Asked a psychiatrist for help, and some people said that she was not suitable to have a boyfriend

Not suitable for having a boyfriend? This, theoretically, is caused by hatred of men in general due to bad memories about men. Since there are no bad memories, it should not be unsuitable for having a boyfriend.

But if you confess to meeting this sentence, whoever said it is sending a signal to you: she doesn't think that way about you right now. Say about this situation to consider, the meaning is the same.

Anything is possible! As long as you like her, just, chase, chase, chase! Not suitable for having a boyfriend?

She may see how patient you are! Consider? It's to consider whether you are sincere with her!

Tricks put bright spots, there are no failures. Good luck with you.

If, next, she starts to run away from you, probably she just doesn't like you, and the consideration is just a tactful excuse; If she is shy in the face of you but does not resist, then she has a crush on you.

= I'm myself who feels like I'm not fit to have a boyfriend、、、

I don't know if it's a situation with that girl.

Because I took the brain-dead route, and I didn't have much interaction with boys before, I felt very uncomfortable every time I was alone with boys.

Although there are boys I like.,But I can't accept the feeling of being in love when two people stay together.,Just thinking about it makes me uncomfortable = =.

Of course, this girl may just not want to be your girlfriend.

It's good that you love him. Then don't scare him with a breakup, and protect yourself. How?

In my opinion, your boyfriend is actually a delicate child, because only a child can be so extreme, so reckless. I don't know if the method given to you will work, so give it a try.

Every time something unpleasant happens, first of all, you have to stay calm, because you know that your calmness is actually a way to protect yourself. If he starts beating you, you tell him in all seriousness, "You said you wouldn't hit me again... I think we'll be quiet and have a good talk.

You have to always instill in him the idea that you love him and want to live with him, but life needs to be in contact with the outside world, so you have to contact others, but you are willing to tell him all about your contact with the opposite sex. (I'm a liberal, so I don't think it's fair for you to say that, but because you love him, and it's also to help your boyfriend "grow up" faster) when he's calm, you have to tell him that it's not right to use violence at any time, even if your intentions are good, it will have negative effects. At the same time, I hope that when he wants to lose his temper, he can calm down and talk to you, because you love him, so there is nothing that cannot be solved.

In short, it is not possible to live like this, no one can live in violence all the time. So it's either an escape or a change, right? Trust in your own abilities.

If you love him, you will leave him, which is the best help for him.

You have to see a psychiatrist, there must be a problem!

Break up with him.

After two months, the problem will naturally be cured.

When you break up, you must count his faults.

This man is one and the same as me.

I'm not going to hit my girlfriend though.

But I'm jealous enough.

If it weren't for my girlfriend breaking up with me.

I've counted my faults.

I'm still like that.

It's a bit of a problem, it's better to see a psychiatrist! Until then, avoid clashes with him! It's best to say that you want to go to a relationship consultation and don't let him feel like you're taking him to the doctor!

There is a problem.

Don't you know which man burned his girlfriend to death?

If you love him, help him ......

Even you have given up on him, who else will help him?

Right! If you love him, help him ......You still choose to help him!

It's the best to go and see if it's a problem.

How can you bear him beating you!! Men who can beat women, especially their own women, can't ask for it!! If my boyfriend hits me, I won't fight with him, and I'll end up together!!

I'm a doctor, I feel good about myself, others treat me well, and I'm looking for a male doctor to be my friendDefinitely a blessing for you. If you don't believe it, you'll know it at once, but he must be a good doctor, a responsible doctor, a doctor with medical ethics, and a positive doctor.

It's not credible at all, in addition to seeing a doctor and needing to be on duty often, he is usually very busy, just like ordinary people, the doctor I know is very sunny, kind and frank, and actively tries to understand each other more and be considerate of each other.

How can you say that about doctors? Doctors are also from ordinary people, so you can't completely deny all doctors like this. I know a few doctor friends who are very good, very good to people, and very responsible for their families.

It is recommended that you meet with the doctor first, and it is not too late to test your feelings before deciding. Don't let this somewhat ridiculous rumor ruin the feelings of a poor male doctor.

It mainly depends on the person's own character, if you have a good personality and are a doctor, I believe many people will envy you.

Hehe, you can't say that all doctors are the same mold, ten fingers are not the same, don't generalize.

It still depends on what kind of person it is, in fact, there is nothing bad about doctors, some doctors are very kind, of course, it is not excluded that there are some who are more indifferent. After doing a job for a long time, it will naturally have some professional influences, but it still depends on the nature of the person, for example, it can't be said that the police are very rough when they often go out on tasks.

Actually, it's good to know more friends who write differently, if it's good to say that half of it depends on the person's character, you can't decide because of what your job is, right?

He's making excuses for himself, you take him too seriously, so he doesn't value you. Do you live together? Let's separate for a while, if he misses you, he will naturally look for you. If he doesn't look for you, then don't want such a man.

The psychiatrist won't be there.

