Tell me what happened to the good people in your life?

In fact, it is difficult for you to define what kind of person is good, everyone is an ordinary person, there are their own good places and their own bad places, from the perspective of ordinary people, they may not have done anything harmful in their lives, and they may also be diligent, but the gap is still very large, some people are developed and some people are hard for a lifetime. If you want to figure out the relationship between the good of people and the good or bad of life, it should be impossible.

I think there are no good people in the world, so just do your duty, don't expect too much from others, and be mentally prepared for others to hurt you at any time, this is not pessimism, it is reality, and don't let yourself be hurt when you have no hands and feet, after you have this psychological preparation, many times you find that the world is not so bad, but more peace and joy.

After work, I have more people in contact with and more things I have witnessed, and I slowly feel that the definition of a good person is becoming more and more blurred, and I always feel that in the face of interests, when a person has nothing to pay, he is kicked away and turned around and forgets more things, and it is good not to fall into the well and then smash a stone.

I spent my childhood in the countryside, and I remember that there is an old man in the village who is very legendary in our eyes, probably practiced kung fu when he was young, and he was strong and strong, and I heard adults say that this old man could throw one or two hundred pounds of things with his bare hands on the fork of the jujube tree more than two meters high when he was young, and there is no memory of the old man's wife in his mind, and he has a daughter.

I think the angle determines that there will not be absolutely good people in this world. But there are people who are good to you. The right is called a good person, a good person has a safe life, a good person can get a good reward, build bridges and repair roads without corpses, and kill people and set fire to the gold belt.

I don't support the good people who seem to be, I think people just need to be able to interact with each other as equals. There are very few really good people, and they have lived a very hard life.

I can only pour chicken soup bitterly: I hope that good people will have good rewards, and good people will have a safe life. Fate is the hand of God, unpredictable. But it can be known that God never determines the fate of people on the basis of good and evil.

I have come to find more and more that there are no really good people in reality, only a group of people who give something first and then get something in return from others, which is a strategy. ‘

I can't think of any other adjective for the good people I've seen than pain. Above the pain, there is happiness. This is the end of the good guys.

First, look at some people's attitudes towards money. First of all, people nowadays still attach more importance to money, so at this time, it is necessary to use money as a material demand to test a person's quality. If the person opposite you sees that you have made money and is financially strong, he will immediately change his attitude towards you and will say some nice things to obey you.

But for those who have no money, they are particularly contemptuous, despised and even unwilling to say a word. That's obvious, such a person can't go deep into friendship, his character problem.

Second, see if the other party understands and knows how to think about others. A person must not be too selfish, and he must know how to consider others in everything. If the person you want to work with in the future, he only cares about whether he can get what kind of benefits he can get, and he doesn't care about the life or death of others.

Then the cooperation with him has to be considered separately, after all, your interests are linked in the future, if he lifts a stone and hits your feet, then it is yourself who will be hurt. Whether you know how to leave a way back for others is also one of the criteria for testing whether a person is good or bad.

Third, judge the character of the other person by the way they speak. Your real expression can well reflect some of his thoughts and ways of thinking, so in the process of communicating with people, you must pay attention to some of his speaking attitudes, if you are too arrogant, always look down on others, then it means that his character, bones are not suitable for people to be friends with him. But from the process of chatting, I found that the other party was more emotional, and the speech was also quality.

Then you will have the desire to continue to make friends with him.

Now a good person is the same on the surface and his heart, that is to say, many people are now pretending to be good people, one set on the surface and one behind the other, but a good person he will always be the same, he is the same regardless of the surface and the heart, he is the same good to you.

It's hard to be a good person", and I know this very well.

Borrow money and think twice.

I once borrowed 280,000 yuan to my brother in 2014, he took it to invest, at that time my husband hesitated, originally wanted to buy another suite, but in the end I was persuaded to lend it to my brother, said that it would take two years to pay off, but until now it has not been given to me, although I know that he also failed to invest, but what is the matter with me, let me quickly prepare for the best period to buy a house. I am from Chongqing, and the housing prices were at a low ebb in those years, and I regretted it in one word! But what can I do, how to demolish and shout, it must be my brother.

You can't lend a car to someone else.

I have a scooter, and I don't usually drive it much, and my friends often use it to drive, and I don't care. But one incident made me realize that I can't borrow a car at will. I remember that at noon that day, she called me and said in frustration that there was a car accident, and she was fully responsible for crippling an old lady, and I was stunned.

My colleague's family was not in a good financial situation, so I ended up adding a lot of money to buy another car.

Helping others is fun to keep your eyes open, and sometimes it's asking for trouble.

