or first remind or explain what kind of person the girl is and your evaluation of her, so that your parents can be psychologically prepared Don't say bring it in, just bring it in!

    6. If a girl is reluctant to meet your parents, there may be several reasons: First, she thinks that she is not psychologically ready, such as some people think that she is not beautiful, for example, some people think that she is not well-paid......Wait, it may be her inner reason, so if this is the reason, it is recommended that you do her ideological work, after all, two people love each other is the premise, everything is about love! Second, maybe she thinks the time is not yet ripe, so it is recommended that you find out the approximate time when she will meet your parents; The third is that maybe she doesn't make it clear that you are her clear love partner (of course, I sincerely hope that this doesn't happen) - I suggest that you don't have to "advise" her to meet your parents, if a person likes the other person, he or she will genuinely tolerate everything about the other person, including his or her family members, his or her past experiences, ......etcTherefore, I sincerely hope that the two of you will communicate well, and love is based on sincerity!

    I hope I can help you and wish you sweet love! Happy and smooth new year!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He goes to your house, and the meal is the leftovers from noon that he eats with your parents, which is not called an advantage, let alone his turn to dislike it or not, life is like this, don't your parents eat the same? The seniors all eat like this, why can't he as a junior?! He went without telling him beforehand, so he just touched and ate.

    And from a certain point of view, it is very rude to go to someone's house without notifying them, which catches them off guard, and foreign countries will mind this very much.

    But this does not mean that he is bad, it's just that maybe he is pursuing you, wanting to surprise you, or in the heart of a villain, he wants to take advantage of your unpreparedness and suddenly go to see the real situation in your house.

    But from your description, you never admit that you have a relationship with him, you never admit that he is your boyfriend, you just say how long he has been with you. Then he goes to your house and you don't admit that you like him. But now that he's ignoring you, you're lost again, aren't you?

    If you like it, accept it, if you don't like it, say it, don't play, don't hang it. Otherwise, it is you who really loses, and you are the one who suffers.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you're overreacting, and you should take the initiative to get along.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't you like him, it's not what you want if I don't talk to you...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Going to meet your parents without saying hello to you is not very mature on the one hand, and on the other hand, it shows that he desperately wants your parents to know about him, and hopes that the relationship will be recognized by your parents, which is a signal that he wants to marry you.

    You tell your mother that you don't like him, quarrel with him and say you hate him, if that's what you say, you might as well tell your boyfriend frankly that things about the two of you need to be discussed, and you don't like his arbitrary behavior. Regardless of the facts, you are not ready to introduce him to your family, if you really like him, you might as well tell him to give you more time, the matter of the two needs to be discussed together.

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