Awareness of politeness, perception of politeness

When it comes to interpersonal relationships, many people think that they are very complicated, or very lofty, but in fact, interpersonal relationships come to life and life, and work, and the common feelings of everyday people.

1. Tea seven. When it comes to tea ceremony, many people know that many places in our country pay attention to tea culture, tea art, and tea etiquette. But in real life, in many places, in order to show the warmth, hospitality, and atmosphere of the Chinese people, when pouring tea, they usually like to pour the cup completely full, is this practice right or wrong?

In fact, when serving tea, the size of the cup should be divided, if the cups are very small, you can pour it full, if it is the kind of large cup, such as a disposable paper cup, you should pay great attention to this time, you can't pour it full, pour the tea only pour seventy percent, so in many places left such a sentence "tea is full of deception" words.

2- Rice eight. With the development of economic living standards in recent years, we Chinese have solved the problem of food and clothing, there is no shortage of food and clothing, our Chinese hospitality has been fully exerted on the table, when the guests come to the house, always hope to let the guests eat well and be full, at this time, involuntarily when filling the guests with rice, the rice is filled into a big bowl. Tell the guest that if the amount of his meal is small, it will cause unnecessary waste, and if the guest leaves the meal left, you will think that the guest will dislike your meal for not being tasty.

If the amount of food is too large, you may fill a large bowl and the guest will be embarrassed to return to the bowl, and the guest will be half-full at your place. Therefore, in our Chinese table, we are very particular about serving only eighty percent of the rice, so as to avoid the two phenomena just mentioned, and at the same time demonstrate the quality and quality of your table, but also highlight your warm hospitality.

3- Full of wine. When it comes to drinking, our Chinese wine culture is even more colorful, for example, take the wine order as an example The wine order in each place is even more varied, but all in all, all the wine orders are marked by auspiciousness, wish, happiness, etc., such as what brothers are good, six or six Shun, four seasons wealthy, perfect, etc., everyone is in this atmosphere full of beauty, to establish a good and long-term relationship. But you must pay attention to the fact that the customs and habits of each place are different, and the way of toasting is also different, for example, some places pay attention to large bowls of drinking, and some places pay attention to small cups and slow drinking, etc., but whether it is a large bowl or a small cup, you can take a closer look, it is to pour the wine full, there is such a sentence in the wine field called "wine is full of respect, tea is full of deception", so you must master this sentence, otherwise others will think that if you do not pour others full when pouring wine, others will think that you are ignoring others, is belittling others, thus causing unnecessary psychological estrangement.

Politeness is a norm for dealing with the relationship between people, and it is a moral rule that people should abide by in their daily interactions, and it is the embodiment of civilization. Politeness is mainly manifested in: civilized language, friendly attitude, and dignified manners.

Politeness is the "calling card" of communication:

Politeness is the attitude and deeds of prudence, modesty and respect, and the appearance of virtue of respecting others; Politeness shows a person's cultural connotation and good cultivation; Politeness can add grace and charm to a person; Politeness is an essential form of communication in a civilized society.

Etiquette refers to the basic social etiquette to be observed in the process of socializing, which is manifested as: civilized behavior, elegant work, chic posture, proper tidying, natural expression, good behavior, dignified appearance, proper dress, pay attention to hygiene, etc.

The importance of politeness and etiquette:

1. The importance of attitude affinity:

In daily interactions, if we are sincere and kind, we will give each other a sense of intimacy and respect, and will shorten the distance between each other.

In a social group, if everyone has such a humble and friendly attitude, it will enhance friendship and solidarity among people, and make us feel warm and happy.

2. The importance of being dignified:

Dignified behavior can reflect our elegant temperament, reflect our moral quality and civilization, and is a good way of behavior that we should cultivate.

Civility and politeness should be reflected through dignified manners, and paying attention to the norms of hunger and behavior is the basic requirement for our social interactions.

