Why do you always want to grow up when you are a child, and miss your childhood when you grow up?

Because when I was a child, I was full of curiosity about the world of adults, and I thought that adults could do anything. You can see how colorful the world of adults is, you can play as you like, you can buy your favorite things at any time, and you can wear beautiful clothes. But when I grew up, I found that the world I was looking forward to was not as beautiful as I imagined.

On the contrary, there are a lot more troubles after long hair, financial, emotional, and life, a lot of helplessness. So instead I miss being carefree when I was young. People are like this, what they can't get is the best, and what they can't go back is what people miss.

When I was a child, I lived an innocent and innocent life, except for laughing and playing with children, carefree, and did not consider other aspects of life, society, etc., and then there were many dreams and yearning for a better life, so I looked forward to growing up quickly to realize my beautiful vision. However, when I grow up and face the reality of life, I feel that life is not all colorful, there are also a lot of troubles, a lot of unsatisfactory, and many unhappy things can only be faced by myself, then I will miss the carefree life when I was a child, especially for people who encounter setbacks in life or career, they will miss the good times when they were young.

When I was a child, I looked forward to growing up, mainly because I was full of curiosity about the world when I was a child, and I really wanted to go outside to see, visit the places of interest in the textbooks, and realize my lofty ideals. I've grown up, I've worked, I've made money, but I still can't buy whatever I want. When I grew up, I also knew that life was not easy, and the helplessness of life, and I felt that it was better to be carefree when I was a child and not forced by life.

It's really a teenager who doesn't know the taste of sorrow and falls in love with the floor. Fall in love with the floor. Worried about the new words.

Now I know all the sorrows, and I want to talk about it. I want to talk about it. But the weather is cool and autumn.

When I was a child, I was full of curiosity about the world, I felt that the world was very mysterious everywhere, full of interesting and interesting places, I felt that adults were a magical existence, and the world of adults was always so mysterious. But as I grew older, my troubles slowly increased, and I slowly found that the world around me was full of confusion, and my attraction to myself was not so great. In fact, our hearts are playing tricks, and our experience is increasing, but our curiosity is slowly worn out, and our childlike fun is gone.

This is also something that must be experienced in life, everyone is like this, this is a compulsory lesson in life! Just be calm.

When I was a child, I watched adults don't have to do homework every day, and no one cares about watching TV, I can sleep when I want, and I don't have to get up too early, and more importantly, I have the right to allocate money, unlike when I was a child, for a toy, I followed the adults and wanted to do it, so I looked forward to growing up, and when I grew up, I stepped into life, in this colorful dye vat, I played a lot of roles, learned to flatter, I knotted to lead, I learned to slap horses, I learned to change color, I was really tired, I miss the innocence and kindness of my childhood.

When I was a child, my freedom was controlled by adults, so I longed to grow up and get rid of the control of adults and gain real freedom. When you grow up, you find that there is no freedom in the world of adults at all, when you are young, you can refuse people and many things by your mood, but when you grow up, you find that some can not be refused at all, even if you cry, you have to accept it.

When I was a child, I really didn't know what it was like to be sad, and now I look at my 7-year-old niece playing at home, hide and seek, it's so good to be innocent! Growing up, to be precise, after entering middle age, the pressure of life and work is increasing, watching time-traveling dramas and even thinking about going back to the past, how helpless I am to have that kind of thought!

I miss my childhood, in fact, I miss the days when my parents carried the black pot for me, but unfortunately my parents are old and don't have the strength to help you carry the pot anymore, so you just miss it!

When I was a child, I always looked forward to growing up, and when I grew up, I was reminiscing about my childhood, so why did I always hope to grow up when I was a child? I'm sure you've all experienced the following.

I believe that when you were young, you would often argue with your parents about watching one more episode of cartoons, but in the end they all failed, and at that time they would think that if I grew up, they wouldn't care about me, and I could watch TV unscrupulously.

When you are a child, it is not easy to eat more candy, and your parents will threaten you or stop you from eating this candy in various ways.

