Why do you love to bully me Why do I always get bullied?

Brother, when I was in middle school, I was much worse than you, and I was tormented every day by the brutes, who dragged me from the classroom to the water room and beat me with the legs of a stool. Since my parents are usually tired enough, I don't want to burden them psychologically, so I haven't told them. At the same time, the teachers didn't understand me and often wronged me, so my junior high school was a purgatory life.

Since then, I have been autistic and hardly talk to anyone, which of course I don't have now, but the negative effects of that experience on me can be lifelong. Because I have a big problem with my social skills, I also have a miserable life now because no one can understand what I'm thinking. It's hard for me to find close friends.

I really don't know any good way to solve your problem, I just hope you get out of this state as soon as possible, because it has too much negative impact on people.

It's still the same sentence: there are principles in life.

Know how to protect yourself when your self-esteem is violated. When I was in elementary school, I was the same as you are now, even if others bullied me, I would reluctantly squeeze out a smile and pretend to be indifferent, which can be said to be a death to save face.

Now I find that the only way to express my true thoughts, sincerely, angrily, etc., is to protect myself and respect others. In this way, others will know your goodness or your anger, and will respect you!

Also, be careful to respect others and not despise them.

Honesty is not necessarily a good thing, as long as you are worthy of others, the environment will also have a good factor for you, talents are tempered by a difficult environment, even if you are good to bully, he may conquer others. Be strong.

This kind of person is a villain, it is difficult to prevent it, and the forbearance he thinks will only make him worse. Let's ask a friend to help.

It's normal, there was a class of classmates in junior high school who was like you.

Your mistake is not to get angry!

If you are angry, it is reasonable to be raw, others are ashamed of themselves, and others are running to apologize to you.

Learn to get angry, and you'll be safe. No one wants to look at your face, does they?

The little brother is a smart person, so let's understand it yourself.

Don't be like them.

It's good to stay away from them, but if it doesn't work, ask the teacher to come forward and reconcile.

It's not the way to go on like this first.

Forbearance is a good thing, but too much forbearance is cowardice. For this kind of person, you should give them some color to see. Friends should have the appearance of friends!

Then don't talk to them. They see you as a bully because they know you well and know how you react when you are bullied, so they dare to bully you. The best solution for this kind of thing is to keep silent and let them feel mysterious about you and not let them know about you.

For example, when you speak, don't speak, let them speak, they say right and wrong anyway, you just listen, don't have an expression on your face. When they come to mess with you, you have to stay calm and think if there's something about yourself that they're starting to kick their nose in the face or you're really wrong, and they want to satisfy their vanity and refute it. If you're not wrong, there's nothing to say, there are two paths to choose from:

1.Directly and loudly retort, such as "I'm talking about your business", "Hehe", "Are you annoyed?" The voice should be loud, the momentum should be sufficient, and he should look ready to fight hard at any time (he must do this desperately), and then scold him until he can't refute it.

2.Silent, looking at him expressionlessly, he said to turn his head and leave, and then don't talk to him, he wants to chase you to find fault with you and you don't speak, his expression should be very silent, and maintain a sense of mystery. The above two methods can be done without being bullied, mainly in persistence (the effect is generally a week, but only persistence will always be effective), do not change back after two days, to change the temperament of the whole person, so that in order to really suppress the other party in momentum and psychology, in order to truly not be bullied psychologically and physically.

Based on personal experience, I hope it can help you.

As the saying goes: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. You may be too kind and weak in your usual life, so others think you are a bully.

There is no way, some of us are just this kind of now, especially bullying the soft and afraid of the hard. You should have a little principle, and when others violate you, you should fight back appropriately, so that others will not dare to bully you wantonly.

Because you are too kind, as the so-called good people are bullied, we can be kind, but when we meet that kind of evil person, we can't treat him with kindness, so he will only bully you harder, I am often bullied by others, so be strong, don't bow to the evil forces, fight back when it's time to fight back, this is the greatest protection for yourself.

The reason may be that your personality is relatively weak, and others see you as a bully, so they will bully you. So if you want not to be bullied by others, you should first become strong yourself so that others dare not bully you.

Because you have a weak personality and always act like a coward, others like to bully you, so you have to be brave and don't always be submissive.

It may be that your personality is more cowardly and not strong enough. If you want to get rid of the fate of being bullied, you must first become strong, study more, and make more friends.

As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden, so you still have to have your own temper and personality, and you should defend your rights and interests, so you have to fight for it.

Why are you always being bullied? I've been having a hard time at work lately. In fact, people live in this world. There are a lot of them. Ditch ditch bumpy. It's not always going to be as smooth as it gets. Be in the right position. Attitude.

Why are you always being bullied? Maybe you seem weaker and more introverted, adjust your mentality, socialize more with people, and slowly change this situation.

It may be because you are too kind, or it may be because you have done something wrong, so others will ask for correction.

Maybe you are more timid in your heart, you have to be brave, nothing will bully you, and you are good at using the law to protect your own rights and interests.

It depends on whether your personality is too introverted and unsociable, causing others to feel unjustified in respecting you.

Because you are weak in your bones, if you become strong, you will not be bullied.

Because you are weak, you have to be strong and use the law to protect yourself, so that others will not dare to bully you.

That's because you're too weak! You have to learn to fight back.

If someone bullies you, make it clear to him that it's not a big deal.