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Your thoughts change with your experience, one thing, every word may change, and it depends on your own heart whether you want to change back.
Instead of how to change back, why don't you think about how you changed, have you become pessimistic because of the change? You should think about why you are pessimistic!
I am also very pessimistic, the reason is that I have no money, and I have no money so that I don't have a woman now, which is why I am pessimistic, and if I want to change, I have to become rich
It's the same with you, only you know what you need, and you don't get anything, that's why you're pessimistic, and when you find a way to get it, you won't be pessimistic anymore
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It doesn't matter what kind of outlook on life you have.
So what does it matter if change is not the same.
To be pessimistic, then you have to find things that you love to do.
Keep yourself busy.
And make a show.
For example, if you know a very high-level guy, they are busy with problems every day, and they are much more enriched.
There's no time to be pessimistic.
The same goes for other things.
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The concept is one's own, and the outlook on life is one of the concepts. The most volatile! The opposite of pessimism is optimism. Optimism refers to the idea of hope. You can change it if you want to!
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Spend more time with friends... Working or studying, filling up my time, my experience is that only when life is rich and not empty can I not be pessimistic.
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Once the outlook on life is formed, it is difficult to change, but it does not mean that it cannot be changed, it depends on whether you are willing to change it. Forming a certain outlook on life has a lot to do with the environment in which you grew up. It also has a lot to do with the education you receive.
Learn Marx's philosophy, read books, and cultivate a healthy and upward outlook on life. Hope it helps.
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How to quickly change your way of thinking and living habits?
The first step is to find out what you want to change, such as habits that you get frustrated easily, feel frustrated, or go to extremes, etc. Find out here, it is not a matter of taking it for granted in the ordinary surface consciousness, but to go deep behind the idea, not to be deceived by the surface phenomenon, for example, someone does not like to talk, as soon as he speaks, he is nervous, on the surface, it seems that this person is introverted and does not like to talk, but the real situation is not like this, because he is in front of his relatives or acquaintances, it may be another performance, he may become enthusiastic and outgoing, love to talk, so, we must accurately find out the part of ourselves that we want to change, Under what circumstances would this be the case?
The second step is to find out what you want to change, and find out the corresponding result after the change, or the above example, don't like to talk, introverted, so what do we want to look like after the change? It is to be able to calmly and calmly stand on one's true thoughts and express oneself. This is the desired result of the change, which is often called the goal, and the change without the goal will not work.
The third step is the brain's subconscious pursuit of happiness and avoidance of pain, that is, if a way of thinking or living habits will make you feel pain, then the subconscious will automatically avoid it, which is what psychology calls phobia.
If a lifestyle or way of thinking makes the brain feel happy and happy, then the brain will be happy to repeat the habit over and over again.
The method of change is the method of the 30 days of potential explosion that I found in the spring, which is to associate the habits you want to change with great suffering, and the habits you want to have with great happiness.
Let me give you an example of how I changed my own habit of laziness, I linked laziness with the despisation of poverty in five years, and the despisation of poverty in ten years, and by analogy, the more detailed and specific the imagination, the greater the superimposed pain, and in the end, as soon as the idea of doing it again tomorrow and taking a break appeared in my mind, the great pain naturally appeared, and inspired me to continue working and studying.
Then, associating the part of wanting to have with great happiness is about the same as associating pain, and the more you add it step by step, the more positive the brain will react to when you take action. The whole step of change, which is about that, is very effective and can change a person's habitual personality in a few days.
The ability to express is limited, if you really still can't figure it out, go to the whole set of pirated ones, learn it, the official ones are too expensive.
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Gloomy? If it were me, I would comfort myself first, and don't pay so much attention to what is cold first.
At least if you don't take it seriously, you won't think badly.
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Actively participate in group activities and activities of interest to enhance your confidence and interest in the process of interacting with others.
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Everyone has their own opinions, opinions, and ideas about things, and you can think of people as a combination of different ideas.
Among them, the viewpoint of "expressing it by action" and "judging whether things are good or bad, right or wrong" is a person's values.
By definition, as long as your actions appear to be different from your original views on right and wrong, you have changed your values.
For example, the people around me have to respect me and love me, otherwise they will have to live a miserable slave-level life, so I use all the means that work to turn people into slaves (into debt slaves, mine slaves, love slaves, etc.): work for me, most of the money I earn is mine, beautiful women are mine, excellent men are also mine, the company is mine, the fruits of everyone's labor are mine, your time is also mine, what I want is to make people love me, respect me, admire me, In order to maintain all this, I hired personal bodyguards, police and even the military, and bought off**.
