I ve always refused? Why do I keep getting rejected?

In life, we must learn to refuse, rejection is not hostility to others, rejection may make you lose your interests, lose your reputation, but it will never make you lose the respect of others. Not knowing how to say no can hurt a lot, sometimes it hurts you, sometimes it hurts your family and friends around you. In the process of interpersonal communication, people should pay more attention to emotional communication, and those who know how to respect themselves, understand others, and dare to say no will be respected by others.

That's because you never trust anyone, you're a person with a very strong personality, a strong independence, and you only trust yourself.

Then you explain that it may be because of the other party's reasons, or your own reasons, so you will keep refusing.

In fact, some need to learn to accept it at some time, rather than always rejecting it. Because now society has to be tactful.

Always refusing, it means that you are very resistant, and you don't like to deal with others, and that's okay.

There are advantages to being able to refuse, but it is not necessarily a disadvantage, it may be because of a certain refusal to avoid disasters and losses, if you can refuse, maybe life will not be so busy. Rules, reality, discipline, etc., many people can't refuse them, it's all hard.

Yes. Misunderstood. Forget it.

I don't know what you're trying to say about rejecting something, if you really don't like something, it's better to refuse it early, there's no need to think too much, or tangle too much, if you dwell too much, it will make you very tired, and it's not good for yourself.

1. Give yourself enough emotional support.

There are many reasons why anything happens, so being rejected doesn't mean we're not good enough. Things are things, people are people, don't be in a hurry to deny yourself with one thing. On the contrary, when we feel lost, we should pay more attention to the positive aspects of ourselves that make us feel good, so as to restore our confidence and sense of worth.

2. Adjust your thinking.

The reason why a person is rejected is often very complex, for example, borrowing money from a friend and being rejected does not necessarily mean that the friend does not value you, or the other party may have a hard time and is not able to help you; Rejection of an interview does not necessarily mean that you are bad, but more likely that what you are good at is not what the other party needs, so you just need to change to a company that is really suitable for you.

After learning how to adjust your mentality, you need to find ways to make your heart strong and see the world more easily.

2. How to make yourself strong inside.

Be able to accept the worst results and enjoy the process; Don't deliberately show the qualities you don't have, and face yourself authentically; has its own spiritual world, whether it is a ruined temple or a royal palace; Be able to distinguish the difference between desires and dreams; Understand the different images of different people and different roles around you, and treat them with tolerance; Don't say hard things, don't do soft things, don't like things and don't feel sad about yourself.

Hello landlord, I am glad to be able to answer this question for you.

From this chat log alone, it can be said that you were obviously refused.

Of course, it is also possible that the other party is trying to get away with it.

It is recommended that you calmly analyze the current situation in case you miss the good fate.

This can be regarded as a tactful refusal.,Rejecting others will generally say that the other party deserves better.,Or I have someone I like.,Like a person will respond to him.,I don't feel that I already have an answer in my heart.,So I think this is a rejection of you.。

It should be that I rejected you, at this time you should learn to let go of the other party, I have no feelings for you, the matter of two people is not you alone, and you can influence the love.

Yes, saying that there is no time for something, that you don't want to change the status quo, that you don't think it's good, that you are rejecting you, it is very clear.

It must be regarded as rejecting you, for you to reject you is to look down on you now, you should know what he thinks of you now.

Yes, she just wants to keep a friend relationship with you, and she doesn't want to be a couple, but don't be discouraged, the persistent pursuit is promising, as long as you do well enough, the girl will change her attention and like you!

It can also be said to be a tactful rejection of you.

It's also possible that two people don't know each other well enough, so the other person rejects you for the time being and just wants to keep the status quo!

It takes time to get to know each other, so don't rush yourself and take your time.

This is a rejection of you, although it is not so clear, but it has rejected you euphemistically.

It can also be said that it means a little rejection, but it is not particularly clear, so in a short period of time, in fact, you can be good friends, just ordinary good friends, and slowly get along for a while, maybe the other party's thinking will also change some of you, then it's good.

What this chat reveals is the indifference of the other party, that is, the unceremonious refusal of your request, you should not be welcome.

Looking at her chat, in fact, she has already rejected you, but she didn't say it directly, if you pay a lot, she is still like this. I don't think you need to go on like this with her in the future, and you can find new happiness.

Yes, friends should be rejecting you, at this time you should learn to let go of each other, you have no feelings, the matter of two people is not the love that you can control alone.

This is actually a tactful rejection of you, but what he said still leaves room for him, and he doesn't directly close the door, so you still have a chance.

If you think he has rejected you, then you should not contact him again. Because after all, the interaction between people is about fate, and sometimes we can't force it.

Yes, it's already clear. There is no point in dwelling on it any longer.

Yes, he didn't deny you, that is, your feelings were right, and he thought it was good, he meant to reject you.

The last word, I'm not as good as you think. Actually, I'll tell you explicitly. Rejected you.

I mean to be a regular friend with you, not a friend of a couple, you should understand!