How can I make my life wonderful when there is no affection between husband and wife?

First of all, a wonderful life requires a strong self-confident heart, especially a woman, must have her own job, if not, find a job first, not to make money, is to contact the crowd, to find their own social circle, in fact, friends are very important, not before, then from now on, find a, society is not more cautious than school, making friends, once it is determined that she is very good, then cast into it, will definitely harvest friendship.

Secondly, it is easier for beautiful women to build self-confidence by dressing themselves up beautifully, so buy some beautiful clothes and draw a beautiful outfit.

Again, charm is from the inside out, if you don't feel attractive yourself, then you must be dull, so, you must tell yourself, I am excellent, at least I am kind, kindness is an excellent quality of a woman, so, make yourself strong from the heart, then men are insignificant, maybe when you are really confident and beautiful, your marriage is also happy

Make yourself like an activity, such as dancing, playing games, embroidery, swimming, etc., and you can be happy without a man in your life, and you should be without this man, but you may not have affection for each other, but there is already a family relationship.

You can also put all your energy into your child, and you will be very happy to raise your child well.

My husband too, I hate to death when I play Warcraft every day, I don't care about anything at home, I get close, he thinks I'm in the way. What can we do, we don't have children yet. I don't bother him every day now, when I come back from work and do my own things, I just look at **, go shopping, try to divert my attention, after all, he has his life, I can't put all my emotions on him.

Sometimes it's sad and I want to find someone to talk to and see him playing a game again, which is boring. I wrote my own diary, which is also a way to relieve my emotions, after all, after writing a diary, I have talked to myself, it is much better.

Why do you think that you are not attractive, a woman can be very beautiful with confidence, how can you have no friends, it is because you have not walked out of your circle to see the world, open your eyes, if you really don't believe in yourself, but if you have money, make money yourself to go to plastic surgery, plastic surgery is also a good choice if you can make yourself happy. But since you have been married, it means that your appearance will not be ugly, it can only be said that you are not confident in yourself, and you are too lazy, and too timid to go out of your current life circle, try to travel is okay, it will open your eyes, try to live for yourself, do your own choice to be the person you choose to be.

If you want to get a divorce for the sake of your children, it's not necessarily good, but you will have problems in this way.

Capturing a man's heart is not an easy task. It's not a bad thing that your husband likes to play with computers, and there are times when you get tired of playing with computers. Be considerate, caring, and attentive, who can do nothing--- and when your husband encounters unstoppable difficulties, he will understand your importance.

Divorce is, of course, the most unwise decision, which will have a great shadow on the child and is not conducive to his physical and mental health. You can distract yourself by doing something else so that you don't see it out of sight and don't get out of mind.

There's no such thing as the best of both worlds, it's just a matter of holding on to it. Their parents, who have quarreled for many years, whether it is others or themselves, feel that they are not in love, and there is probably hatred between the two of them, but at a certain moment, they have become each other's only support. They thought they didn't love anymore, but they didn't realize that love was just another form.

After so many years of marriage, I think that form should be family affection, we are willing to give everything for each other in times of crisis, but it is difficult to keep the years together when we are stable.

This year's new perception is that I don't know if I was too young or I was too ignorant, I plunged headlong into love, marriage, and lost myself, and now I think about it, this may be a big taboo. If you have your own life, if you happen to have dreams in your life, if you regard marriage, love, children, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships as only a part of your life instead of all of it, then there will be too little pull to hurt each other. We should use this strength to move forward together, and at worst, we should strive for our own goals.

Leave the past behind, start over, and re-cultivate feelings. No matter how many stumbles there were in the previous days, no matter how many quarrels and fights there were, and even the divorce agreement was written again and again, but so what? Your fates have been linked since the day you got married, and you are two of the closest people in the world anyway.

In addition to love, there is also the existence of family affection between you, at least you have an emotional foundation, everything is possible.

With the advancement of time, the relationship between husband and wife has mostly evolved into family affection, and the bond between parents and children on both sides is no longer just between the two of you, but involves the most important people to you, such as children, such as parents. Sometimes there is helplessness in life, just as we have no way to choose our origins, and the same is true between husband and wife, although there are many contradictions, although there are many unsuitable. Many times it is still necessary to work hard to maintain this relationship.

Just think about the good of the other party in everything, think about what was his first impression when he first met? Thinking back on the good things, maybe, it will be better, you both learn to think about each other's good, you will do the best of both worlds, for the family, for the children, for the elderly.

I think it's better to communicate properly and cultivate feelings, after all, they have become husband and wife, and if there is no relationship, married life will be very unhappy！Regardless of whether two people formally enter the marriage hall or not, they need to be slowly cultivated and maintained, the establishment of the relationship is not immutable, it has a stage of fading and extraordinarily harmonious, two people do not feel anxious because the relationship is in place and the relationship does not become harmonious with the development of the relationship, no matter when the relationship can be cultivated and established, two people can greatly promote the relationship through some actions.