3. The importance of politeness:

Politeness is a civilized body of filial piety, in the process of treating people and things, everyone has the need to treat each other politely, politeness in meeting people's needs at the same time, but also to meet people's self-esteem.

Whether or not a person is civilized and polite is by no means just a personal matter, nor is it an insignificant trivial matter, it shows whether a person has moral cultivation, affects the quality of interpersonal relations and the quality of social atmosphere, and has a bearing on the dignity of the state and the nation.

When we have politeness, we have an affinity for people. Our politeness to people is mainly manifested in language, attitude, and behavior. Civilized language, friendly attitude, and dignified manners are essential qualities for friendly interactions with others.

Fourth, the importance of etiquette:

Consciously speaking etiquette is not only related to our own image, but also directly related to the people around us, our collective, and even the image of our nation and country.

Doing what etiquette requires will help us to further improve our moral level and spiritual realm, and we will become more elegant and amiable, and more easily accepted.

Misunderstandings about politeness and etiquette in interactions:

1. Paying attention to etiquette is a kind of constraint.

2. Whether to be civilized and polite is my personal private matter, which has nothing to do with others and has little impact.

3. Some people believe that the state of etiquette in the history of the Chinese nation and the traditional etiquette of our nation should all be inherited and carried forward today.

Politeness reflects the behavior of a person Liang Noisy.

The concept of politeness is the code of conduct for people to show respect and friendship in contact and communication, and it is the minimum requirement of civilized behavior.

If you talk about etiquette, you can become charming. Since ancient times, the Chinese have paid great attention to etiquette, and China is known as the "country of etiquette". Etiquette culture has a long history and is a study that Chinese must understand.

As early as more than 2,000 years ago, Confucius, a great educational thinker in China, said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." "In modern society, with the convergence of the world, that is, although there are still great cultural differences between different countries, there is no doubt that etiquette, as a necessary communication condition, has become a necessary condition for modern people to gain a foothold in society and seek smooth development in people's exchanges. Therefore, it has become an inevitable trend to learn etiquette and apply appropriate etiquette.

Etiquette permeates people's daily life, embodies people's moral concepts, determines the norms of people's interactions, and guides people's actions. In social life, everyone treats each other with courtesy and becomes a conscious action, which is a manifestation of the progress of social civilization.

Politeness, etiquette, and etiquette are closely related. Etiquette is the basis of etiquette, etiquette is the basic component of etiquette, etiquette is higher than politeness, etiquette, its connotation is deeper and broader. Etiquette contains four elements, namely the subject of etiquette, the object of etiquette, the medium of etiquette, and the environment of etiquette.

All etiquette and learning must be based on reality. Follow the customs, the host is as easy as the guest, and the guest is as he thinks.

Etiquette is beneficial to both the individual and the society, and its functions are as follows: to help shape a good personal or organizational image, to improve moral cultivation, to coordinate interpersonal relationships, and to serve as a prerequisite for the correct communication of information. As a norm of human behavior, etiquette has six characteristics: commonality, normativeness, difference, epochality, public morality, restraint and continuity.

Any food has its own rules, and of course, etiquette is no exception. Respect, self-discipline, tolerance, equality, hierarchical proportionality, conformity, sincerity, moderation, etc., are the principles of etiquette. This is also the criterion for whether our words and deeds are correct and appropriate under different Beijings.

Any social organization, as small as a store or as large as a country, if it wants to make friends, gather information, enhance the understanding, trust, cooperation and support of the relevant public, and want to create a good image of itself and fully realize its goals, it is also inseparable from etiquette.

Etiquette is not only about personal cultivation, but also about the interaction and deepening of interpersonal relationships. You don't have to look like a fairy, you don't have to be a country and a city, if you can be elegant and funny, then you are not far from success. When you use polite language to talk to people in social interactions; Interact with people with civilized manners; Use decent documents to communicate with people, and people will definitely feel your polite bearing, generous temperament, and civilized and moral cultivation, and they will have a little respect.

