The attitude of the girlfriend, how to deal with it, is it worth it?

Forehead. LZ has sunk, and it has only been a year and a half since graduation What is the hurry to get married Even if you don't need your parents' money to get married, do you think you will be happy after you get married.

You and your wife for so long and you don't know what she wants? What she wants is a life that doesn't lose to the bad environment she used to grow up in In other words, she doesn't want you Just a man who can give her the kind of life she wants, and you can't give anything Maybe LZ won't agree to say that now, but if you really separate She's definitely not married to what you once thought Two years, or anything else, simply can't tie you together forever The most important thing for you now is to struggle to make money, She is the most important thing for you, but not the most necessary If she gives up on you, you will find a better one later, and if you are married now, it will be a big hindrance to your future development.

Well, I just saw that LZ dares to get married even if he owes money, not to mention the car and house Don't count on your parents, do you want to rely on your father-in-law and mother-in-law to buy it for you What I said is very cliché, maybe you want to get married now with the concept of love and struggle, and then develop It is recommended that you understand first, marriage and love are not the same, not such a fun thing At least you are really not suitable now, it is estimated that you are only about 25 now, career is God, brother.

LZ is not worth it.

Identification completed.

It's not anyone's fault, the reality is such a situation, there is no way, as a man, if you can't give your woman the life she needs, then it's better to let her go, if you are reluctant to be together, it's very sad, why bother? I'm in a similar situation to you, that's what I'm doing, I don't have to think about anything now, try to be myself, maybe there's something better waiting for you ahead, hehe, right, I hope to help you,

I'm a girl, and my family conditions are pretty good!

Her willingness to associate with you shows that she still likes you, in fact, girls have a little self-esteem and ask for things.

It's not too much to get something qualitatively.

I think you can make it clear to her that I don't have a bad temper, but I understand the most basic truth, and I know the difference between right and wrong. Now that he has decided to marry you, there is room for negotiation. It's normal, it's normal for a girl not to ask for anything too much.

But if she just wants to get married, she can have a better choice. So let's discuss!

Of course, you can't stand him at all, so forget it! Marriage is forced to such an extent, who can guarantee what will happen in the future?

Oh... She said your parents paid for it, right?

Why don't you say that her parents paid for it? It's a two-party affair.,Parents have a situation where they pay for it.。。 But it's not all about it.

It seems that in some places, which party has more money, which party will pay more.

Because of this, my boyfriend and I also have conflicts. He didn't work hard himself, and wanted to rely on my parents to contribute more money.

I don't want to do that, you don't want them to pay for it like you said, because you think they have worked hard for most of their lives and should enjoy it, and you really don't want to ask them for their hard-earned money.

Scold! He didn't think about my family either. He thought about his family.

How to say it. Marriage is a matter for two people.,Of course, it's about making money and getting married by two people.。。 Everybody thinks so! ～～

Mugwort... We are the same couple. But the two sides are thinking opposites, and I think it's ridiculous...

How to say. If she loves you, she can't really not marry you because of this. It's just that I can't figure it out for a while, and I'm just angry

Seriously, how many people are there now who don't rely on their parents a little? If you really have the strength, don't rely on your parents' money;

Good boy wow, really filial piety, seriously, did she really say that, if she still wants to get married, why should she think about marrying a chicken and a dog and a dog I shouldn't care about those and I don't understand it It's a little unreasonable Otherwise, you're getting married after a while? Besides, it's almost a year before the end of next year, and I'm trying to do it now.

Hey......Money is something outside the body, and it can't be done without it.

Money is a bastard, and it's not going to be earned.

Otherwise, if your parents don't want it, you will give it to them at a family party and let them buy whatever they want to eat.

Even if she is willful, she should be reasonable.

You can talk to her about your thoughts and ask her to understand.

If she understands you, then you have to try.

If you can't, I advise you to think about it, otherwise it may become after marriage"Tracheitis"

You just ask her if she wants to marry you! If she wants to, she will wait for another 2 years, work together and save money together, and then the family can have a little less and reduce the burden on her parents! If not, buddy, then you'll have to watch it yourself...

A person who doesn't even understand his future parents-in-law should not cherish it. Marriage is run by two people, and each should be upheld, not the contribution of one party.

Take less from your parents and earn more for yourself

Oh, yes!! Career Career Men rely on their own careers!! Agree with the upstairs.

Aside from these specific points, there are differences in ideology between the two of you, and you don't see the same perspective, opinions, etc.

If you are still a boyfriend and girlfriend, it is recommended to break up and change it, this kind of thing, it is difficult for both parties to change each other, because many behaviors are habitual and unconscious, and they often don't understand how they make each other angry.

Men don't get recognition from girls, and over time, they either really go bad, or they seek comfort from other girls, so they either hurt themselves or hurt each other.

And girls also feel that men are inexplicable, boring, and even utilitarian, so how can you two get along with each other and support each other.

If you are married, it will be difficult, you need to run in slowly, and even go through several large-scale quarrels, if you can get through it safely and spread out and talk to each other, you can still grow old together.

The basic method is to communicate with her, only by talking will you know the other party's physiognomy, and only by expressing will you get the result you want.

If she is still with you, it means that the balance in her heart is now in your favor. And you've figured out why. Let's solve the problem.

I don't think the relationship between the two of you has reached that awkward point, so no matter how stupid the way is, you should try to keep it, contact her with a lot of trouble, care more about her, until she changes her mind, sincerely tell her that you take this relationship very seriously, tell her that the relationship should be single-minded, tell her that you trust her, and hope that she can trust you, tell her that it is just a temporary good feeling, cherish the moment is the most important thing, forget him. Try to tell her what you think in your heart, she will understand, space and freedom, there should be space, maybe you are too sensitive, maybe the situation is really improving.

Love has to be a last resort, in case she is very decisive, one bite will definitely not go back to the past, change your mind, you have fought for everything, what should be done has been done, it is she who betrayed first, it is she who does not know how to cherish you, why do you have to be so persistent that you give up the entire forest for her, let time heal everything.

Feelings are a matter of both parties, it is yours and always yours, not your reluctance and happiness.

Hope you understand.

Not to mention breaking up. Coldly fretting her. You're still young, and you're picking. She is clearly saying that she is choosing. You also choose. There are many good girls.

Be gentle with her and say nice things about her.