Who will take care of the baby after giving birth? Who is better to take after giving birth?

It's better to have a mother who has a baby! This is one of my most sincere thoughts, and it is also my deepest experience after taking care of my children for more than a year.

The mother will be more careful with the child, the mother and the child have a very magical intimate relationship, the mother will be very careful when the child is brought to the child, and the child will react at the first time if there is a little wind and grass. I used to be a person who slept like a pig, but since I had to sleep with the child by myself, I would always be very accustomed to not sleeping and covering him with a quilt.

He pooped, and I was the first to know about his little expression, so I went to help him deal with it right away. And the old man really won't! On the weekend, my grandparents came to play with the child, and I thought it would be easy, but they took him downstairs, and they didn't know that the child was pooping, so they kept letting him play downstairs, and when he came back, the whole ass was red.

Rubbing him a little harder, he was crying in pain, the child's pain is really worrying! But what can I say, after all, they don't usually bring it, they just come to play with them, they are not responsible for helping you take care of them, and they don't understand a normal reaction and needs of children.

Mothers with children will be more strict with some small details of the child, and will not use pet love to take the child. And what about the elderly? It's more about doting on your child, giving him the greatest tolerance and pampering, so that he can become a lawless and unruly bear child, and always say that the child is still young, and when he grows up, he will understand, but he doesn't know that he is old at the age of three!

If the mother and mother-in-law can take the child together, if you can only choose one person, it is better for the mother to take it, some people say that the difference between the child brought out by the old man and the mother will be really big. Because the mother still has to breastfeed, if she goes to work, the amount of milk will be significantly reduced.

So if there are conditions, it is better for my mother to bring it, but you must also pay attention to improving yourself. I have to watch the news and Weibo every day and the circle of friends, and let my father take the baby and my mother out for a walk every weekend, so that I won't become an old mother after being bored at home for a long time.

At most, you can send it to kindergarten after the age of three, and at this time the mother can also go to work, because the baby is the decisive factor for him at the age of three. There is a certain reason why some people say that three-year-olds look big and seven-year-olds look old. If it's just artificial feeding, then I don't think it matters if my mother goes to work.

Because the nutrition of formula milk children can keep up, if it is the elderly, you only need to tell them what complementary food to give the baby and how much to eat.

Because it is more troublesome to make it yourself, you need a hand-held mixer to make it yourself, so the mud will be more delicate. If you want to go to work, you can buy canned ones for your baby to keep them fresh in the refrigerator, and just warm them up when you eat them.

Heinz's rice noodles and puree are recommended as complementary foods. Because in the first six months, you must eat rice noodles for the first bite of complementary food, and then add vegetable puree after getting used to it. The first thing to add to the vegetable puree is carrots, wash them and don't cut them, put them directly in the rice cooker and steam them, and then crush them with a supplementary food bowl for the baby to eat, because they are very delicate after steaming.

At the age of seven months, you have to deepen the fish puree in the sea, but it is unhygienic to make it yourself, so you can buy Heinz directly, and you can buy fish puree from Salmon and Snow Fish.

Buy a fire rabbit again, and listen to more songs and stories for your children, and grandma or old people can also take it.

Naturally, the mother brings it herself, although the older generation is good and experienced, but well, it is not scientific, and the child has a mother, and will be closer to the mother. My point of view is that it is more comfortable to bring your own.

Mothers with their own children are the best option. Now is the information age, science is developed. When possible, mothers take care of their children by themselves, develop their intellect early, and can cultivate and develop good habits of learning, politeness, and obedience from an early age, so as to help education grow up healthily and smoothly.

In case the work and life are unsustainable, you can ask your parents-in-law to help them, they are just the responsibility of life management and education, and the mother, father, and husband and wife can take the lead in it.

In this case, it is recommended that the mother take it better, because the children can be busy with the cultivation of feelings or the contact time is still relatively long.

Parents bring best. It's just that the financial pressure of ordinary people is too great, and they work hard to go to college, and they directly take the baby to become a housewife (husband), and they are unwilling.

Having a child is not an easy task, especially now that there are many parents who have to take care of their children while working, the pressure is even greater. Therefore, some families will choose to hire a nanny and let the nanny solve the problem of bringing the baby, while some families will ask the elders in the family to help, and let the mother-in-law or mother take care of the child, which is what we call "next-generation relatives". The age and ideological generation gap has led to a certain difference between the two generations in terms of raising children.

In the matter of bringing a baby, some parents think that taking a baby is to come by themselves or hire a reliable nanny, while some families think that the wild blind should be brought to the mother-in-law, because they are more at ease with their own family. Thinking of the news I watched before, I was afraid that a child became cerebral palsy because of a shaving wound infection, and there were many details, and there were many contradictions, so I couldn't bear it, so I resigned and went home to concentrate on taking care of the child, and I didn't dare to bring it to my mother-in-law, although I knew that she was also kind.

