What are the examples of civilized etiquette, and it is urgent

When we socialize in our daily life, respecting social etiquette will give people a good impression of being gentle and polite, and there are many matters worthy of our attention in the middle of social etiquette.

1. Social etiquette and social etiquette should be observed in the order of social and public morality.

2. Strictly abide by the time reservation and don't miss the appointment.

Strictly disturb foreign guests during work and leisure time. Participating in activities should arrive at the agreed time and not being punctual is a sign of rudeness. But don't arrive too early to avoid embarrassing the host for not being ready.

3. Respect the elderly and women, get on and off the vehicle, and let them go first when entering and exiting the door.

4. Behave modestly in social situations, pay attention to words and deeds, and do not do some unusual actions.

1. Don't point your finger at people.

2. Don't make noise, don't laugh loudly, don't shout loudly from a distance, and don't put your shoulders on your shoulders when walking;

3. Stand and sit in a correct posture, and do not sit on the armrests of chairs.

4. Don't stagger, shake your legs when you sit down, don't put your legs on the armrests of the chair, and don't lift up your trousers.

5. Don't put your hands on the back of a nearby chair.

6. Ladies should not sit with their legs crossed.

5. Do not spit in public places, and do not litter cigarette butts or other waste items.

6. Do not cover your mouth and nose with a handkerchief when you are manicure, pick your ears, scratch your feet, shake your legs, take off your shoes, burp when you are full, stretch your waist, hum a small tune, sneeze, or yawn in public places, and face to the side to avoid making sounds.

7. Smoking should pay attention to the occasion, and do not eat garlic, green onions and other heavy things before participating in activities.

8. Pay attention to clean and neat clothing. In particular, collars and handkerchiefs should be washed frequently, and hair and beards should be trimmed frequently.

9. When we meet in daily life, we should greet each other, and be careful not to talk about illness and unpleasant things when we talk.

10. In foreign affairs, sending a small gift is a friendly expression, and in order to express condolences, congratulations or thanks to others, it is often necessary to give some small gifts of good quality and low price.

For a person, etiquette is the external manifestation of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communication ability, and for a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization procedures, moral customs, and living habits.

1.Etiquette is the most basic moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal operation of society, which is gradually formed by people in long-term common life and mutual interactions, and is fixed in the form of customs, habits and traditions. For a person, it is the external manifestation of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communication ability, and for a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization procedures, moral customs, and living habits.

Attaching importance to and carrying out etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice. 2.The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life.

In terms of content, there are grooming, manners, expressions, clothing, conversation, and dealing with people; From the object point of view, there are personal etiquette, public place etiquette, hospitality and guest etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication, etc. The norms of behavior in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech and action is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, attention should be paid to etiquette, so that people can conduct interpersonal interactions on the principle of "respect, self-discipline, moderation, and sincerity", and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.

3.Etiquette, etiquette, and politeness are rich and diverse, but it has its own regularity, and its basic etiquette principles: first, the principle of respecting people; The second is the principle of self-discipline, that is, in the process of communication, we should be self-denial, prudent, proactive, consciously voluntary, polite to others, consistent with the outside and the inside, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-inspection, self-restraint, not arrogant, duplicitous; the third is the principle of moderation, moderation and decency, and mastery of proportion; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, sincerity, treating people with sincerity, not acting on the spot, and inconsistent words and deeds.

4.Civilized language: 1. Hello!

2. You may be seated! 3. May I ask ......4. Please wait! 5. I'm sorry!

6. Please forgive me! 7. I'm sorry! 8. It's okay!

9. You're welcome! 10. Thank you! 11. Please don't worry!

12. Sorry for keeping you waiting. 13. Please speak! 14. Please present your "card".

15. I will try to help you. 16. Serving you is what I should do. 17. If there is something you don't understand, just ask.

1, Kong Rong was smart and studious when he was a child, with quick thinking and clever answers, and everyone praised him as a strange child. By the age of 4, he was able to recite many poems and knew etiquette, and his parents loved him very much.

One day, my father bought some pears and specially picked the largest pear for Kong Rong, Kong Rong shook his head, but picked the smallest pear and said, "I am the youngest, I should eat the small pear, and you will give the pear to my brother." My father was pleasantly surprised.

The story of Kong Rong rang pear soon spread throughout Qufu and has been passed down as a good example for many parents to educate their children.

2. When Jin Shi Yang was in his 40s, he was still determined to study, one day, he and his friend You Xing went to Cheng's house to meet Cheng Yi, and caught up with Mr. Cheng to close his eyes and recuperate, sitting and pretending to sleep. It began to snow heavily, and the two of them stood respectfully until the teacher woke up. At this time, the snow outside the door had accumulated more than a foot thick, and Yang Shi and You Xing did not have a trace of tiredness and impatience.

3. Once, when Lenin was going downstairs, he met a female worker carrying water in the narrow aisle of the stairs. When the female worker saw that it was Lenin, she tried to give way to Lenin, but Lenin stopped her and asked him to go first, and he went downstairs. Lenin was undoubtedly a great man, but he was not rude because of the nobility of his position, which shows his great qualities.

4. One day, Yue Fei rode a horse to find someone, and saw an old man on the road, he came to the old man, dismounted from the stirrup, and then stepped forward to salute and politely asked about related matters. The old man saw that Yue Fei was very polite, and patiently showed him the way, so that Yue Fei could follow the guidance to find someone. And the other person had also asked the old man before, but because of his arrogant attitude, he didn't ask anything.

5. Master Zhu has been a haircut for *** for more than 20 years. Once when I was shaving my face, I was scratched on my face because *** coughed.

Master Zhu was deeply disturbed, and *** comforted him for his own reasons, and asked Master Zhu not to go to his heart. Elegant, amiable, and tolerant language not only communicates people's hearts, but also reflects his ideological sentiments and cultural accomplishments.

Civilized etiquette includes: no littering, no dumping sewage, no spitting, no jaywalking, no running red lights, no traffic guardrails, no random parking, no honking, no random U-turn, no foul language, no shirtless, no smoking, no drunk driving, no spitting, no occupation of the road, no private construction, no messy hanging, no trampling on flowers and plants, no destruction of greenery, no damage to public property, no noisy noise in public places, no queue to grab seats, no graffiti and graffiti, no gambling, Do not drink too much and cause trouble, and do not disturb the peace.

Civilized etiquette is the minimum moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society, which is gradually formed by people in long-term common life and mutual interactions, and is fixed in the form of customs, habits and traditions. Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and upbringing, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality, but also the quality of the city and the face of the country.

Therefore, as a "country of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, we should use civilized behavior, manners, and reasonable etiquette to treat people and guests. This is also an important way to carry forward the national culture and display the national spirit.

The stories about civilized etiquette are: Kong Rong let the pear, Cheng Men Lixue.

1. Kong Rong Rang Pear: Kong Rong was a famous writer in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and one of the seven sons of Jian'an. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very smart when he was young, but also a typical example of attaching importance to brotherly gifts and mutual assistance and friendship.

When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always searched for a banquet to get the smallest pear, and when his father and relatives saw it, he asked: Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?

Kong Rong said: I am the youngest, I should eat the small ones, and the big ones should be given to my brother! "Kong Rong learned when he was a child that brothers and sisters let each other, help each other, and unite and love each other.

Since then, the story of Kong Rong Rang Pear has been passed down for thousands of years and has become a model of civilized etiquette, unity and friendship.

2, Cheng Men Lixue: It tells the story of Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Xing seeking advice from Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi.