The person you love the most has become a deserter of love, should you go to him?

Updated on healthy 2024-04-08
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can go to him, but you may not be able to move him, your efforts are not necessarily valuable, you must think about your future, imagine whether you can place yourself after finding him, what if you refuse, after making plans for the future, you can go, the opportunity should still be grasped, even if you fail, don't let life fail.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love cannot be changed because of fate.

    Since he chose to run away, why should you cling to it?

    Why does it have to be him?

    It seems that liking someone is the biggest failure, but I don't dare to be emotional. "To Myself".

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't try, there will never be an answer, if you want to go or not, you have to ask if you want to go, since it is separated at the moment, why not go for the following? Even if you are rejected, you can be good friends in the future, but it would be silly to give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I became a deserter of love, and I would love her even more if she came to me, because I was not sure about something, so I would do it, so that I would not regret it later!

    I'm giving her a choice.

    I love her so much. You can talk to the landlord.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Eh, I'm going to be a soldier at the end of the year, and it doesn't matter what happens, I don't even take him as a deserter, but he became a deserter for love, and he was a deserter, and he wasn't sanctioned by a court-martial???

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love her (him) with sincerity, so that she (he) will love you more.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    With gentle and beautiful words, be sincere to her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Try your best to redeem it, but you can't grieve yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're standing alone on a street corner.

    The scars on his face have not disappeared.

    You cry and smile at me.

    It's like a knife.

    I knelt and prayed to the heavens.

    Give me the courage to face everything, good or not.

    But I cowardly told you to turn around and walk away.

    It doesn't matter if you miss everything anymore.

    Let go and love and don't run away.

    Love is not something you can get if you want it.

    It no longer matters who wins and who loses.

    It's good to be able to be happy and bored.

    Let go and love and don't run away.

    There are several opportunities in a lifetime to look for them.

    How much hard work is worth showing off.

    I can see you happy all your life.

    That's fine.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hey, yes, since it's a foregone conclusion, the two of them have to be realistic, after all, they're already husband and wife

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is the simplest in the world, love is holy, love to the depths of heaven and earth, today's boys and girls, always like, love on the lips, how many people know the real love, love, how can it be easy to get, love is to go through the wind and rain, no matter what kind of hardship must never give up. If it's just two people who feel very happy together, feel inseparable from each other, and miss it very much if they don't see each other for a few days, it's not love, it's just an immature like.

    Time can prove everything, who is the person you love the most and the person who loves you the most, maybe not the husband who understands the mood, but he is the person who accompanies you for the rest of your life, always takes care of you, protects you, and becomes the irreplaceable person who loves you the most in your life; Maybe it's your first love, who was desperate to be together, gave his whole life of emotion, and lost all his love, even if he buried the other party in his heart, his heart is also sweet, how can time erase the memory of the person he loves the most?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You love people, not cats, dogs, or whatever.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he really loves you, he won't hurt you, if he really loves you, he won't leave you, everything is over, even if you accept him again, he can't be like he used to be. Why do you say that he loves you for real, how much of the falsehood in his heart is covered up by the truth on the surface.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why did I leave you at the beginning, why did I come back now, you should think clearly, love is not as simple as leaving and coming back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You still dare to ask for this kind of man,,, with the first time, aren't you afraid of the second time,,, you are just his reliance when he is injured on another woman, think about it seriously.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ask your own heart Personally, I don't think it's better to be this kind of man.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Bless him, to love someone is to make him happy, to make him happy. This is true love! You are also generous, isn't it the best of both worlds?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is a kind of love called letting go, and there is a kind of love called blessing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If she's really happy, let it go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The landlord's mood is understandable, I have also experienced it, although your boyfriend is too good to you, many people will persuade you to stick to this relationship, but I still advise you to break up.

    Because we are in love in search of happiness, and more specifically, we are looking for our own happiness, not sacrificing ourselves to fulfill the happiness of others. You should be able to be very sure that if you get married in your current state, you yourself will not be happy, and the result of marriage is only to make him feel happy, because there is an obvious problem between you, you are not love for him, but more of gratitude and habit, and he loves you. I admit that it is not easy to meet a man who is so good to me, but if others are good to me, I have to fall in love with others, is there a causal relationship between these two sentences?

    is like the lyrics in Liang Jingru's "It's a pity it's not you": I know it's a blessing to be loved, but I still can't give myself up. The author of this lyric, I believe, has experienced similar emotional struggles, which shows that the example of the landlord is not unique.

