Why do you want to get married when you grow up? Why love changes dramatically with age

Life is like this, you don't choose a side, you get married to continue the next generation, I feel that I am too fast, sometimes I am not ready, I can't adapt, I have to accept it slowly if I can't adapt.

Not long ago, a friend in the army once told me about a high-ranking female officer in their unit, who was both talented and beautiful. When she was young, there were many chasers and proposers, but she didn't care, she was arrogant, and she always fell in love with a male officer who didn't have the slightest feeling for her. However, the male officer paid more attention to the gentleness of women and the virtuous housekeeper, and did not fancy her at all, and walked into the wedding hall hand in hand with others.

Since then, she has been deeply affected, has some minor nerve problems, and is still alone at the age of 50. Therefore, it is recommended to take a look at the famous ** "Gone with the Wind" in the United States, and wish each of us to cherish the person who loves you, and do not miss out on your own happiness and love again and again.

Reality is reality, chasing love, looking for love, it's not wrong, but if you marry someone at random now, 5 years or 10 years later, when you find that another person makes you infatuated, that's the so-called love, then do you want to abandon your wife and choose love? So, your crime is immorality and no responsibility, and the love you pursue in this way is truly pure and clean?

Marriage means a kind of happiness. Be with your loved ones all day long. For a good life, we understand each other, care for each other, and spend every little thing in life with understanding.

In order to bring a good environment to their babies, they encourage each other to work hard and work hard. Happy every day! A lifetime of happiness!

Because as people grow older, they gradually become blind, they don't know how to pursue love, they will slowly get used to it, but if they really don't pursue feelings, they will get it.

In order to combine into a family. Love has nothing to do with age.

Who told you that you "just grown" to get married, and society is still like this?

Why do most people get married because of age, not because of love? Because at the age of falling in love, he chose to struggle in his career, or did not choose the person he liked, but he had to choose to get married when he was older, because he was too old, no one would be able to accompany him in the future, and he felt that his life was very lonely, so at this time, many people would find a suitable partner for life, and as long as they felt suitable, they would choose to get married. In this day and age, it is not difficult to find the person you love, but it is difficult to stay together for a lifetime, because there are always many uncertain factors in life, as well as difficulties to block this relationship, which tests the will of two people, and many people marry because of suitability rather than love.

One. When it's time to get married, there's no time to find love.

When it is time to get married, many people may go to find their favorite partner, but after a year or two, there is no change, then they will definitely choose to go on a blind date, in fact, two people feel suitable for life can choose to marry first, in our life, many people may marry because of suitability, not love. No matter what happens in the future, I don't want my future life to get married because of suitability, but two people who have a heart-to-heart and happy love before choosing to get married. When you reach the age of marriage, you don't have time to find love, maybe you can only choose the future and choose what suits you.

Two. There is no time to seek a partner after work.

After many people enter the society, the people around them are no longer the same age, maybe there is a big difference in age from themselves, and they find that there is no suitable person around them, they may look for marriage through blind dates, and there is no time to seek a partner after work, and they will get married if they find a suitable one, such a wedding is a choice, and they are also forced by life, if they do not get married, they will be very lonely in their future life, there is someone to accompany them, of course, it feels very good, and the family has been urging marriage, I've been worried. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, maybe love is not easy to come by, but I don't want to settle, so I should go out and see more when I have time.

Because it is difficult for many people to meet the person they love in their lives, they would rather be single all the time, but in the end, because they are old, they can't stand the urging to get married, so they get married.

I think it's probably because at this age, I suddenly feel that I can alleviate my loneliness by getting married, after all, the second half of my life is so long, I have to find someone to accompany me.

Because many people reach the age when they should get married but don't get married, the family will start to get anxious and help Zhang with these things, and they will be afraid that they will not find a good partner because they are older, so they choose to compromise.

Because it is really difficult for people to meet someone they really like in this life, sometimes because of the oppression of age, they will find someone to marry.

Because everyone's thinking is more traditional, and when they reach a certain age, they want to find someone to accompany them, so most people are because of their age.

Because when you get older, you will be under a lot of external pressure, and your parents will urge you to get married, and the possibility of finding love is relatively small.

Why do humans get married?

Probably so that someone can talk to you when something happens.

When you're bored, you can talk nonsense together.

When you're tired all day, you can eat at a table.

It's too long to change your life, and you always have someone to accompany you.

Above board companionship.

Down-to-earth thoughts.

Maybe that's how it goes. - Marriage

1.When love reaches a certain temperature, it will face the problem of getting married, and it will let you work together in this life, most people may have talked about boyfriend and girlfriend, and they feel that they will come together when they are older, so that they will have a happy future, in fact, this is not the case, if you marry a person because of age, that is, you are not responsible for the performance of judging brothers, but if you have been in love for so long, it is time to get married, which is a serious attitude towards marriage.

2.Don't choose to get married because of your age, it's really bad, and you don't know the person in front of you, so you come together with him, do you think you will be happy? Do you think that's what you want to live in life?

At that time, maybe you will pass by happiness, so it is really not good to get married blindly like this.