We know that there will be certain contradictions in all people's lives, and then the contradictions will bring about large and small quarrels, if the contradictions are not handled well, these little things will leave different things in the hearts of two people, do not know how to understand will bring scars, and leave large and small hurdles in the heart, understanding and tolerance will bring the reconciliation of quarrels, affecting the clever resolution of such incidents between two people in the futureEvery tolerance of each other will make each other understand these intentions, all ways of dealing with and emotions are contagious, if the way to resolve from the beginning is positive, then love has been sown in the hearts of two people.

If there is no affection between husband and wife, you can try to cultivate a relationship, and if you really can't do it, you can separate rooms or separate houses.

The two respected each other like guests, did not quarrel or quarrel, and hurriedly divorced at the right time.

Husband and wife are not in harmony. Just separate. If the child is still young, he will be able to support himself when he is older. Two people can break up peacefully.

I think it's hard. Between the two, together. I think it's awkward. Since you have no feelings, what face do you want to divorce quickly!

If so, they can only live their own lives while maintaining a semblance of peace.

So don't meet each other. Anyway, there is no emotion, just a few children. If there is always a war in the family, it is not good for the development of the child. Children will be insecure.

If there is no affection between the husband and wife, but they can't be separated, maybe it's for the sake of the children, if so, wait, the children are married, let's talk about the things between the husband and wife, and live like this now.

Then try to think about how good the other person is to you, and think about it, and you will have feelings.

Understand each other, think about each other's good, establish a new relationship, two people often chat with each other to find their own truth, so that it will be good slowly.

Then sleep in a separate room, and there is nothing to cross paths except for eating together.

If you can't separate, then you can be a co-tenant, respect each other under the same roof, and leave the eaves to live your own wonderful life!

On the premise of maintaining the marriage, try not to disturb the other person's life.

No feeling is a kind of torment, think more about the good before, go back to the good times, maybe the feelings can be warmed up.

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Marriage is from love to affection, which may become dull, but it is long-lasting.

Tolerance and trust are the key points.

Go back to love, be considerate of him, and try to give in when you quarrel, otherwise the relationship will be noisy. You can set a day every month for the two of you to go out for a romantic get. Forehead. Can't remember.

Tolerant, but not conniving!!

Marriage needs two people to tolerate before you can go further, I hope you can grow old together.

I have been married for many years and I believe that everyone who has experienced it will deeply feel the same way, from the initial enthusiasm to the slow decline , and I am also one of them . Later, it was b e a t e u h s e who saved us , and I think you can also try playing with my husband , which will definitely increase your feelings . We bought a couple resonator.

Don't be small, discover more, create new ideas.

Yes, getting married for the sake of getting married, two people have no love directly, only when they are old enough to get married, and you happen to be the one who looks more pleasing to the eye, and after getting married, they respect each other like guests, like familiar strangersThere is no affection between the two people, and some are just tied by a marriage certificate, I have reached the age when I should get married, and you just need a wife, so you can make do with a lifetime, a flash, a lifetime will pass.

I don't like this kind of relationship very much, I don't like it very much, I get married for the sake of getting married, there is no marriage based on love, it is an imperfect marriage, there is no fireworks, there is only the life of two people, there is no little sweetness between lovers, the choice will be together, such emotions would rather not, unwilling to accept such feelings, I want a person with the appearance of love, the appearance of love.

Don't get married, two people look at each other, you look at me, I look at you, I don't know what to say, two people have no common topic, life after marriage without each other's participation, live their own life, without any shadow of each other.

I am glad that I met love, married love, I met my own Prince Charming, it was worth the hard wait, the moment I met him, it was the starting point of happiness, the beginning of love,He is very considerate and considerate of people, takes care of people's feelings, and will not force you to complete the things he doesn't like, he only wants you to do what you like, be yourself, live your own characteristics, and live the way you should be.

He won't let you stay at home and take care of the children in a macho manner, you can go out to work, you can go out to work, he can go out to work, he is responsible for raising you, and I am responsible for being beautiful like a flower.

Yes, they are still disgusted when they get married, they get married just to prevaricate their parents, and it is actually useless to force marriage, if you can't meet someone you like, what can you do if you get married.

There should be, some people get married for love, some are forced to get married, some are married for profit, and some are married ...... their sonsIn short, they don't necessarily all have love!

I guess there is, because of the children, I don't get divorced. Now there should be fewer people in this society with a high divorce rate, and generally those who have no feelings will choose to divorce.

Absolutely. Because they didn't get married, they had a good life, and when they got married, they felt that everything had changed, and it was getting worse and worse, and their feelings were slowly getting bigger.

Of course, most of them have children, and they haven't left for the sake of their children.

What kind of marriage is not firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the end, plain is true.

Yes, there are many such phenomena in today's society, people work hard for life, the pace of life is fast, the pressure is high, and they don't want to get married early, so they are dragging on, and they are getting older and older, so they don't get married under the urging of their families, and they get married in a hurry.