It s embarrassing for three people to be together! 5

This will take time! You and your two friends didn't know each other from the beginning! Didn't they all become friends later!

Since both of them choose you as their friend, it means that the three of you still have the same topic, and when talking to one person, try to remove the topic from the other

PS: Since the two of them don't know each other, try to avoid 3 people together!

In fact, when we communicate with friends, we should pay attention to listening to our friends, and we should react when listening to our friends, not without saying a word, and find the common topic of the two of you from the topic of friends, because when a friend is talking to you, it is likely that he has recently happened, or a thought that he wants to express, at this time we have something to talk to our friends, or, you can say what you have done recently? You can tell your friends about something, or you can find a topic that interests both of you

Your situation is like a balance, trim is an art, and listening skills are not appropriate here. You have to control the pace and get them closer to you, and the closer they are, the more likely they are to find the same topic.

There has to be a process for everything, maybe you don't have much contact!! It's good if it's a long time!! If you don't know everything, everything will be taken care of! Then you wouldn't be up there asking a question! Hehe! ·

You can be a middleman who knows them and makes them friends too.

You need to know what they have in common first, or you can get acquainted with it.

Then it's up to you, you help them find common topics! You can ask left and right! It's good to have a long time, and give them some time alone!

Don't talk about it in loneliness.

But if you are the one who can't interject, then you can listen quietly and listen to others tell your own story, and you may also benefit from it. If someone else can't interject and you take into account the feelings of others, then you can say a word or two to him to ease the awkward atmosphere. I had this experience, once a friend of mine kept telling me that the friend next to me really felt embarrassed, so I would talk to him for a while, and then talk to him for a while, and let him quickly integrate into the atmosphere.

Since the three of them are friends together, they must take care of each other and not leave anyone out in the cold. You can find common topics, everyone talks about their opinions, and they have to worry about each other's emotions, so that they are real friends. If it's just two people talking, it will be awkward for the other person to be together, and there will be a sense of loss!

So when three people are together, don't just talk to the one who is closer to you!

In fact, three people are playing together, and it is normal for this situation to occur, and there is always one person who can't interject or is left out in the cold, but it is certainly not intentional. To learn to accept and solve, when two people talk, can't interject, just listen to them quietly, after you have something to say, in fact, if the relationship is very good, this situation is not embarrassing, after all, we all know each other's temperament.

This situation should be encountered by everyone, and it is inevitable that there will be two people between three friends.

If you have something to talk about, you will snub the third person at this time. It's time to make jokes and tell them what you think, and they'll be considerate of you as friends. In addition, you can also take the initiative to talk to them about the same topic, and you will gradually become part of it.

If you're that awkward person. Then I suggest you find another bosom friend. Because there will always be one of the three people who is alone.

If you don't want to be the one who is alone, you have to be the one who stammers with other people's feelings. So it's better to find a friend who knows each other, and the two of them will be fine together. Find a friend who suits you and can play with you.

The friendship relationship of three people is more complicated and difficult to deal with than the friendship relationship of two people. When three friends are together, if there are only two people talking, be sure to remember that there is a third person. You can talk about topics that this third friend can talk about and help him integrate into the group.

You can also revolve around this third friend topic, and don't talk to each other.

In fact, human beings just like to be paired, why is the relationship between husband and wife two people instead of three, because it is indeed a bit embarrassing to have an extra one. If you feel embarrassed, try to avoid the situation of three people together in the future, if this situation is unavoidable, then the two who talk often try to bring the person who doesn't talk, don't treat him as air.

I don't think it's embarrassing, the three of them are friends, don't you have to talk to three people together, I like to listen to them chat when I'm with my friends, occasionally insert a few words, sometimes you don't have to have a heated discussion to have an atmosphere, it's very good to go shopping and eat together, the interests of the three people are definitely different, maybe when it comes to topics that friends are interested in, she will also join, don't feel embarrassed, after all, getting together is the happiest.

Let me tell you about the things around me.

Three years of college, just graduated, during which I met them, they were classmates and roommates, and they were called L and S respectively. L and I met on the first day, basically all together, and then we met S, and the three of us formed a small group. After S got a boyfriend W, L got a boyfriend H, and I got a boyfriend.

The difference is that W and H are in the same department and in another class, and they are also classmates and roommates.

