How can we not hold grudges against the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Look forward and think of the good husband.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard, it's hard (it's not possible), even if you forget it for a while, you will remember it again at some point and a moment.

    Wish: I wish you happiness in the future!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Always trying to forget, in fact, is constantly reminding yourself, remembering this person, these things! As a result, the memory is deepened, and of course it cannot be forgotten.

    In fact, the best way is not to think about forgetting, at least not to forget deliberately. Go with the flow, divert your attention, and those people and things will slowly fade away.

    No one can forget anything! Time can dilute everything!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    We all used to think that there are some things that we can't let go. We don't give up on a person. "I'm not going to let go.

    Actually, there's nothing you can't let go. Time goes by, and when you look back, you will find that what you once thought you couldn't let go of is just a springboard in life. All the sorrow, all the pain, all the things that you can't give up, is just a transition in life, you skip it, you can become more brilliant.

    Falling out of love, frustration, or even losing marriage, and even the suffering we suffer in love, are just a springboard for you to grow. The hardest thing for people on the springboard is not the moment when they jump down, but the struggle, hesitation, helplessness and gains and losses in their hearts before they jump down, and they can't confide in others at all. We thought we couldn't skip, closed our eyes, plucked up courage, but we skipped.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hating this thing will harm many people, rather than hating, it is better to strengthen yourself, love life, and treat yourself well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wait until the day of enlightenment and enlightenment, otherwise you will never be able to do it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone has something unforgettable in their hearts.

    It always appears in my mind scene by scene like a movie, and the more I want to forget.

    The more profound it becomes.

    Want to forget. Don't remind yourself to forget.

    That would only be more profound.

    For scars. Is it unwilling or too painful.

    You don't need to worry about it.

    Because you can't always live in memories.

    Keep yourself busy or distract yourself.

    This wound will heal slowly.

    Although it will leave a scar.

    When you gently brushed it through.

    It will remind you.

    What you've experienced.

    Whether it's sad or sad, it's all the way you go through life.

    When you see it, you also see that most of your life is still intact, so why bother with this little scar.

    to hinder their own path ahead.

    The future is blank.

    Everything is looking forward.

    You don't experience pessimistic things all the time.

    When many years later you look back.

    You will feel that this injury is actually nothing.

    Not remembering is the best medicine to forget.

    Dedicated to your adoption is the greatest encouragement for me.

    Good luck

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think, you want to forget a relationship, put it alone! Actually, every time I see a girl who has been hurt, I feel heartbroken!

    Without further ado, let's talk about your problems! Forgetting is the same as not forgetting, and not forgetting is also equivalent to forgetting to fall in love with someone, which is hard to forget.

    Even if it is amnesia, can it really be forgotten if it is amnesia?

    I can't see it, it's impossible to forget someone, to forget someone I once truly loved.

    So don't deliberately try to forget someone, that will make you even more forgetful.

    To be a man to learn, to let go, to think open, to escape one day to face, since you already want to forget, then let go of everything, from now on, to be a new self, live well, in fact, when you really learn how to let go, you look back, look at this matter, you will find that you were really stupid, silly cute, so cute that no one loves.

    In fact, after you fall in love with someone, why do you feel that after leaving him, your world has become dark, it is because.

    From the moment you start to love him, you make your world smaller, and one day, when you lose it, you don't know that your original world is small, and you feel that you can't do without him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A person always has to take a strange road, see a strange scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten.

    How can a man be spared from the things of his heart?

    Since it is inevitable. Time will slowly blur whether sad or happy. In the end, in the depths can only be memories.

    Nian An. Everything will be fine ...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really want to forget, keep yourself busy, busy yourself are working while you sleep, so that you don't have time to think about those troubles, the more you are free, the more you think, but the busier you are, the longer you will not think, even if you think about it, because it is too long, you will feel idle.

    1: Time is the most unforgiving, and everything will be diluted with the passage of time. Don't always think about how I can forget it, in fact, the more people want to forget something, the more they are entangled in it. On the contrary, when you don't think about it, you forget it.

    2: It can be replaced by other activities. For example, reading books, listening to **, chatting with friends and family, and talking about the heart can achieve the purpose of temporary forgetting.

    3: Thinking about the good side of everything, I will transfer you a story here, "Cup Bow and Snake Shadow" and "Jin Shu Le Guang Biography" One day, Le Guang invited his friends to drink in the hall at home. When the friend was drinking, he suddenly saw the shadow of a small snake shaking in his wine glass, and he was very disgusted, but he drank the wine anyway.

    After drinking it, I felt uncomfortable and couldn't rest assured. When he returned home, he became ill.

    A few days later, Leguang heard the news of his friend's illness and learned the reason for his illness. Le Guang thought to himself: "There will never be a snake in the wine glass!"

    So he went to the place where he had been drinking that day to check it out. It turned out that on the wall of the hall, there was a bow painted in color. The shadow of the bow happened to be reflected in the place where the friend had let go of the wine glass, and Le Guang ran to the friend and explained it to him.

    When the man understood the reason, he was immediately cured.

    Later, people used the metaphor of "cup, bow and snake shadow" to be suspicious and disturb each other.

    After reading this story, will you rethink whether you will have a new understanding of what is bothering you?

    I wish you happiness, and forget the unhappy things in the past.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This shows that certain things have a bit of an unforgettable impact on you, so you want to forget, so the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget. That, there are many things in the world that cannot be explained, especially emotional problems, which are even more confusing, whether it is experts or ordinary people, they say that it is still messy if they don't clean it up. It's up to you to untie the knot, and it is said that time is the best medicine for forgetting, but there is actually some truth to it.

    It is recommended that you try it like this: firstly, if you don't consciously think about those things, let yourself think about it seriously, although you can't think of a reason, but you calm down and think about it seriously, your mind will feel numb to the past in a certain period of time, secondly, find more meaningful things for yourself to do, and indifferent to the memories of the past through continuous work, and then, communicate with your friends as necessary to release your body and mind as much as possible, and believe that after a period of time, you will devote yourself to a new life.

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