I was sick and hospitalized, and my mother in law asked what to do with work, and I was cold?

After all, my mother-in-law is not my mother, so the direction of consideration is different from my own mother, don't be cold, this will hurt my heart, most of the lives of ordinary people are about the same, if you don't want to have contradictions, then don't take many things to heart, and be worthy of your heart.

Mother-in-law may be afraid that you will lose your job.

Mother-in-law may also care about whether your work is arranged, so that you can recuperate with peace of mind. But after all, your mother-in-law is not your own mother, and it is impossible to love you like your own mother, that's for sure. So you don't need to take her words to heart, just be respectful.

You are a money-making robot in his house, and it has nothing to do with being sick, what she cares about is work, and there is no one to support them when she is working, such a mother-in-law is cold. Take care of yourself, take care of yourself a little more.

If you are sick, just recuperate, recuperate, don't think so much, work has to be done, the body is the capital of the revolution, she asked, it's nothing, let's not think in a negative direction at the beginning, just think about it as if she cares about you, she feels sorry for herself, she should rest, she should eat, she should eat well, and take care of your body, are you still afraid of not working? If you have a job, you will be financially independent, you don't depend on anyone to support you, you are independent in thought, your waist is straight, and you are hard when you go to the **! It's not a lifetime with my mother-in-law!

I'm afraid you'll lose your job, it's normal. Your dear grandmother must be afraid that you will lose your job and lose your job. After all, your work is not good or bad for her.

After all, my mother-in-law has no blood relationship, she doesn't have too many feelings, she can't compare with her own mother, the issues she considers are not the same, and her position is not the same, so you don't have to pay attention to it, and it will be too much to relax to avoid disgust.

It doesn't matter, it may not be what you imagined, maybe she is worried that you are sick and wants you to take a leave of absence and explain your work well, so that you can be treated with peace of mind. You tell her the actual situation, and the company has taken a leave of absence, so don't worry about it.

Is the mother-in-law obliged to take care of her when she is sick? Is the father-in-law and mother-in-law obliged to take care of the son-in-law? The subject of this question should figure out what obligation is? What is responsibility?

First of all, let's talk about this issue in accordance with laws and regulations. As a daughter-in-law and son-in-law, you have no responsibility or obligation to take care of and support your in-laws and parents-in-law! The inheritance law also has the property inheritance rights of in-laws and fathers-in-law, and the inheritance rights have nothing to do with daughters-in-law and sons-in-law!

So the question is, do daughters-in-law and sons-in-law have the obligation to take care of their in-laws and fathers-in-law? Definitely not according to the law! But the daughter-in-law and the son of the in-laws form a family, and the son-in-law and the daughter-in-law of the father-in-law form a family, and they become a whole, and the income and property of a family are the two of them, so it is the responsibility of the son to support the adoptive parents!

The same is the same as a daughter, the part of the money to support the parents must be taken out from the property of the husband and wife, as a daughter-in-law and son-in-law will definitely say that it is a loss, fortunately, the sons and daughters of our Chinese nation have a great sense of tolerance, he (she) never remembers these gains and losses, and they (she) take the initiative to assume the responsibilities and obligations as daughters-in-law and sons-in-law!

It's all a family, why do you want to talk about this? But then again, if your daughter-in-law and son-in-law are not willing to take care of you, then please examine yourself first, how are you doing? Do you see them as family?

If you don't treat them well, why force others to reciprocate! Comparing the heart to the heart, I think that whatever you plant will bear fruit!

The question is that you feel obligated to take care of your mother-in-law. Then the son-in-law is obliged to take care of your mother. On the contrary, whoever gives birth to and raises whomever will take care of whom's mother, which is a human sentiment outside the law.

The law is that the daughter-in-law should take care of the mother-in-law. The traditional virtue is that a daughter-in-law must take care of her mother-in-law, but today's situation has changed, women are strong, and women's power is powerful. It's just that only the framework outside the law solves it.

The subject's question: I think that as a daughter-in-law and son-in-law, since they have formed a family, there is no need to worry about whether they have the obligation of each other's parents as a whole, the father-in-law and mother-in-law marry their daughters to you, and the in-laws raise their sons to their daughters-in-law, you should form a family and take care of the responsibilities of both parents, let alone whether you should be entangled or not! Are you right?