Sometimes because my mother-in-law has helped and done her best, I am embarrassed to put forward my opinions very bluntly, on the contrary, if my mother-in-law does not come to take care of the children, I can let go of my hands and feet to take care of the children in my own way. I believe that all mothers who have children will experience that the first 2 years after giving birth to a child are the most difficult, especially during confinement, their bodies have not yet recovered, and they often need someone to help take care of their children, and when the body recovers almost, they return to the job they love, and they need someone to help take care of the children for a long time, and the question is who will take the children? If you have to take care of the mother and baby after doing housekeeping, you may not have enough energy. There is a specialization in the art industry, and usually, the nanny does not have a confinement lady to take care of the confinement professionally.

Confinement nannies are people who are specially trained in maternal and child care, and they are more experienced in dealing with some common problems after childbirth or common problems in newborns, and can respond quickly.

After the baby is born, there is no one to bring it, and the best way is for the mother to take leave to bring it herself, or spend money to hire a confinement lady.

1. Today's young mothers, if they work in the unit, the general maternity leave is about 4 and a half months of Lao Hong's attendant book. If there is no one to take the child after the maternity leave, the mother can ask for leave from the unit, and it is more appropriate to bring it herself.

2. If the unit has strict requirements, you can't ask for leave, and it's best to spend money to ask the confinement lady to help bring it. The current confinement ladies are all formally trained. He has rich experience in how to feed and take care of children, which is conducive to the healthy growth of babies.

3. Generally, after the baby is one year old, it can be sent to the nursery. The group life of the nursery can allow the baby to develop good living habits from an early age.

Faced with this problem, many people will let their children's grandparents take it. Mainly because there are always many problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in order to save worry, it was directly handed over to the woman's parents.

Grandparents took on the responsibility of taking care of the children, and grandparents bought what they usually needed:

Xiaojing's family is her parents who take care of the children, because her husband gets along well with her parents, but she and her mother-in-law have differences in many aspects.

Both of them have their own responsibilities, one family takes care of the children and the other family buys what they use. Whenever the children's grandparents come here to call for pants, they always buy something that the child likes. They will never be empty-handed.

It is also helpless to let grandma take care of the children, because the mother-in-law and Xiaojing are always unhappy because of some small things:

Xiaoya handed over the child to her mother-in-law to take it, but recently they have been arguing about the child's diet. When the child grows up, the two of them fall apart because of the child's education, and Xiaoya feels that they don't want to stay here anymore. In the end, there is no choice but to let your mother take care of the child, so that you can worry less about the snacks.

The old people on both sides wanted to take care of the children, and finally voted for the grandfather.

Xiao Xin and her husband are both only children. Since they had children, parents on both sides have been fighting for the right to take care of their children. This gave Xiao Xin a headache, and finally came up with a method, which was to conduct a small survey downstairs, and said that she would ask her grandfather to help bring it.

Expert advice: It is best for parents to bring their own, so as not to spoil the elderly.

After giving birth, no matter which elderly person is allowed to take the child, there will be a phenomenon of doting. The relationship between the next generation is still important. There is such a child in the family who must be given what he wants.

This is a very irresponsible performance and simplicity for children. When a child grows up, it will be difficult for him to be independent in the future. They will think "I don't know what to do, but I'm still dependent on my family".

Therefore, when you hand over your child to the elderly, you should spend more time with your child, especially under 3 years old. This is the time to form a child's character. It is only under the guidance of parents that children can grow up healthily.

[Speak freely].Who will take your children? Talk about it in the message area.

After giving birth, you want to go out to work. Not only can he find his own sense of worth, but he also feels that he can earn money and maintain equality in family relationships. And your husband wants you to take care of the children at home, thinking that even if you go out to work, you can't make much money, and it is better to take care of the children yourself.

It is undeniable that what your husband said has a certain truth, it is indeed better to take care of children by yourself than to take care of children from generation to generation. But taking care of children does not necessarily require full-time home care for children, you can work and take care of children at the same time, and your mother-in-law can also give some help in taking care of children.

You can feel that you don't offer to go out and work not exactly thinking about how much money you want to make. It's that work allows you to find your own value, and it can also balance your heart, and you are not happy to be at home with children.

I wonder if you have ever told your husband about your feelings? Or is it just an expression of your desire to go out and work because you are out of travel? It can be seen that your husband's understanding that you want to go out to work is to earn money, which is contrary to your original intention.

Therefore, when you communicate with your husband, if you can express your unhappy feelings at home and your expectation of being able to gain a sense of value and security through work, I think your husband will be able to understand you better.