How to be yourself, how can you be yourself?

I feel the same way. You just don't go against yourself at all.

Do things your way.

Just ignore everyone.

It's not all up to you. Just be yourself.

I read a passage: "Compared with the days when someone controls emotions, I prefer the time when no one cares, and the best state of a person is when he is alone; Quiet and comfortable, you don't have to worry about other people's emotions, and you don't have to deliberately judge the minds of others, you can accompany yourself and return to a true self. ”

In a crowd, a person's mood will inevitably be affected by others. Sometimes because of someone else's words, sometimes because of someone else's actions, or maybe because of someone else's eyes, it affects yourself and your emotions.

Only when you are alone, you are in the most comfortable state, you don't have to care about the emotions and eyes of others, and you don't have to be suspicious of each other. There is no need to take into account other people's emotions, other people's joys and sorrows.

As soon as people are in the group, their IQ is seriously reduced, and in order to gain recognition, individuals are willing to abandon right and wrong, and exchange IQ for a sense of belonging that makes people feel safe. ”

Forcing oneself to fit into a group will only result in losing oneself, and instead of gaining true happiness, it will make one's heart seem more lonely. Rather than that, retreat to solitude.

In life, there will always be people you care about, but not all who care will give back. Sometimes I neglect myself because I care too much about others. There is a saying:

The more you care about something, what will torment you. "The more you care, the higher your expectations, the more you tend to be disappointed and hurt easily.

Some people will forget themselves because they like someone, and take that person as the focus of their life, revolve around each other, and over time, they forget only the most important self, and thus lose themselves.

In a crowd, it's not easy to be yourself, and you're swayed by a lot of things. Only when you are alone is you the most relaxed and comfortable, and you can be completely yourself.

People rely on each other, but sometimes they dislike each other, like a contradiction. Life is short, there is no need to waste time in some ineffective socialization, neither will improve the relationship, nor will it improve, it is better to return to your own world, return to loneliness, to learn, to improve yourself.

You have to learn to get along with yourself, after all, no one will always be with you, learn to be with loneliness, learn to reconcile with loneliness.

Perhaps, it will take a lifetime to find your true self. I hope to be myself, accept myself, and meet a better self.

Don't be an emotional puppet, adjust your mentality, and be happy with me!

1. When I am in a bad mood because I have not achieved my goal, I will first analyze the reasons and know my problems. Then I might talk to someone I trust who has the ability to help me and get their advice. The next step is to envision a beautiful life and set the next goal.

In short, we must be optimistic and have a beautiful vision. If you need a relatively violent catharsis, it is best to do exercise, such as running, after running and sprinting, there will be a feeling of the sea and the sky.

2. When I am sad about loss, I will calm myself down and concentrate on something such as reading, studying, etc. In concentration, time passes, and then devotes to it, and the mind is calm. If I had to vent, I would probably cry.

3. When I feel bad inexplicably, most of the time it is because I am too restless. It's not very useful to listen to **, I think it's a challenge to do some difficult things! I will recall the time when I was very down-to-earth, and imagine the happiness at that time, and my heart will be sweet.

At this time, it is best not to use too exaggerated catharsis, because what you need is the silence of the soul. In fact, life is really beautiful, and there are surprises every day.

"Wulin Gaiden" is a very funny, but profound light comedy, and there is a lyric in his ending song that is very useful: "There are too many unsatisfactory in this world, but your life still has to go on, the sun still has to rise every day, and hope will always be planted in your heart." ”

Five steps to adjust your mindset (self-regulation):

1. Do more physical exercise.

2. Spiritual transfer.

3. Get rid of psychological pressure and stabilize emotions.

4. Optimistic and calm.

5. Relax, there are unpleasant things to say to avoid psychological fatigue.

Don't look to the past, look to the future, and follow your heart.

By the time you forget about it, you've found yourself again.

First of all, we must have our own attitude, everyone has their own way of doing things, which is ** in our character, how your fate depends on your character. Whether in front of family or friends, or even strangers, we will always unconsciously be bad for ourselves, causing them to be helpless about themselves, their impression points are getting worse and worse, and even all kinds of alienation from themselves, and we are not aware of what is happening. If you are a short-tempered person, you should control your temper even more, it does not mean that people without temper are good, on the contrary, they will be bullied.

Then, we must maintain a good attitude to treat everything around us, and deal with it carefully, whether it is a person, a thing or a thing. No one likes a person who always feels sorry for himself, the negative energy brought by negative thoughts makes people afraid to avoid it, and develop more in a positive way, you can attract more partners, make you optimistic, and not let yourself really be in a naïve and romantic state. It may be likable, but you must know that in this real world, you are too weak and will only be abandoned by this society.

