Emotional issues: People think I m doing the right thing

Yes and yes.

No, it is the relationship between lovers who is determined without seeing the relationship clearly, so that your longing for the relationship is discounted, and it is inevitable that you will think that how can love be like this? .

Yes, it is the struggle for the return of unjust enrichment when you see that you have no feelings.

True love can transcend material things, and people who really want to be your girlfriend will not make such material demands on you.

It should be right, but you should have seen it a long time ago that you would have asked for such a valuable gift within a few days of getting along, is it normal? Unless you're going to give it to her. When she asks you for these gifts, she should have refused!!

I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing, that kind of person is not worth your effort, and I didn't know you for a long time, so I asked you to buy this and that, why? Maybe she just cheated you out of money to eat and watch movies with you. Ignore her, she wouldn't do that if she really liked you.

Don't feel guilty. Live your own life.

Divide it. Is it your money that loves someone? True love looks at the invisible things that you have in you that attract him, such as:

temperament, morality, etc. The woman you said never loved you at all, he was interested in your money, and I would rather not look at a woman who is more emotional than money!

Of course you're right, that woman is clearly lying to you. There's no need to entangle with her.,It's right to leave early.,Otherwise, it'll be even more difficult in the future.。。

First of all, it can be said that she doesn't really like you, otherwise she will think from your perspective and understand how hard you work to make money. So she shouldn't have been promised to sell so much in the first place. Secondly, since you bought it, don't ask for it back, although you are very aggrieved but you can't help it, a man, forget it for her.

What's right She's just asking you to spend money for her, I guess I just want these I can't find anyone to buy it, see if you're happy or not, you bought him a mobile phone today, and you'll be asked to buy a car another day, if you don't buy it, you should have seen it a long time ago, right? If you are willing to spend money for your girlfriend, it depends on your ability.

That's right, but you should have seen it a long time ago, you shouldn't have bought her a phone!

Hehe, that's a clear mistake for you, don't pay attention to such people, you're doing the right thing, don't think too much.

Yes, the gentleman is not a big money, and she is not a junior, and I don't know if she has the qualifications to be a junior.

That's right, she doesn't really like you, how can there be such a thing, she will ask for these amounts in a few days.

That's right, I don't think that woman is the kind that makes you bleed.

You're too stupid, obviously a money lover, it's right to break up. Don't feel guilty.

It's okay to take things back to defend your rights, and I hope that you don't use too drastic ways to do it, and you don't hurt the other party, otherwise it's wrong.

I think he's just taking advantage of you. It was right to break up.

Yes, since she is too embarrassed to ask for it, are you still too embarrassed to refuse?

I'm a woman, and I support your approach, he just wants to find a wallet, and he doesn't care about anyone, I pretend to be noble with her,

Dizzy, such a woman also has!

I believe you have found your own answer, remember to see it in the future and then make a move, save the toss...

Why are you so "good",,Set a bottom line for yourself, so that you won't be as miserable as this time...

A little girl thinks differently than others.

Good man, the answer is in your heart, go find your true daughter!

Divide. It's normal, but the iphone5 hasn't come out yet, right?

Does the girl have the surname of Jin??

Husbands and wives need to leave some space and distance, and they will quarrel when they are together every day. Now that your husband is out at work, he knows that he is homesick, which is a good thing.

When your baby goes to kindergarten, it is recommended that you also go out to find a job, be financially independent, and both parties will work hard for the family, and the days will get better and better

That's right, that's right, as long as you treat her well and move her with sincerity. Love her well, and she will love you well, so the two of them must be considerate of each other's faults when they are together. Therefore, you must love each other well, and the other party will love you well.

I think the words should still be emotional, because you are not the other party, so you don't know the other party's feelings, and the work you do is not the work that the other party does, so you don't know the feelings, so he thinks.

Your relationship is still there, but your relationship has matured It is not the same as the previous willfulness, after all, two people have experienced such a serious thing as divorce Although you will quarrel sometimes, but you will sometimes have scruples, because you don't want to lose each other.

I think there will be a burnout period in marriage, and you are now in the burnout period of marriage, and two people still have to understand each other and tolerate each other, both of them are working hard for this family.

Money can maintain the affection that a man should have.

This person he loves most is himself, to put it bluntly, it is selfish, his so-called seeing through life is just to understand the problem from his own point of view, to look at the problem, never to consider the feelings of others, the other people here include his family, friends and colleagues, he escapes from reality, escapes from life, this has not yet begun, he chooses to end it by himself, I see a lot of people living tired and unhappy, but do you really think that they are really tired and unhappy? Maybe in the eyes of others, you don't understand anything, you are tired and unhappy, there is nothing wrong with being single, but you must learn to love others, learn to tolerate the troubles and sorrows that life brings to you, don't feel that you live the most chic all day long, think that you are stupid to the house The landlord thinks he is a thoughtful person Then maybe he is also running away from himself He knows what is wrong with himself Maybe he just doesn't want to go or dare not change The words are a little extreme, but the truth remains the same I hope your friend will really make a change Because I used to live like that.

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Hello, I heard you describe that you want to understand the emotional aspect of the problem, and now you are experiencing some confusion, right? You can describe in detail how things have progressed between you and the problems you are encountering.

Questions. I've known a girl for a month and a half.

I've eaten, watched movies, been to the villa, given me immortal flowers, and she gave me two bottles of red wine.