When I was a child, my parents would often watch over our studies, scratching our ears and cheeks in the face of English that we couldn't learn and difficult math problems, trying to escape, at this time my parents would say, when you grow up, you don't have to learn these things anymore, you will be free, but you still have to learn. At this time, I suddenly want to grow up, and I really want to grow up, so I don't have to learn these boring knowledge.

When I was a child, if I wanted to go out and play with my classmates, I had to report to my parents, and at the same time, of course, there were prescribed restrictions on the time to go home, and once the time was approaching, there would be endless urging, and at this time, I wanted to grow up quickly, and when I grew up, I would find a place to live and live the life I wanted.

When I was a child, I only met the New Year's money for the New Year, and then it was handed over to my parents, and the parents in charge will say, when you grow up, the money will be yours, so the child really wants to grow up, and he wants to grow up quickly to earn money to use his own money to buy what he wants and live the life he wants.

When <> was a child, he was innocent and lively, he would only feel the beauty of the world, he would not feel those troubles, all he wanted at that time was to make himself happy, to free himself from these shackles, to live a free, carefree life, they would not think about what they would lose, but what they would gain.

There are only two kinds of true simple happiness in this world that people can live: one is the fool, because the fool has no thoughts; The second is the child, because the child's desire is very low. It's a pity that we are neither fools nor children, so we are destined to live an easy and unhappy life.

The more people grow up, the more they will miss their childhood.

At that time, I didn't have so many troubles, I didn't have too much anxiety, I didn't have to be oppressed by reality, and I didn't have to be burdened by feelings. As long as you are obedient enough and your studies are not too bad, then your entire childhood will basically be carefree and worry-free.

Now that people have grown up, everything has turned a page. Sometimes when I look at myself in the mirror, I feel an inexplicable disgust. Who is this person?

Is he still himself? Why didn't he have a smile on his face? Is he unhappy?

Why does this man seem so unfriendly? What the hell did he go through?..

Life is very tiring, and no one has a way out; Life has to go on, and no one can escape it. Sometimes I think about it, happiness is a very simple thing, as long as the heart is simple, there will be happiness, but why do you always have so many delusions?

After people reach middle age, they can slowly figure it out. The impetuousness and restlessness in my heart are all caused by that desire and obsession. In the first few decades of his life, he put a lot of things that he once wanted into his heart, so that his heart could not bear the load.

When people reach middle age, the rest of their lives should be called "the rest of their lives". The rest of your life is not long, and the rest of your life is expensive. For the rest of his life, he had to take out the impossible desires in his heart one by one and throw them away.

Impossible is impossible, and it is useless to take it to heart. It's better to pick them up and throw them away one by one, so that you can easily move forward on the road for the rest of your life.

When the burden on the heart is lightened, the mind is simple; When people are simple, happiness naturally returns. Living back to the state of childhood and being a carefree old urchin is probably a small new dream in the hearts of many middle-aged people.

As I grow older day by day, the pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and I miss the carefree and free life when I was a child; The friends around me are drifting apart, and they have their own plans, and at this time I miss the feeling of purity, selflessness, and trust before each child when I was a child.

Another reason why you think about your childhood is that you should have been a little free lately, and you have some free time. Young people are busy socializing, busy on KTV, busy working, busy working overtime, how can they have time to think. So the things of childhood are vivid, and the things of childhood are very clear, and that is the patent of the elderly.

To judge whether a person is old, it depends on how often he said that he did things when he was a child, and the higher the frequency, the higher the degree of age.

In today's society, work and study basically occupy most of people's time, with the acceleration of the pace of life, the increase of life pressure, the continuous loss of family and friendship, full of confusion about the future, resulting in people feeling more and more lonely, the next stage of maturity is old, but the road ahead of friends is so beautiful. The carefree life of childhood and the pressure of your real situation cannot be coped with, resulting in psychological withdrawal, inferiority complex, psychological imbalance, and avoidance of reality, so that you increasingly miss the innocent, unrestrained, and free childhood life when you were a child.

Because most of the things in childhood are beautiful, as I get older, I am used to seeing the deceit at work, getting used to the rules in life, when to say what to do, and getting used to bearing the pressure from life, whether it is buying a house, buying a car, marrying a wife and having children, and mixed tastes. In the prescribed rules and regulations, at this time, you will feel more and more beautiful in childhood, no pressure, carefree, and the innocence at the beginning is the most beautiful!

