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In this case, I suggest that you forget it, this is not a choice between face and work, this is a question of face.
It's obvious that your former roommate is deliberately trying to make things difficult for you, watching your jokes, and even if you choose this job in a fit of anger, he may take other ways to make things difficult for you in the future.
There are many opportunities to find a job, not necessarily the whole country, there is only such a job suitable for you, as long as you are willing to make up your mind, willing to start from the bottom, willing to endure hardships, you can find any kind of job.
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The reason why an excellent person is excellent must be what she has done right, put aside her face, do what she should do in a down-to-earth manner, secretly strive to improve herself, look for the advantages of the employer, and think about what can be learned?
She is the employer, her arrogance is her business, if you can't get used to it, ignore it, just concentrate on being yourself!
If you are an employer and she does things for you, what will you do to her? Since I don't like her attitude, I don't do it myself.
Learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings.
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Follow your heart and choose in the way that is most comfortable for you. Think long-term, think long-term.
Imagine the result: you go to your roommate as a nanny for that extra salary, and spend time with her every day, of course, you used to be roommates, but now you are employed. She's your boss, and you have nothing but obedience to her.
She can think that your cooking is not delicious, or that you are not good at cleaning, or that you are not diligent enough, and she can show you her superiority, after all, she has the final say in paying you a salary. Of course, you must also be able to endure and meet the various requirements of the employer, if there are any grievances, chew and swallow yourself, you must know that you are here to earn money.
Then if you refuse the job, you may face a temporary lack of money, or you will have to continue to submit your resume for interviews to find a job. But it's just a job as a babysitter, and if you turn it down, you might find a better or more worthwhile job for you. After all, you didn't go to college to be a babysitter for your roommates.
In the long run, if you write this experience into your professional resume in the future, then I believe that most company HR will ask you about this experience, and you have to think about how to be beautiful. Finding a job after graduating from college is a road that hones people's will, and it will not be so easy to find a suitable one, and you need to have enough patience and confidence. Go for it!
Believe that you already have an inner voice.
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1. Do you think that work is important, or face is important, if you just think that this is a job, then it is not important to you whether you are an acquaintance, the important thing is that you do this job well, and you can get better returns and income.
2. No matter what kind of work, it is worthy of respect and understanding of others, because it is by one's own efforts to be a person and do things, but it is more proud and fulfilling.
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Choose a good job, of course! However, if you want a regular job, you have to live. Face is just what others think of you in your own heart, in fact, people don't care too much about what you're doing, whether you're doing well or not, people won't care about it at all.
So, live in your own world and don't care too much about other people's eyes. If you can find a regular job with a high salary, even if you are tired, you will be very happy, and if you are tired during the day, it will be good to sleep at night.
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I don't think this work is okay, it's not a shameless thing, just because the employer is a roommate, originally classmates can get along peacefully, treated with a normal working relationship, but the roommate has an arrogant attitude, and also raised a lot of details, which is obviously difficult, it can be said that this job is not easy to do at all, why bother to humiliate yourself, in other words, as long as you look for a job, there must be. There will not only be such a job as a roommate, as long as you treat it with your heart and bear hardships and stand hard work, you will live your own wonderful life in **.
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Actually, both are very important, depending on how you choose. If you need money urgently, you can continue to work. If you don't need money urgently and feel awkward about working here, you can choose another job.
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Personally, I think you can change another family, your roommate is so arrogant, looking down on people, I think it hurts my self-esteem, I think this is the opinion, I generally don't like to work for acquaintances, embarrassing, very embarrassing, you think about it yourself, and then make a decision.
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People want face, trees want bark, and face is the most important thing. It's not just one job. Don't think of yourself as so humble, and don't miss his part. People still have to have their own pride, even in the darkness, their hearts must be turned to the light.
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I think that work and face should first choose work, because work is the basis for reflecting the value of life, and it is also the basis for living expenses.
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First of all, it depends on what the situation is and whether you can ask for this face. If I find out that I was working as a babysitter for a former roommate, and she is very difficult for you, then I would rather not do it. I must be dignified, and I will ignore anyone who touches my dignity.
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I think I choose a job. Face is such a thing only if you have enough strength. rights or economic power after that. You only have it.
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This is a matter of the heart, not a matter of face, if you feel capable and comfortable, then do it, if you are not happy, don't do it, happy is the most important thing.
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Working to make money is the most important thing, and face can't be eaten, as the saying goes, you have to save face and suffer from it, don't let the love of face hurt you! So work is far more important than face!
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Try not to have a relationship with your friends, or you won't be able to do it.
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What is face, money is the most important. As long as you don't steal or rob. The money came cleanly. That's it.
When you are well in the future, look back at this experience. You'll be grateful for the experience.
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Wouldn't it be okay to change employers, nannies are paid very well!
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What do you do with no job and no income? If you think you can't get over your face, you can just change your employer.
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Of course, the work is important, face is not worth a few dollars, for the sake of face, it is to satisfy others and suffer yourself.
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Do a good job and do a good job, and the face is self-evident.
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It's up to you, not me.
My words are important, but which one is important to you?
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If you don't have to consider the issue of income and face, then many jobs are no longer hateful, but show their original cute appearance.
When I was a child, I saw a pink ice cream truck in a movie, and I thought that I would drive this kind of ice cream truck when I grew up, and sell ice cream in the streets. Free and happy, what a happy job!
My ice cream truck had to be dressed up so that the kids would be attracted when they saw it, and the adults would want to eat the ice cream when they saw it. The variety of ice cream must be plentiful, and there must be a cone.
Whether it's a pink car or a sweet ice cream, it's a symbol of childhood. Childhood is the most carefree. It's a pity that we can't go back.
Now, if I don't have to worry about my livelihood and what other people think of me, I want to be a gardener. Spend time with flowers and plants every day.
And after being with people for a long time, you will feel that flowers and plants are more cute. They are so quiet and beautiful that they won't demand too much from you. Although it also needs to be cared for, it will reward you with a piece of greenery and brilliant flowers.
Therefore, to be a gardener, you must be in a good mood every day, and you can exercise moderately. Florist is a good job. In the busy and noisy life, you can find a peace of mind that belongs to you.
Actually, then again, if it weren't for the money, for the sake of survival, I wouldn't want to work at all. I want to be a scrap wood to eat, drink and have fun, hahaha.
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It can be said that there are many people in today's society who do decent jobs, in fact, he doesn't want to do this job, he also has a job he likes, but sometimes he has to do it for the sake of face and salary, so he can only pretend to be happy, but his heart is extremely painful, and he has no choice but to go on hard.
If I don't care about anything, if I choose to work, I will choose to be a chef, because I like food, I fell in love with chefs when I was in high school, and I was also influenced by the tip of my tongue in China, I told my family before the college entrance examination, I want to learn to be a chef, and my family strongly objected to what kind of chef, there is no future for being a chef, you see who wants to be a chef, smelling the smell of oil smoke all day long around the pot, you are a boy, what future do you have to be a chef.
It can be said that my family is very opposed to me being a chef, but I just want to be a chef, although I went to college to study science, but my dream has not changed, I secretly enrolled in a chef class when I was in college, I don't know why my family knew about it, and my family came directly to the school and scolded me, why are you so disobedient? I had no choice but to give up my dream, I am now in the real estate industry, but the dream I was born with has not changed.
Now that I have a regular job and a decent salary, I can do what I do, and I would say that in a few years I will definitely give up my current industry and go to be a chef I want to do, go around the pot, take my spoon, pick up my spatula.
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The job I want to do most is open a small restaurant.
Just like the hero of the TV series "The Third Charm". Go to a foreign country to learn to be a chef, return to your own country, open a small restaurant, only receive one table of guests every day, carefully select the ingredients to arrange the meals, and watch the guests eat the most painstakingly cooked meals every day.
I think that the initial job, although many family members do not like it, but it will really bring people happiness, make a good meal every day, I will feel excited, eat people will feel happy, in the current fast-paced life, people only pay attention to the speed, often lose the quality, lose the sense of happiness.
Everyone should slow down, don't care about the eyes of the people around them, and find what they really like.
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If I don't think about salary and face, the job I want to do most is open my own little grocery store.
Do you remember the commissary you had to run to as soon as you got out of school when you were a kid? This should be a common memory for every child, every time after school I look forward to the most is to see the grandfather of the commissary, and then buy a favorite popsicle, chat with the grandfather, and after eating, I will go home happily with my friends. These memories have remained in my mind, and they are the most precious part of my precious childhood memories.
So, growing up, opening my own grocery store became my deepest dream.
In a materialistic society, parents want their children to be productive. My parents are no exception, they want me to be able to take the civil service exam or work in a foreign company after graduation, and I think they are doing it for my good, and I will do the same. But in my heart, I still hope that one day, there will be a small grocery store that will appear.
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I want to do a job close to home, in addition to being able to accompany my family during work hours, and taking them out for a walk during breaks, they all say that companionship is the most affectionate confession, but how many people can do it. In fact, as they grow older, parents prefer that their children can be by their side, rather than sending money to the family every month.
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If it's just a hobby, I still like to engage in automated single-chip microcomputers, and so on, but the reality is that you must eat well, otherwise no one pays for your actions, although the electronic class makes money, but it has been broken out, not the first peek into the hall.
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I will be a fitness coach, go to work at noon, get off work at 9 o'clock in the evening, meet people to help him gain muscle, lose fat, and don't have to deal with people he doesn't like because of performance.
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If you don't think about salary and face, then of course you will choose to do a job that is both easy and free, no matter what kind of job it is.
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Then I wanted to be a photographer the most, and when I was in college, I invested in learning a lot of photography skills, but I gave up because of the helplessness of real life! Because photography allows me to discover all angles of the world, to be a chic and free photographer, with a soul that is free from the world. No matter how much you earn, how much you earn or how little you play, what you enjoy is fun, and what you enjoy is freedom and beauty!
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If I didn't think about the salary, I wanted to be a police officer, a criminal investigation policeman, and that feeling of working overtime every day, but serving the people every minute.
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Producing grain and vegetables in modern factories, I don't know if you count farmers or workers? Haha, it will be very rewarding for everyone to eat safe food.
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