I gave her a warm treasure today.

Uh-huh, ask.

What she responded.

Something received

Don't break the bank, I'm so embarrassed.

Thank you, don't give it away like this in the future, buy yourself more delicious food [snickering].

It seems that the interaction is not bad.

Questions. Before, I asked her what she did.

She said in the puzzle, and when she was done, she gave me one because she had a lot of heart for her.

He seems to be responsive to you and will offer you gifts.

Questions. Can we continue to have a relationship like this? Does she understand what I mean? Every time she had to eat, she wanted to take money, but I didn't let it.

After sending Nuan Bao today, I plan to invite her to Western food this Sunday, and give her a bottle of perfume.

It's a little early to talk about continuing to date now, can he understand what you mean, I think many girls may want to have a sense of ceremony, if you really like her, you can, there is a confession, otherwise the other party is not very sure, what kind of way do you use or attitude or identity to interact with him, he will definitely not take the initiative to stick to you, I think you can invite him to eat Western food again, with a flower on it, with a little text, and then with a little confession language to him, That might be a little clearer.

Questions. I've known each other for a month and a half, and I'm afraid of rejection.

Then if you don't say it, you judge for yourself whether you want to continue dating, will you misjudge, and then you also waste your own time, waste his time, then if you think he just doesn't want to associate with you, then you leave, as if you are not together in the end, then you confess and are rejected, and the final result is not together, but you may be more hopeful if you confess.

This kind of thing takes into account that he has thoughts, but the realm of thoughts is different from the direction we are taking. There are a lot of helplessness in life, the choice is not for yourself, although you don't want to do anything, but you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it, this is life. All love, sincerity, and seeing through will become as fragile in front of life, nothing can stand the scrutiny of time, nothing can stand the polish of life.

Just think about it, after a long time, he will get married and live the same life as everyone else. Everyone is the same, this world, there are no exceptions

Ask the same question! I think this friend of yours is very similar to me, and I'm at that stage right now. I didn't understand why someone would see through the red dust before, but now I finally understand.

If a person thinks too much, he loses the joy of being a human being. You don't have to worry too much about him, as long as he can work well, he will naturally find a lot of joy in life. He just wanted to live the life he wanted to live, and now there are very few people who can follow his heart wholeheartedly.

There are some things that I don't understand now because I haven't reached that state yet. Maybe he figured it out that day and was willing to get married and have children. Maybe you figured it out that day and wanted to live the same life as him.

Merry Christmas!

Thinking of living a single life for the rest of his life only represents his current thoughts; This boy should still be relatively young now, as time passes, when all his friends and playmates around him have anxious families, wives and children, he will feel that life is missing something, and he will naturally need this feeling, and then his thoughts will naturally change with life, and now his thoughts are estimated to be difficult to change! That sentence is very good Although I know that marriage is the grave of love, but if you don't want marriage, isn't it a place where you can't die!

It may be that he feels too tired to live in such a mode, such a model is not the life he wants at all, the gap between the ideal and the reality is too big, he is an idealist, such a person is estimated to slowly change his current thinking in the future life. In fact, many people had this idea at the beginning. The key is the understanding of the worldview.

In fact, the reality is like this, after all, there are still many imperfections in society, if you are self-centered and escape from reality, then it is good to live like this. If one day he thinks that I can take on the burden of the family and take on the responsibilities of a father, his mind will change. If he doesn't run away from reality, or if he has the courage to change, or if there is someone to make him change.

I want to live a single life for a lifetime: I just don't believe in myself, I don't admit myself, it's just that I don't want to struggle, work hard, and give myself an excuse to degenerate, many successful people are not how superior his family conditions are when he was born, but they can be ruthless to themselves when they can struggle, to fight, to sweat, to use their brains, instead of making all kinds of excuses for themselves every day not to work hard、、、

Zi is not a fish, you know the joy of fish! No one can feel the happiness and pain of others by seeming, everything must be done and felt by oneself before it is possible to understand happiness and pain. I think that person is a bit of a blessing and does not know the blessings, he has his parents to support, he has money to go out to play, he has a good body to eat and sleep.

There are people who care about themselves and those who care about themselves, and this world is complete! The meaning of life is not what you get, but what you give, make the people around you happy and cherish the people in front of you!

Actually, your friend and I think the same thing is repeating the same thing every day, and I see everything quite thoroughly, but is it really through it? Not necessarily, I'm still skeptical, and in the final analysis, I live too rationally, or deliberately close my heart for fear of being hurt. So try to find something that you are interested in but have never dared to try, and there may be unexpected surprises!

This kind of life pressure may be a problem for a small number of people in society, and slowly channel it so that he can establish the right goals in life. If it is not impossible to live alone, it mainly depends on whether the family members are under pressure.

He walked in a dead end, you can think about it from the other side, when the child is born day by day to bring you different surprises, a family leisurely walk in the park, go to the supermarket to buy what they want is a kind of happiness, it is better than being alone!

People's ideas will change, a stage has a stage of ideas, with the increase of experience, the precipitation of time, many ideas will be different, he is only 21, but he is a young boy, don't worry.

If analyzed psychologically, this is not to see through life, this is to escape from life.

Logically analyzed, this is very normal, this is the social reality and pressure that modern society gives us.

This kind of problem must be answered psychologically.