3.It is normal and natural to get married because of age, and it is not so important whether you get married because of love or because of age, what matters is the relationship between two people after marriage and the patience of two people and the responsibility of the two people, as well as the respect and recognition and trust of two people for each other. So you have to think clearly, whether you want to get married in love, or choose to get married because you are old, and the final result is different.

4.Love is important, but marriage is equally important, that is, what you think, and one thing you must remember is that you must not get married because of your age, then you will miss out on a lifetime of happiness. When two people love each other and feel that it is time to start a new journey in a new way, it is impossible to get married again.

5.The sacredness of marriage is not only in love, but more importantly, the trust and respect for marriage between the two people, and the responsibility for their own life and the happiness of others. A really good marriage is not about you loving me and I love you in words, but tacit understanding in action and support in life, as well as staying together until old age in ordinary days!

Everyone wants to find the perfect love and have a happy marriage. But for people of different ages, the understanding of marriage is very different. ......Specifically, with the growth of age, the changes in attitudes towards marriage at different ages are reflected in three aspects: understanding of love, understanding of marriage, and feelings about getting along with husband and wife.

1. The understanding of love has changed from loving each other to loving each other.

With the difference in age, the attitude of the couple towards marriage can change very much. ......In terms of the understanding of love, when the husband and wife are young, they pursue each other's love for each other, and when they get older, the understanding of love between husband and wife will produce each other, which is very profound, 2, for marriage, from the pursuit of a happy life to a plain is true.

When the husband and wife are young, the understanding of marriage is the pursuit of a happy and fulfilling life. As long as you achieve this goal, you will feel very happy. ......As the husband and wife grow older, their requirements for life will gradually decrease, and eventually reach the level where it is true to be bland, and their understanding of a happy life will be very different from that of their youth.

3. In terms of the relationship between husband and wife, from Qingqing and I to helping each other to grow old.

Husbands and wives get along day and night, and as they get older, their understanding of the relationship will also change. ......Specifically, when the young man and wife were young, what the husband and wife pursued was to get along with each other, and the two people were close to each other. When they get older, the relationship between husband and wife will change to support each other until they are old, and the emotional aspect will become weaker, and taking care of each other in life will become the focus of getting along with husband and wife.

These changes are due to the age factor, at different ages, couples will have completely different understandings of marriage and love, but the true love for each other will never change.

I will choose the right opportunity and the right person to get married, and I will not get married because everyone around me is married, marriage should be my own business and have nothing to do with others, and don't make a hasty decision. Marriage is the most important thing in everyone's life, can not be ignored and can not be without, each of us is probably the marriage siege, and nowadays, more and more people can not find true love, in the matter of marriage has become difficult, to the marriageable age is very anxious, want to quickly find a person who can live a lifetime. But the more urgent, the easier it is to make mistakes, many people only care about the ceremony of "marriage", and do not understand the true meaning of marriage, so they will always find a person who can almost live and get married, and wait until they get along slowly after marriage, only to find that the person in front of them is not suitable to live with themselves.

Don't watch your friends get married and get married: most of your friends are the same age, some of their children have run all over the place, and some of them are still single and don't even want to find their other half. Those who have been married and have children, they just met the right person earlier.

So don't miss the grind because the people around you have been married, and you start to panic a little, and you can't just find someone to live with for this reason. Don't marry because of your family: The idea of my parents' generation was that they should start a family when they were twenty years old.

And most of our generation are late marriages, or even unmarried, so they are often urged by their parents to marry. The parents' intentions are good, and the reason for you to get married is to let you have a happy family earlier. But they don't know that our current definition of marriage is not just that their generation simply lives together, but wants to find someone who has the same three views and has a common discourse, such people are very rare, so most of them have become late marriages.

So don't get married because of the persecution of your parents, such a marriage is destined to be unhappy. If you get married, you should marry love: you can choose not to get married, but if you get married, you should marry love.

Living with people who love each other for a lifetime is happiness and the true meaning of marriage. Love is the premise of marriage, and if there is no love, then marriage is meaningless. Although it is said that if you decide to get married, you must marry the person you love.

Marriage will determine the rest of a person's life. Therefore, before getting married, you must analyze whether you can accept the impact of marriage on you. For example, before getting married, you often like to eat casually outside, but after getting married, you have to think about a family, not just think about yourself, but have a sense of responsibility and live happily for a lifetime!

Alone. It is possible not to get married. Is it just like this for the rest of your life?

Of course you can. No one can force you. But are you really that willing?

I admit that there have been many people in history who have been lonely all their lives. However, they all have reasons for changing their reputation.

As we all know, man is just an animal. And all the moving reeds have an instinct to reproduce and reproduce. This is the animal nature of man.

When a person grows up to a certain age, he becomes biologically mature. There will be courtship orientations. This is due to the secretion of hormones.

So. Under natural conditions, people would get married and have children. It's also a social factor that influences you.

So. Getting married and having children is not only a natural factor. It is also a social factor.

In terms of natural factors. In the process of growing up, if you have not been able to be a parent, your whole life is still incomplete. Because it's only when you become a parent that you can understand.

When you were growing up, how did your parents raise you? How should you repay them? You can only realize that it is not easy for your parents not to let you grow up.

in order to better repay parents.