What should I do if my boyfriend refuses to hand over his financial rights after marriage?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personally, I think there is a problem with the idea that a man must hand over his financial rights after marriage, as long as the boy is responsible and willing to give you money to spend, there is no problem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't marry, I don't want to marry a man.

    I'm here to find a partner, not someone to take care of my money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then you can discuss with him, I think such a man is more selfish, he doesn't give the money to his wife, and he wants talent, which means that he doesn't love you enough.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is best to solve this problem before marriage, whether it is handed in or not, it must be discussed. If you don't turn it in, you have to consider whether you can accept it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You also refuse, spend your own money, your boyfriend is a bit too much, but it's not that you keep too little.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That's funny.

    If you have enough ability to help make the business better and better, it will naturally be handed over to you to take care of the finances, if you don't have enough ability, do you want to show love for you, and you will lose the family's business? Do you think it's possible? Now there is really no shortage of women who are rich!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To put it mildly, it is that I don't feel at ease with you and a lot of reasons, you took the initiative to marry for the sake of marriage and handed over your life to the other party? What does the other party do as sincerity? In fact, everyone knows that when two people are together, it is trust, to what extent does the other party trust you?

    Many women easily marry themselves off and entrust their lives to each other for the rest of their lives, and they have never doubted it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    may also have his own considerations, the economic aspect is relatively high, maybe he may be a little uneasy, this still depends on how he looks at it.

    If the relationship between the two people is good, I don't think you need to worry too much. You can also earn money independently after you get married. It's the feelings that matter, not the money, that matters together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Rational communication should be carried out with men, and if men are unwilling to hand over financial power, men should be given such freedom.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then let him share all the expenses of life equally, if you don't pay money, you can't spend money, life is for two people, how can you only let girls spend money, he has to bear at least half of all expenses.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The new civil code law stipulates that in a family, the wife can ask her husband to pay her salary, so you can use this to communicate with your husband.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The boyfriend is already engaged, and the boyfriend said that he will not hand over the financial power after marriage, in fact, this kind of thing is negotiable, if he can manage the family finances well, let him manage you don't have to worry so much.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You and your boyfriend are already engaged, and the other party says that they will not hand over their financial rights, in fact, this situation is relatively normal, even if it is not like sex, then it should meet the basic living security of the family, or both people have to take out a part of the money every month.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It doesn't matter if you don't hand it over, and there is no rule that the woman must control the financial power of the family, you can have your own savings, and it's okay if you don't give it to him. Use the small money yourself, and use the big money together, it's not a big problem.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are already engaged, in fact, it is normal for him not to hand over his financial rights, and now many boys will not give their money to their wives, after all, mobile phone payment is very developed, and he doesn't need a card if he wants to use it, so he doesn't just say that he will share the property with his wife, but spend it when he wants to.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You are now engaged to your boyfriend, since he told you that he will not hand over his financial rights after marriage, if you can't accept it, you can break up with him directly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have to make sure if he really loves you, and the person who loves you is willing to spend money for you and is willing to make you happy. He should not be measured by financial power, true love is the combination of three views, and they all think about each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then you can make an appointment with him for three chapters, how much money do you earn every month to maintain the family, and give the rest to yourself, and don't give up your career for the sake of this family, because I don't think it's worth it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on whether it matters to you or not, if you feel that it doesn't matter, then it's nothing, if you absolutely can't, then talk about it and see if you can solve it, if you can't solve it, don't get married.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's not because you can't get married, the key is to see how he treats you, you don't have to force that form, and you didn't take the initiative to turn it in.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The engagement can also be reversed, and if you feel that the other party is not suitable during this period, you can also choose to break up, which can be regarded as a timely stop-loss practice.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There's nothing wrong with that, after all, he wants to be independent after getting married, and he doesn't have anything financially if you really can't accept it, then don't continue with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This should be said beforehand, that is, before the engagement, if you really can't accept it, you can separate, and the engagement is not a marriage that can be separated.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Marriage is equal, why do you have to hand over his financial rights after marriage? As long as he is in charge of your life and supports this family, you can do it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It cannot be turned in in in its entirety. Nor can he have too much money in his hands.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, you need to ask yourself if you have the ability, if not, it is better to give up the power; In addition, it depends on whether the other party spends money indiscriminately, and if so, it must be handed in. The two of them can discuss the matter.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then divorce, so like the financial power, find a new one. Let him go with this.。。

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then AA system! In the future, the children will be raised by him.

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