To be a man, you must be mature in order to gain a foothold in this cruel competition and become stronger and stronger.

Secondly, we can't make everyone satisfied, and we don't need to do this, as long as we do what we do with a clear conscience, don't always wronged ourselves for the sake of others, keep our own principles and bottom line, and do everything we can to make ourselves perfect. As long as you are willing to change, there is nothing that cannot be done, as long as you are willing to work hard, the iron rod can also be sharpened into a needle. You have to believe in what you do, you have to let yourself do meaningful things, when you do yourself well, you will naturally attract more butterflies, only do the little things well, you are qualified to do big things.

Again, our biggest enemy is ourselves, if you want to defeat yourself, first of all, your self-control must be strong, if you want to get rid of yourself who fails, you must be strict with yourself, as long as you are willing to be ruthless to yourself, as long as you firmly believe that you can change yourself, there is nothing impossible, as the saying goes: there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts. People who respect themselves will bring respect to others.

Don't act blindly, and don't give up on yourself easily.

Etiquette is also very important, dress appropriately, this is respect for others, but also responsible for their own image, in all aspects of life, we must be informal, down-to-earth and generous in order to bring a good impression to others, maintain a serious heart in life, firmly believe that they will eventually win the smile of success. Abandon negative thoughts, and one day you will be the sun, illuminating the beauty of the people around you.

How to be yourself seems simple, but it's not too easy.

If we want to be ourselves, we must have our own opinions, stick to our own choices, don't change our minds casually, and strive to fight for our choices.

If we want to be ourselves, we have to face up to the imperfections in our lives. As a member of society, we have some shortcomings that we can change, and some shortcomings that will become regrets in our lives and cannot be changed. Therefore, we have to face the imperfections in reality, treat them calmly, not be sad, and live confidently.

If we want to be ourselves, we must recognize ourselves, and our own changes must be decided by ourselves. Only by not relying on the help of others to complete your own changes can you succeed.

If we want to be ourselves, we have to do things according to our inner needs. The inner needs are your true thoughts, and only by doing what you do according to your inner needs can you not lose yourself.

It is not difficult to say that it is difficult to be ourselves, and only by clarifying our goals and persevering can we succeed.

Only by insisting on the right choice and not giving up can you be yourself.

Don't be affected by the external environment, don't listen to the views of ordinary people, have your own thoughts, have your own opinions, have more confidence in yourself, and find your true self.

It's still more difficult to be yourself, at least you should be yourself in the eyes of the public first, that is to say, at least you must succeed before you can be yourself.

Let go of distractions, calm down, start over, be a new self, and find your past self.

Back in time word Liu Genghong.

Qu Jay Chou.

Edited by Michael Lin.

An old yellow lamp.

Time is silent.

Loneliness is out of measure.

I don't know the difference between severity and severity.

Silence supports leapfrogging over strangeness.

Quietly watching the early morning dusk.

Your figure. Loss of balance.

Sink slowly. Darkness is already swirling in the air.

I can't see where I'm going.

Maybe love is on the other end of the dream.

Unable to survive in real space.

I want to go back in time.

Try to hold you in your arms.

The shy face has a little childishness.

Want to see the world you see.

Think in the picture of your dreams.

Just leaning together will feel sweet.

I want to go back in time.

Try to keep the story going.

At least I won't let you leave me again.

Distract from time.

This time it will be held tighter.

I don't know if it's too late to keep it like this.

I want to go back in time.

The blind quest is still empty.

Grey night.

I was sleepy and didn't know where to hide.

As soon as he turned around, he was lying alone beside him.

I want to go back in time.

Try to hold you in your arms.

The shy face has a little childishness.

Want to see the world you see.

Think in the picture of your dreams.

Just leaning together will feel sweet.

I want to go back in time.

Try to keep the story going.

At least I won't let you leave me again.

Distract from time.

This time it will be held tighter.

I don't know if it's too late to keep it like this.

I want to go back in time.

Silence supports leapfrogging over strangeness.

Quietly watching the early morning dusk.

Your figure. Loss of balance.

Sink slowly. I want to go back in time.

The past is gone, the only thing we have is to cherish the present life, if you are not doing well in the present, do you still want to go back to the present.

Actually, you're great now, and you've felt that you're not doing this well. Then you have to make up your mind to change it. I believe in you, brother!