    Maybe you are lucky to find someone who you are satisfied with and who is good to you after a breakup; Maybe you are unlucky, only to find out in the search, maybe in your life, only this boyfriend will really pay attention to you. But whatever the outcome, that's the price you have to pay to find happiness. Maybe one day in the future, when you look back on the past, you will suddenly find that you love your current boyfriend very much, but for that kind of love to arise, you must go through some things, and it is impossible to do it with your current experience and perception.

    After all, people live in the current mood, and it is impossible to live in the future, to live in the "maybe". Your current marriage is not only responsible for yourself, but also for him, marrying a person who is not satisfied with you, just like you guessed, will continue to provoke in the future, family conflicts will break out, and his happiness will not last long, such a result can only be a vicious circle.

    At the same time, maybe the next boyfriend will not be so good to you, but as long as you love him, he doesn't have to do so many things as his current boyfriend, and you will feel happy, all because of the tolerance and understanding that love brings. Therefore, I personally support the landlord to find his own happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Even if it's not a person who has come over. However, you may be used to his presence and feel that you don't love him, and you will know the pain when you leave. That's how all the bloody TV series are written.

    When you get older, you can actually be realistic, you think, if you pursue the so-called what you love, you have to spend time, and you may not be happy, because he was so good before, you will always unconsciously compare, and feel unhappy. In the end, I still feel that it was good before, but that person may not be waiting for you in the same place.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, I want to say that you missed him, it is indeed difficult to find someone who loves you more than him, I can understand that you have not been in a vigorous relationship, and you must feel shocked in your heart, but have you thought about it? There must be gains and losses, God will not let you get everything, everything is satisfied, if you find the one in your mind because of this idea, but he is not necessarily the person who loves you, suitable for you, and may not be good to you in the future, and it will be too late for you to regret it, maybe you will say that the person who loves you will wait for you, others have no obligation to do anything for you, he also has the happiness that should belong to him, now you don't cherish him doesn't mean that every girl doesn't cherish it, you are born in the blessing and don't know the blessing, It doesn't mean that others don't want to have his love and have his happiness. Feelings can be cultivated, you know?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, you have to get married, and the benefits of marriage are: social stability, stability of sexual relations... Of course, in the selection of objects, it is necessary to be suitable for both parties.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, don't just mention the shortcomings of the other party, you are also very selfish, spoiled, if you suddenly find a prince charming of you, there are some aspects you will feel unaccustomed, all in all, there are too few such men, at least he does not bother, and guarantees to be single-minded to you. So think about it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's really tangled, the most solid foundation of marriage is still love, or feelings, if the feelings are not deep, then if you can find his advantages and slowly fall in love with him, it may be possible, otherwise it is difficult to be happy with your mentality.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you think my answer is good, take it... You go and see Xiyangyang and the gray wolf There is a saying that you have heard of it, if you want to eat, you can eat lazy sheep and sheep, if you want to marry, you will marry the gray wolf Your boyfriend's personality is as diligent as the gray wolf, and he listens to you so much In other words, it is some assertive strong boy, and he proposes to break up with you, and you don't dare to say anything Your boyfriend can be said to be a good boyfriend, marrying him, I believe he can bring you happiness...

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Finding someone who loves you is a happy thing! I hope you are happy!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Well, I think it's good that he's very good at taking care of people.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Listen to one more thing from your elders, be rational, don't be rash, think about it and make decisions decisively, no longer regret and hesitate, your fate is in your own hands.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I took a brief look.

    Feel that this kind of man is something you can love him.

    A thousand words can't be said.

    Only one sentence. Take your time and accept him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There will always be a gap between ideals and reality.

    Marry him, and love him with all your heart.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Knowing contentment, people are greedy, he is not weak, not without masculinity, but he loves you too much, if you don't believe it, one day find a man to sleep, you tell him, see how he reacts.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't agree with the opinion upstairs, a person who doesn't have any feelings for you, will he treat you with sincerity, if so, the woman will do the same to others, are you right? My point of view is to strive for my own happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Is it that I don't like you or is it impossible for you to be together? Have you tried to confess? Maybe it's not what you think. As for that, if you keep thinking about it, do it, whether she accepts it or not, at least you fight for it.

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