I think that if your mother-in-law is very good to you and kind to you, you should not only take care of it, but also take care of it wholeheartedly, which is an example for future generations.

As a daughter-in-law, she should go to the hospital to take care of her mother-in-law, but if her mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law badly, her daughter-in-law can also not take care of her mother-in-law, which is completely obligatory for his son to take care of her.

I think so, because mother-in-law is also a mother, she is your husband's mother, if you feel sorry for or love your husband deeply, you should take care of your mother-in-law, don't let him worry, let him be distracted at work, you are good to your mother-in-law, and your mother-in-law will be good to you when she is discharged from the hospital, this is all two ways.

If there is no one around her to take care of her, I think you should go, after all, it is a family, and if she has someone around to take care of her, you will have time to visit her and bring her some fruit.

My mother-in-law is sick and hospitalized, and as a daughter-in-law you should go to the hospital to take care of her. If you do have a job that you can't leave, then you should also go to the hospital to care. Because this is the time when a person's character can be seen best.

You should go to the hospital to take care of it, as a younger mother-in-law is sick to take care of, this is filial piety. Both you and your husband need to go, and since you have married your mother-in-law is also your mother, you naturally have to take care of it.

You have to take care of it, because you are married to his son and you are a family, so you should take on the responsibility of taking care of your mother-in-law.

Of course it should. Filial piety to your parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, so you should take the place of your husband and go to the hospital to take care of your mother-in-law.

Yes, because your mother-in-law is also your mother, and when she is sick, you should also fulfill your duties and obligations.

Yes, because you are married to someone whose son belongs to the family, as a junior, you should take care of the elders.

Look at how your mother-in-law usually treats you. If the evil mother-in-law usually treats you badly and doesn't help you a little, then there is no need to visit her, let alone take care of her... Chinese virtues teach us to learn to compare our hearts with our hearts and be grateful, instead of being stupid and being stupid and good people when others treat us badly.

There's no need to understand???

If my mother-in-law is sick, then I will choose to take care of her, not because of how good the relationship between me and him is, but when I am confined, it does take care of her, although I am not so good at taking care of her, but no matter what, he has paid, so I will return to him what he gave me. Because my husband is an only child, it is certainly unrealistic for a man to take care of his mother, and I am his only daughter-in-law, so this responsibility must be on me.

Some people may think that you are so filial, is the relationship between the two of you very good? Actually, no, she didn't treat me well at all, because he thought that I had robbed her son, so he didn't care about anything, didn't ask, including coming to take care of me, and was reluctant to go to the confinement, and even planned to wait for me to come back after I gave birth. When I was still in my confinement, he asked me to give birth to a second child, which was really hurtful, so I really didn't have a good impression of him.

In addition, in the month when the baby was born, everyone knows that a mother needs to eat light things, but my mother-in-law every time she cooks, she will put a lot of chili peppers, including soup, he will put chili peppers and peppercorns, which is a thing that I can't accept, I have told him countless times, she can always say that he didn't put it himself, but I can take out a lot of chili peppers from the bowl and put them in front of him, at this time he usually won't speak, but next time it's the same, so it was because of these things that I was completely chilled by him.

But then I was hospitalized for a reason of the baby's body, and then a lot of things happened, so he helped me take care of the child for about a year intermittently. So if he is sick and hospitalized, I will take care of her, because no matter what the relationship between us is, he did help me take care of the child, so I can't be so unconscientious.

If my mother-in-law is sick, I may not take care of it, because I am sick, she did not take care of me when I was pregnant and gave birth, although there is no such thing as the enmity of the confinement of the day, but I really can't do the past, I will not take care of her, but I will not prevent my husband from taking care of her, so the final result is that I am not a person, but if my husband is willing to pay, I will agree, as long as I don't let my quality of life decrease too much, I can accept it.

It is said that women like to hold grudges in confinement the most, I think this is the case, in fact, not only in confinement, but also during pregnancy, as well as during childbirth, women are really very sensitive, and at this time they do need the help of their mother-in-law, but many times their mother-in-law will always say, your business is your business, we are busy and have no time to care, so they don't care.

When I was pregnant, because of the early redness, I had to lie down during pregnancy, and the placenta was too low to lie down, at this time I hoped that my mother-in-law could come and take care of herself, but I didn't get help, but I couldn't ask my mother, who was far away, to take care of me with two nephews, because my mother also took care of the child and couldn't leave, and in the end she could only take the child to take care of me, she was very tired and I was also very tired, and my mother-in-law did not show up during the whole process when she gave birth, and people were very busy, busy making money for my youngest son to build a house and marry a daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law, who didn't ask for a bride price, was worthless and unworthy of her care.