Think about when I was a child, I had the care and love of my parents, I was carefree, I played how I wanted, I ate whatever I wanted, I didn't have to anything, I went to school after eating every day, I went out to play with my children, and when I went home, my parents had cooked the meal, and how happy my childhood was!

That proves that you are old. According to the principle of memory, young people generally rarely recall what their children would be like, but the older they get, the clearer they become, especially some old people, who remember what they did in their childhood. But there is a function here that you may not know, and that is that memory has a self-beautifying function, which will downplay some painful things, that is, the things you remember from your childhood are things that you have processed yourself, not what happened in your childhood.

And it will be beautified according to your current state.

When I was a child, there was a crystal clear river in the village, with loaches, river shrimp, and crabs, which was fresh and interesting for the native mountain liwa. There are large and small hillsides, every summer, mulberries, sour dates and various wild fruits on the mountain are all over the mountain, so that when my friends and I feast on it, we also dye a pair of small hands into colorful, and I often recall the sour sweetness to this day. Whenever corn and sweet potatoes are ripe is our carnival, groups of three or five take advantage of the dark moon and high wind, form a "melon stealing team", some people are sentry, some people are "working", it will be full of goods after a while, so they go to the river to dig the river mud, wrap the sweet potatoes layer by layer, and then make a fire, throw it into it, after a while, the fragrant roasted sweet potato will become, a person finds a big branch, sits on it to brag, joke, admire the moon, and enjoy the "battle fruit".

That kind of moonlight, we at that time, that kind of heartfelt satisfaction, is never there again.

Time is gone, the more you grow up, the more lonely you are, it's true, childhood everyone is very pure and flawless, pure friendship, carefree play, childhood is really joyful. As I grow older, I become more and more sensible, have a stronger sense of responsibility, and be responsible for myself, my family, and society. With great responsibility comes great pressure.

When we were children, we all looked forward to growing up and seeing the wonderful world. When I grew up, I finally saw the outside world, but I began to miss my childhood ......As a person gets older, it feels like time is passing faster and faster. Because I was carefree when I was a child, I faced all kinds of pressures when I grew up! People are also contradictory, when they are young, they want to grow up, and when they grow up, they want to be young, or the reality is too stressful!

Because life was carefree when I was a child, and life was too exhausting as an adult.

When we were young, we always longed to grow up, and we always thought that when we grew up, we would be in control of our own lives. But as adults, we always miss our childhood, because we are really tired in the adult world.

There is no such thing as easy in the adult world, but we can't escape it. When I entered the adult world, when I faced social life alone, I realized that life is really difficult. From finding a job and hitting a wall everywhere, to falling in love, being physically and mentally hurt, to my parents urging me to marry and comparing friends, I seem to feel the deep malice of the whole world, and everything seems to be against me.

But I couldn't choose to escape, because I had to learn to face all this to survive in this world. Even if you are wronged in your heart, you can only smile on your face, even if you cry silently alone in the middle of the night, you must face it strongly after dawn.

This is the life of an adult, tired and sad, and of course there is happiness, but that happiness is far less pure than when I was a child.

As adults, we miss the carefree nature of our childhood, but we can never go back. When I was a child, I didn't have to think about anything, I just went to school, ate and watched TV every day, and that kind of life was very boring at the time, but now I feel very happy.

But I can never go back to the past, I can never go back to my childhood, I can never be so carefree again. I need to be responsible for my family, I need to be responsible for my life, I need to be responsible for the lives of everyone around me.

With too much weight on my shoulders, too much pressure on my soul, too much weight in my life, I want to be carefree, but reality simply doesn't allow it.

So I can only miss when I was a child, I miss the hearty smile at that time, I miss the unbridled crying at that time, and I miss the simplicity and happiness at that time.

Life may be like this, when you are young, you want to grow up quickly, and you want to experience the life of an adult quickly. But when we really step into the adult society, we are extremely eager to return to the past, and we are extremely eager to return to childhood.

Life is always moving forward step by step, and no matter how much we miss it, life cannot go back to the past.