I saw a ** newspaper on the Internet on September 8, 2015 Huainan female college student was falsely accused, female college student Xiao Yuan rode a bicycle and encountered an old man fell to the ground, Xiao Yuan immediately helped the old man up, and the old man then pointed out that Xiao Yuan hit himself. In the end, it was brought to court.

The above are just some objective social phenomena, not to advocate not to be a good person, but to correctly judge right and wrong when helping others. Although it is difficult to be a good person, the fine tradition of being willing to help those who really need it cannot be missing.

Because there is too much consideration, there is no so-called strength.

Looking ahead, there are old and young, and they are afraid of being blackmailed .........

Yes, because good people are kind-hearted and hard-working, they can easily be used and bullied by bad people.

It is not easy for a good person to be soft-hearted and accomplish something.

is obviously a good person, thinking about others and working hard, but he is still unable to move an inch in front of life, or is he approached step by step by the difficulties in life, and often thinks: Why is the life of a good person so difficult? Isn't life much better if you're a bad person?

However, I still feel that no matter how difficult it is, I still have to be a good person to the end. Because there are so many good people who make life harmonious, although we will have many difficulties, we are already very happy compared to the war Hojun period.

If each of us is a bad person, then our society must be in shambles, and I am afraid that I will not have time to sigh here, and I will not have the opportunity to write, right? Envy wheel.

It is difficult to be a good person in real life, mainly because of the complexity of the social environment and human nature. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Conflicts of interest: In real life, people are often faced with various conflicts of interest and need to make choices with limited resources and time. This can lead to good people having difficulty making certain morally and ethically correct choices and being forced to act unconscionably.

2.Competitive pressure: In real life, people often face strong competitive pressure from Qiaoqing, and they need to perform well at work, study, etc. in order to succeed.

This competitive pressure can lead some people to behave immorally in order to gain benefits, while good people are suppressed for upholding morals and principles.

3.Changes in social values: The values and moral standards of society are constantly changing, which can negatively affect the behavior of good people.

For example, some bad behaviors in society are amplified, leading some people to believe that doing good deeds is meaningless, and thus give up the belief in doing good deeds.

4.Complexity of human nature: Human nature is complex, including negative emotions such as selfishness, greed, jealousy, etc. These emotions can cause some people to behave immorally, while good people are restricted from following morals and principles.

In short, it is difficult for good people to be good people in real life, mainly because of the complexity of the social environment and human nature. Despite the difficulties, we still need to uphold our ethics and principles and make the right choices for ourselves and society.

Since everyone's living and working environment is different, it is difficult to distinguish between good and bad people. In modern society,It is not difficult to be a good person, but it requires everyone to maintain their inner principles and not be affected by many external factors.

When we were young, our parents often taught us to be a good person with noble character, and never to be a bad person with a particularly bad character and quality. As we enter the school, the teacher will give us a uniform narrative about the definition of good and bad people. As most of the population enters society, it seems that the line between the bad and the good is becoming more and more blurred.

It's just that we still have to abide by the principles of our hearts and never become a bad person.

Maybe some people are not bad, but they don't have the definition of a good person. In fact, we can start from the small things around us, gradually improve our personal qualities, and eventually become a good person. For example, to help children get the happiness they want, and to help the elderly no longer be lonely.

Silently lend a helping hand when others need help. When others are in difficulty, we will give them a helping hand according to the different ways to solve the difficulties.

In daily life, everyone will encounter different results and things, and what we can do is not to be affected by the bad things in the outside world. For some people, this is a very simple matter, after all, they have very good personal principles. For others, this is not an easy process, after all, everyone has a time when their personal interests and collective interests conflict.

When we encounter something that cannot be solved, we should communicate and exchange more often, and not be affected by external factors in personal judgment.

Overall, if you have very good self-judgment and principles, it is not difficult to be a good person. If you are influenced by external things in your judgment, it is even more difficult to be a good person.

It's not difficult to be a good person, but it's hard to be the same as when you first enter the society and stay in the workplace for a long time, the mood is different, the views are different, you like this apple yesterday, you hate eating apples tomorrow or you have diabetes You can't eat fruit This is all a problem How to say, at the age you should do what you should do, just have a clear conscience.

It's very hard to be a good person. This is because the current society is very cruel, and at the same time, the human heart is sinister, and it is very difficult to be a good person, and it will also encounter a lot of misunderstanding and incomprehension.

Although it is difficult to be a good person, we should still try to be a good person, otherwise this society will be full of bad people.

It is very difficult to be a good person in today's society, because it takes a lot of time and energy to be a good person. It is also often not understood.

It's very difficult to do, and the good people nowadays can't do it at all, and if you're not careful, you'll be easily slandered.