And during the confinement, I didn't even think that she would come, she only came once after the child was born, and then she never came, ignoring it, so I had no way to accept it, I had to take care of her when she was old, and I had to show up when she was old, I felt that I couldn't do my best to take care of her, so I chose not to.

If my husband asks me to go, I may choose to divorce him, because his parents should be filial to him, so why should I, an unrelated person, serve him.

I will. Because I think my mother-in-law is also my elder, if the other party is sick, I will also take care of the other party, and I will also do my filial piety for my husband.

Absolutely. Because we must be filial to our elders, so that we can make the family harmonious and not let the husband be in a dilemma.

If I have a good relationship with my mother-in-law, I will definitely take care of her, and if the relationship is not good, I will ask my husband to take care of her.

Comfort the mother-in-law. When your mother-in-law is sick, you can take care of your mother-in-law and comfort your mother-in-law, such as asking your mother-in-law, how are you doing, are you better, do you feel a little uncomfortable anymore, if you feel uncomfortable, tell me as soon as possible, I will take care of you.

Legal analysis: China's law does not stipulate the daughter-in-law's obligation to take care of her in-laws, therefore, there is no mandatory requirement at the legal level, but at the moral level, she should bear the responsibility of taking care of her in-laws.

Legal basis: Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly

Article 13: Elderly care for the elderly is based on the home, and family members shall respect, care for and care for the elderly.

Article 14: Supporters shall perform their obligations to provide financial support, daily care, and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly. Supporters refer to the children of the elderly and other persons who have the obligation to support them in accordance with the law. The spouse of the supporter shall assist the supporter in fulfilling the maintenance obligation.

Article 15: Supporters shall provide medical expenses for the elderly who are sick and receive care for the elderly who are in financial difficulty. For the elderly who are unable to take care of themselves, the supporter shall bear the responsibility of care, and if they are able to take care of them in person, they may entrust others or elderly care institutions to take care of them in accordance with the wishes of the elderly.

Summary. First of all, the daughter-in-law should honestly tell her mother what she thinks, and make it clear that she is the child that the mother-in-law trusts the most. The daughter-in-law should spend more time with her mother-in-law, share happiness, and care for her mother-in-law, so as to establish a good communication, rather than a "love, but also unwilling to pay close attention" relationship.

Secondly, at this moment, the mother-in-law's condition can affect her emotional, physical, and spiritual health, so the daughter-in-law can try her best to understand the mother-in-law's mood and respect her thoughts. At the same time, the daughter-in-law should also help her mother-in-law according to her needs, taking into account her safety and health. It is also important that the daughter-in-law also gives as much comfort as possible, regularly sets aside time to communicate with her mother-in-law, share things that are pleasant in life, and can help her mother-in-law with some daily tasks in a considerate way.

In terms of medical care, the mother-in-law should be given patience and care, and strive to understand the challenges and processes faced by the mother, so as to alleviate the mother's pain as much as possible, and at the same time follow up on medical arrangements if necessary.

You've done a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

First of all, the daughter-in-law should honestly tell her mother what she thinks, and make it clear that she is the child that the mother-in-law trusts the most. The daughter-in-law should spend more time with her mother-in-law, share happiness, care for her mother-in-law, and brother Hu Ji to establish a good communication, rather than "love, but also unwilling to pay close attention" to the relationship of Xianhong. Secondly, at this moment, the mother-in-law's condition can affect her emotional, physical, and spiritual health, so the daughter-in-law can try her best to understand the mother-in-law's mood and respect her thoughts.

At the same time, the daughter-in-law also learned that she should help her mother-in-law according to her needs in light of the actual situation, while taking into account her safety and health. It is also important that the daughter-in-law also gives as much comfort as possible, regularly sets aside time to communicate with her mother-in-law, share things that are pleasant in life, and can help her mother-in-law with some daily tasks in a considerate way. In terms of medical care, the mother-in-law should be given patience and care, and strive to understand the challenges and processes faced by the mother, so as to alleviate the mother's pain as much as possible, and at the same time follow up on medical arrangements if necessary.