Elegant and reasonable conversation, cordial and overall appearance, people will feel a warm spring breeze blowing a wave of enthusiasm all over the body.

The word "etiquette" was first seen in the Book of Songs and the Book of Rites. In modern society, the word "etiquette" has a broader meaning, including etiquette, etiquette and rituals, rituals prescribed by customs, codes of conduct, communication procedures, protocol order, moral norms, and so on. But no matter what kind of era, what kind of nation, and what kind of individual, etiquette cultivation is very important.

As a culture, etiquette is an important component of the quality of an individual and even a nation, and it is a symbol for people to deal with interpersonal relationships in social life and express friendship and goodwill towards others. Etiquette can make a person moral, can create an ideal personal image, can make a person's career successful, and can also make society more stable, civilized and harmonious. One of the most important formulas for success is getting along with people.

Any social organization, as small as a store or as large as a country, if it wants to make friends, gather information, enhance the understanding, trust, cooperation and support of the relevant public, and want to create a good image of itself and fully realize its goals, then it is inseparable from etiquette. Of course, in the field of our college students, etiquette and politeness are also very important. At the talent recruitment fair, college students who speak elegantly, dress appropriately, have a dignified appearance, have a generous demeanor, and have good etiquette are more favored by employers.

Paying attention to etiquette and following etiquette norms can effectively show a person's upbringing, demeanor and charm, and better reflect a person's cognitive level and respect for others and society, so that personal knowledge, cultivation and value can be recognized and respected by the society. Appropriate and proper etiquette can not only give the public the trust and desire to be amiable, respectable, cooperative, and social, but also make the process of cooperation with the public full of harmony and success. College students are a group with a higher level of knowledge, and they should raise a higher level of morality and etiquette.

Hug: Stand facing each other, raise their arms, put their right hands behind each other's left shoulders, hang down their left arms, and hold each other's right back with their left hands. Kiss ceremony:

The elder kisses the junior, the elder kisses the junior's forehead, and the junior kisses the elder's chin. When a peer or sibling kisses, they can only stick one to each other's cheeks. Namaste:

Also known as the gassho ceremony. This ritual is common among Buddhist countries or followers of Buddhism in East and South Asia. <

1. Hug ceremony: The two people stand frontally, each raise their arms, put their right hands behind each other's left shoulders, hang down their left arms, and hold each other's right back with their left hands.

2. Kissing ceremony: the elders kiss the juniors, the elders kiss the foreheads of the juniors, and the juniors kiss the jaws of the elders. When a peer or sibling kisses, they can only stick one to each other's cheeks.

3. Namaste ceremony: also known as gassho ceremony. This ritual is common among Buddhist countries or followers of Buddhism in East and South Asia.

4. Kiss the hand: The kiss is when a man kisses the back of a woman's hand or a finger. The acceptance of the hand kiss is restricted to married women only. The man gently lifts the woman's right hand with his right hand or both hands, leans over and touches the back of the woman's hand or fingers symbolically with his slightly closed lips.

5. Handshake ceremony: A handshake is a etiquette for most countries to greet each other when meeting and parting. A handshake is both the primary etiquette for people to greet each other when they meet, and an appropriate expression of congratulations, thanks, comfort, or mutual encouragement.

If the other party has made certain achievements and progress, the other party can give gifts, as well as distribute prizes, certificates, and congratulations, and shake hands to express congratulations, thanks, and encouragement.

6. Bowing: When meeting with foreign friends in Japan, South Korea and other Eastern countries, it is a common etiquette ritual to bow and express respects. There are different forms of bowing at ° and 45°, and the higher the degree, the deeper the respect for the other person.

Basic principles: In a specific group, a 45° bow should be made to the elder with the highest status and highest standard; The second line of identity is a 30° angle bow; Equal status bow at a 15° angle.