It's just that you really should reflect on yourself.

It's right that you love him and think of him as the center of your life.

But also pay attention to the way.

For example, your mother loves you very much, because you are the only daughter, so she stares at you all day and doesn't let you go out casually, for fear that you will meet the bad guy, or bump into you, and she won't let you get married, and she won't let you take on chores like housework.

So what will happen to you?

The same is to be surrounded by love.

The loved one feels tired and the loved one feels like they are going to suffocate.

You should trust him.

It's just a woman, since he's above board, you don't have to worry so much, if he's the kind of guy who will be distracted when he sees a woman, then you'd better stay away from such a man, but in fact, will he? I'm afraid there won't be so many nymphomaniacs in the world, so you do have a problem dealing with feelings.

Women know how to be tolerant and understand is the most beautiful thing in a man's heart.

If you like someone, you have to endure this, if you are brave enough to dump him, the days are still long, you can't endure it forever. Ever wondered what would happen if you got married?

Do you want to leave him, let him know that his world can't do without you, and let him cherish you very much.

I'm very similar to you, but it's a pity that I'm a boy, and many people tell me to look down on it and want to open more, but I can't do it, I care a lot like you, and if you want to blame it, we are all in our own feelings.

If you give too much love, you will only hurt people like us.

I think it's normal for you to do this, it's your boyfriend who talks too much.

Although you like him very much, the relationship is two-fold. It's time for you to think about whether he really likes you?

A good man will not break the heart of his beloved woman, and he will not let his beloved woman cry".

The man who loves you won't make you cry, and the man who makes you cry doesn't deserve your love!!

Love him and believe in him! But also let others know that no one of your men should want to touch him!

I estimate that he already has a heart disease, and he needs to see it immediately, and the more difficult it is to treat it after a long time, he will have phobias, panic, and depression when he goes out.

It is also very simple to find a better hospital, do a laboratory test, prescribe to take it, and take the medicine according to the doctor's instructions, and the time for taking the medicine in one shift is about 2 years.

If you love him, read more books on mental diseases, and follow the content of the book, step by step, maybe you will be of great help to him, which doctors can't do.

If you can't be convinced, take him to a psychiatrist, and don't become An Jiahe.

Take him to a psychiatrist.

Your boyfriend is still psychologically influenced by that girl, and it is useless for him to say more, if there is a way to persuade him, take him to a psychiatrist.

If you love him, it doesn't matter what he is.

Hehe, have you watched "Different Dimension"? In fact, the person who is most likely to have psychological problems is a psychiatrist.

Unfortunately, I'm one of them.

Everyone has something about themselves, and sometimes it is cathartic. Actually, it's nothing. Actually, sometimes.

At the right time. Meet the right people. It's easy to talk about the unhappiness in your heart.

But sometimes. It doesn't have to be that your boyfriend can't understand you. It's that he's also busy.

And at this time. You show up and say some more. Let him worry about you.

It's troublesome.

Actually, it works? It's easy to find right now. But finding the right one for you is a problem.

So you still don't have to rush. Communicate with your parents. In fact, they also care about you.

In such. But you think sometimes. No need to find your boyfriend.

In fact, your parents are your best psychiatrist. But because maybe it's a matter of age. There is a generation gap in communication or thinking between us and our parents, which makes us feel very aggrieved sometimes.

But that's not a problem. Regulate yourself. You're also an adult.

There are some things that you can figure out on your own. As for your boyfriend. Not every man has a personality that can comfort and comfort you.

That doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Maybe it's his personality problem. His love for you may be shown in another way.

But if you have mental discomfort. You can think of your best friend. Distant netizens who are familiar but will never meet confide.

But these friends must be reliable, maybe you will be better this way. Hope you can find your dream job. Happy every day.

Life is good. Cherish every day of yourself.

Truth be told, your problem is actually normal, really, it doesn't mean that your boyfriend has an opinion on you or doesn't care about you, this is the normal reaction of too many people, of course, your boyfriend's patience is almost good, if one day your boyfriend complains in turn, you can understand, in fact, you are here to be right, when you finish asking this question, maybe you are in a much better mood.

can understand your mood, but things exist objectively, men are very realistic, your boyfriend is right, you should adjust your mentality now and work hard to solve the problem of work. Your boyfriend is not a "trash can" for you to vent your complaints, and women should be self-reliant. Think about your boyfriend from a different angle, and you will understand that it is not easy for him to solve his work problems as soon as possible, good luck!

He doesn't love you at all, but he will be very nervous about you and care about your feelings. Do whatever it takes to make you happy.

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I basically understand what you mean, and it's important to be your boyfriend at this time to learn to listen. Do not be your psychiatrist, look at his abilities. But the most important thing, no matter what, you have to learn to be strong yourself, you know!?

Men are like that, they don't cherish what they get, and if you're not his girlfriend, maybe he won't pull, try to talk to a male friend who has a crush on you.

Like you. It's annoying to be a man.