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The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and modern women are economically independent, and their value no longer depends on men's economic strength or social status, but on their own strength, and they can also thrive.
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If a young girl is a piece of jade, then a divorced woman is a piece of jade that has been polished by life and washed by wind and rain, and her whole body exudes a mature and beautiful light.
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There is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women in China. In economics, when the supply of a certain commodity exceeds demand, the value of a commodity will naturally rise. Similarly, at a time when tens of millions of men will not be able to find wives, divorced women are not necessarily without grabbing.
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Some men, in order not to let their children lose their mother's love, would rather choose to make do with an emotionless wife for the rest of their lives than divorce.
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I don't want to be a divorce professional. This is the only thing he says when someone persuades a "three-married man" to divorce. Alas, it seems that the more men get married and divorced, the psychological disorders will become more and more serious.
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Because men are lazy. It's very troublesome to divorce and change wives, and you have to lose layers of skin without breaking bones, so it's better not to toss. No fool is willing to lift a stone and shoot himself in the foot.
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The economic and personality independence of modern women makes women unwilling to be at the mercy of others, unwilling to be hurt by marriage, and no longer wronged themselves for marriage.
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A woman who walked out of marriage suddenly noticed the bright colors of the sky. Got out of the heavy housework and the senseless disputes between husband and wife, it turned out that the wings were still there, and there was still the ability to fly.
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The main thing is that men are reluctant to divorce. Most of the reasons for de facto divorce are due to helplessness and helplessness. For example, if a woman does everything she can to force him to divorce, he has to leave.
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Divorced men have this feeling: a woman who is married for the second time is not what you want, and if you are looking for a divorce, you will find that the third is not as good as the second, and the second is not as good as the first.
Because men have less and less property, their bodies are getting weaker and weaker, and their troubles are getting more and more rainy, they are afraid, while women are getting more and more knowledgeable and have higher desires.
2.Men will be afraid of being betrayed by women again. And women have become more rational from simplicity.
3.The woman loses her shyness when she remarries, and her vision becomes better. Men remarrying, on the other hand, are influenced by their children and financial strength.
In fact, whether it is a first marriage or a second marriage, it is possible to achieve happiness. It is not a generalization. Like Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, they are good examples.
Wu Qilong met Liu Shishi, from a middle-aged man with a depressed face and bitter feelings, to a laughing and enthusiastic uncle, Liu Shishi made great contributions.
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The essential difference is: men spend money to marry women, and women take money to marry.
A man's wife must need a gift money, and may also need a house and a car, but women are completely different, they can directly belong to their families, and they can also get a generous gift money. So the phenomenon you are talking about.
There is now a serious imbalance between men and women, with more than 30 million more men than girls, so there is a shortage of girls. At this time, girls will have more choices, because boys have no such advantages, so it will cause many girls to divorce if they feel unsatisfactory, because they can have a better choice of their next home. A time like this.
The boy suffers the most, and he may have to divide the property among the woman. If you want to marry again, then you need a gift money.
In this cycle, girls get richer and men get poorer. After all, no one can afford to consume so much. The easy-going girl is getting richer and richer, and of course she will become bolder, even if she is not married, she will be able to support herself. Money is king!
Therefore, the more men marry, the more timid they become, and the more women marry, the more bold they become.
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Of course, men are getting more and more timid the more they marry. The more you marry, the poorer you become. Do you say it's easy to marry a daughter-in-law now?
The bride price money ranges from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands of yuan, and a family marrying a daughter-in-law spends almost half of the family's savings. How many daughters-in-law can an ordinary family marry?
So now I have all the wives I marry, for fear that if I get divorced, I will end up with no personal wealth.
For some men who are financially better, if you marry one more woman, it is possible that when you get divorced, you will share the family property once. Even if there is more money, it is not enough for a woman to share, and she is not reconciled, and the money she has worked hard to earn will be distributed to another person because of the divorce. The richer a person is, the less likely he is to remarry.
Unless you meet some fools, agree to the notarization of prenuptial property.
When a woman divorces for the first time, she is still hesitant and worried, afraid that she will become a second marriage, which is worthless, and she is worried that her children will not have a mother. But after a divorce, many things are opened. When you remarry, if it is not suitable, you will divorce decisively.
If you find a rich man and get a property after divorce, it is the best thing, and if you divide the property of several men, you will not have to worry about food and clothing in this life.
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It's very simple, a man has to pay a lot of costs to marry a daughter-in-law, and the most difficult thing for him is the bride price. At the time of the first marriage, you may be able to bargain with the woman. But if you get married for the second time, because your reputation is a little bad, your self-worth will decline, and if you want to marry the right person, so that the other party and her family willingly agree, you have to give more money, at least more than when you got married.
And a man needs the stability of the family even more, he struggles for his career outside, and he has a good wife in the family to have no worries. Eighty percent of couples leave their children to the man after divorce, and the man cannot leave one child and has to be responsible for his offspring.
And a woman's remarriage is relatively simple, perhaps at first because she was ignorant and chose to fight for love, but later with more experience, her mind matured, and people became realistic. The focus on the future partner is some external material, so the criteria for choosing a mate are clear, and remarriage is rapid.
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Lazy women are also happy.
Instinctively (evolutionary perspective): men hunt and protect their tribesmen, women weave and cook to maintain their lives, women need to attract men to get food and protection, men need women to continue, the attraction characterized by beauty has been formed for a long time, this is an instinct, maybe animals do not look very beautiful Until now, there is no such primitive dependence, now men and women love beauty, beauty is a hobby of human beings, and even some men love beauty more than women, often this kind of man is called stinky beauty It is still true that most women love beauty more than men, and in addition to the remaining instincts, it is also related to the values of modern people's outlook on life: we usually think that women's beauty is beyond other factors, but for men it is that they are superior to others.