We went from three to six. They signed up for an accounting training course, and on weekends they would go out to classes together, and their boyfriends would go there when they had time. Summer vacation is coming, their accounting certificate has not yet arrived, of course they choose to stay in school, I am home, my boyfriend is home, their boyfriend?

Choosing to stay in school, of course.

When school started, I noticed that my friendship with them had changed subtly, and they wouldn't call me when they went out to play.

Later, S's boyfriend went to the army, and occasionally the five of us would eat together, and more often S would be with L and H, and anyone with a discerning eye could see that the friendship between the three of us had deteriorated. During the six-month internship period, my boyfriend and I studied for a post-secondary education. They went to work in different real estate projects.

L and I haven't looked for each other, S has looked for me a few times, and each time I am more and more rusty, maybe it's because of work.

Later, when they went back to school and graduated, they all quit their jobs, and the way we spoke didn't change much in three years, but the people and hearts changed.

However, the Tao is not the same, is it?

I also have your experience, when I was in junior high school, I liked gentle and considerate girls very much, and took the initiative to be friends with her, and then I found out that another girl in the class was also this kind of character, so naturally the three of them were together, but gradually, I found that my efforts were getting more and more embarrassing, they were getting closer and closer, and the friendship of the three people was still the same, but I had been put on the periphery. What I want to say is that friendship and love are similar, there is no need to be deliberately demanding and do not need to be passively maintained, it is yours after all, let it be, and the last thing left must be suitable for you to cherish you, if you can't stay, then it is the confidant friend who has been discovered by you, don't worry too much and be sad, after a long time, you will naturally know that the embarrassment is not a big deal.

Finally, the ending of me and those two people is that there is no contact after graduating from junior high school, and the friendship between the two of them is said to have not been maintained after all because of some things, and I have been working for six years now, and my best friend is a person I admire in junior high school, but I didn't expect her to become my friend, we were separated from high school and college, but in the end we both had each other, and it has been more than ten years, so it's yours, and time and distance can't be taken away.

When you grow up, you have to learn to leave or change. You either accept her or leave. It's always going to change, accept it, girl, even if you drive her away, you go back to the original, will it still be like this in the future? After graduating and working, will it still be like this?

I won't come up with the idea of getting rid of her for you, but I still ask you to better adapt to the current life, others are accepting others and changing themselves, why can't you do it?

Conceit and inferiority are opposites. In fact, the person you hate has low self-esteem, and your friend is connected to him, so they come together. If it's me, I think you should let go of your hatred for that person first, try to go into his inner world, and help him, so that the three of you will become the best friends.

It shouldn't be, everyone has everyone's shortcomings and advantages, try to see his advantages, you may be wearing colored glasses now, after all, you have already made up your mind for him, and you now feel that your good friend has a good time with him just like his beloved things are snatched away from others, friendship is like love, and it also needs to be tolerant and forbearing, try to integrate into their circle, don't mess the relationship into the border...

I think you should explain it to your best friend, and the person you hate should stay away from him or you will be very troubled, and your best friend should explain it to him.

Hehe! Be generous and open-minded. You don't have to worry about people you can't change.

If you really can't bear to be your best friend, just think about why you want to hate it, you should first look at the advantages of the person you hate, you should look at the advantages of others, and ignore the shortcomings you hate, provided that it does not affect you and damage your interests.

If you can't fit in with them, you can go find another friend.

First of all, you have to understand whether you are looking for real life or a romantic lifestyle, if you want a romantic lifestyle, you should find the boy who is the best for you, and you have the most feelings for him, and you love the most. Then you have to leave all distractions and go where he is together.

If you want a real life, you just find someone who lives a good life, take good things as memories, and let those boys be your memories.

Walk naturally in the middle, hold a hand, and interject a few sentences from time to time, if they say something you are interested in, grab the topic you are interested in and talk to them.

Why do you want to put it aside? The next time I don't go out with them, it makes people feel uncomfortable.

I just like to be alone, no one bothers me to think about things.

The words of good friends are going to be said and let them pay attention next time, I used to say it later, and now the three of them are talking and laughing.

First of all, I think you have to be honest with each other. Don't be selfish about each other, if something comes to mind, they will be the first to think of them, thinking that they are your best friend. Share the blessings and share the difficulties. Since they are all best friends, what embarrassment is there.

often eat together, put on makeup, go shopping, and gossip on their faces.