The woman is pregnant, and the man asks the woman to decide whether she wants to have a baby or not

The man's attitude of letting the woman decide whether she wants to have children or not may imply a variety of meanings, as follows:

1.It may indicate that the man is not responsible. If the man genuinely cares about the woman and really wants to raise the child together, he should actively express his opinions and ideas, rather than putting all the responsibility on the woman.

2.It may indicate that the man may be suspicious of the relationship between the two. If the man firmly believes that the relationship between the two is stable, then he will pay more attention to the child and will take the initiative to take responsibility instead of leaving the decision entirely to the woman.

3.It may indicate that the man may have some worries about his future life. For example, if the man believes that the birth of a child may have a greater impact on their standard of living, or if he is concerned about his future financial means, then he may let the woman make the decision.

Of course, the above is only one of the possible explanations, and the specific situation needs to be judged according to the actual situation of both parties. It is recommended that both parties fully communicate, think rationally, and face problems together before making major decisions.

On behalf of the man, he is very unworthy of his duties, he doesn't know how to hurt his wife, this kind of person will live up to his duty when he gets married in the future, and before you marry him, you'd better think about it.

There is nothing wrong with the court's decision. This is a verdict based on the evidence provided by both parties.

In order to overturn the judgment of the first instance, valid evidence must be provided. After all, there is no basis for words, and the court must also make a judgment according to law based on factual evidence.

If the parties do not obtain a marriage certificate, it is not a legal marriage, but an illegal cohabitation and is not protected by law. According to the provisions of Interpretation II of the Marriage Law, the bride price must be returned. The parties are unable to provide evidence to prove the specific amount, and the court can determine the amount based on the average of local customs.

Legal Analysis Defense: There is a right. According to China's Law on the Protection of Rights and Interests of Women, women have the right to have children and the right not to have children, and women have the right to decide on their own childbearing, and men have no right to interfere.

Husbands and wives of childbearing age shall follow the relevant provisions of the State for family planning, and the relevant departments shall provide safe and effective contraceptives and technology to ensure the health and safety of women and accompanying women who undergo birth control operations.

The State implements a system of premarital health care and maternal health care, and develops maternal and infant health care. People at all levels shall take measures to ensure that women enjoy family planning technical services and improve women's reproductive health.

It is okay for a married pregnancy to require the husband to pay child support, and the man also has the obligation to support the child born out of wedlock, and according to the relevant laws and regulations, the child born out of wedlock has the same rights as the child born in wedlock, so the man shall pay child support in accordance with the law.

Alimony is based on the child's parent-child relationship with the man, regardless of whether the child's parents are married or not. Therefore, they should pay maintenance in accordance with the law as one of the methods for them to fulfill their maintenance obligations.

According to the laws of our country, children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and parents have the obligation to support their children, regardless of whether they are born in wedlock or not, regardless of whether the parents are married; The parent who does not directly support the child should pay child support to help the child's growth.

Therefore, if the woman chooses to give birth to the child, she can ask the man to pay child support, and the man cannot interfere with the woman's behavior of giving birth to a child, because reproductive rights are basic personal rights, and the woman can choose whether to have a child, and the man has no right to interfere with the woman's choice after the woman is pregnant; If the husband refuses to pay child support, he may file a lawsuit with the people's court to demand that the other party pay child support, and if the other party does not admit that he has an obligation to support the child, he may apply for a paternity test.

The amount of alimony mainly takes into account the actual needs of the children, the affordability of both parents and the actual local standard of living, and if there is a fixed income, the alimony can generally be based on 20 to 30 percent of the total monthly income, and if there is no fixed income, it can be determined according to the income of the current year or the average annual income of the same industry.

Legal basis

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1071:Children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and must not be harmed or discriminated against by any organization or individual.

A biological father or mother who does not directly raise a child born out of wedlock shall bear the maintenance of the minor child or an adult child who is unable to live independently.

Article 1067:Where parents do not perform their obligation to support them, minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that their parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Legal analysis: A single mother who gives birth out of wedlock cannot apply for a birth permit, because a marriage certificate must be used to apply for a birth permit.

The basis of the law of the Circle of Laws:

Article 1041 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Marriage and family are protected by the state. Freedom of marriage, monogamy, and equality between men and women are practiced. Protect the legitimate rights and interests of women, Fengyuan minors, the elderly, and the disabled.

If you are pregnant, the man has no right not to have children. If the woman is pregnant, the male party has no legal right to ask the woman to have an abortion, that is, the woman's personal rights cannot be violated. If the woman gives birth to filial piety, and the man is determined by the law on the maintenance of the child, and the man does not fulfill the obligation to support the child, the woman can sue the man to pay the child's maintenance until the age of 18.