The values on which this act is based: It is reasonable to use all means to gain respect and affection for myself, no matter how many people I have hurt.
Now, the slaves have rebelled from obedience to hard labor on such a scale that everything I have worked so hard to exploit has been taken away, my family has been looted and humiliated, and I myself have been mutilated. The important thing is that people don't respect me and love me anymore.
So I started from scratch, respecting others, thinking about others, helping others solve their difficult problems, no longer living in luxury, and after a long time, I found that people also respected me, and when I was sick, friends, colleagues, and neighbors came to see me, buy supplements, take turns talking to me, and find ways to make me happy. In this way, you can also get the love of others. It turns out that there is a way to get the love of others without hiring bodyguards and cops.
The values behind this behavior are that I want to live this life by respecting others and thinking about others, and I don't have to put so much effort into protecting myself. (not the same values as before).
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A person's outlook on life has been constantly evolving, occasionally there will be mutations, with the deepening of the understanding of the outside world and their own hearts, this point of view is more and more mature, more and more stable, more and more difficult to change, but difficult to change is not the same, as long as people have a breath, there is always a chance to change, many late bloomers are in adulthood after the drastic change of outlook on life. Of course, the difficulty of this change is very high, and it can be controlled by non-human beings, and more people still take the path of gradual change, and when they get old, they barely feel that they may have taken a stupid ...... at that time
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Philosophy? Of course it can be changed, and it can be changed many, many times.
She likes to change people the most, and tell me what happened to her.
What can ultimately boil down a question to the question of people's outlook on life?
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I dare not say that the mature people's outlook on life has been precipitated after change, but at least it is the most realistic and suitable law for this society. Wait until you've become a mature person, and then think about it.
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It is difficult to change, just like some people have an epiphany at the moment of experiencing life and death, and their outlook on life has changed.
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Yes, the key is that you don't work hard, in real life there is no absolute, only relative, I hope it can help you.
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The outlook on life and values can be changed, and the things you do and the friends you make will lead to your views and understandings in all aspects, such as you are often with excellent people, and you have a chance of becoming excellent at least 80Everyone has a world of their own in their eyes. You say that what you have learned is a view and perspective on the world, and you don't know what kind of perspective you are
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When I was a child, I learned how to study hard, to be a scientist, to be a doctor, to be a teacher, etc., to learn in middle school how to aspire to become a talented person and to be a thoughtful and literate person, and what I learned in college was to change my own destiny and change the world. The reality is that not all the thoughts, skills, and knowledge you learn are useful. In reality, it is not easy to learn how to survive, to find a job, to earn money, to buy a house, to protect yourself.
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I'm like that sometimes, and I can change at any age. As long as the mind is peaceful; Thinking the opposite; Find a goal: a goal in life! With your heart, I believe it will change!
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Of course, anything is possible, but it has to be different from person to person, if it is yourself, then since you have this intention to change, it is more likely, if it is someone else, I suggest not to be too demanding, do not try to change others, because then it will be very difficult.
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The outlook on life is slowly formed from elementary school, and when you grow up, it will naturally form, and it will not change easily, unless it encounters some great harm in society, it will gradually change If the man declines again, she will leave depending on the situation.
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You feel that the outlook on life cannot be changed, so what do you think determines a person's outlook on life? It's up to your heart, and mindset can change at any time, as long as you fully understand what mindset is, you know what it means. Mentality means the meaning of your life, mentality means whether you are happy or not, and mentality can determine everything in the world.
To put it bluntly, as long as the mentality changes the sky, the worldview can change, and the mentality changes the sky, and the outlook on life can also change the sky.
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It is better not to change an adult's outlook on life, and it is very dangerous to force a change. You can work hard to improve and sublimate. Human nature is difficult to change, a bad word, a dog can't change eating, her nature will not change.
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It's not impossible to change, it's just that it takes time and opportunity.
It's like the protagonist in some stories who sees something or does something inadvertently, and then suddenly thinks about it deeply, and then has an epiphany. After that, the way people and things will be changed.
And this kind of thing can't be rushed, just follow the fate.
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When I was studying, it was always written in the political books that I should establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values. At that time, I asked the teacher what was right, and the teacher hesitated for a while, and then said lightly, "I believe in the party." Looking back now, I can only say that the teacher was really good.
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Not necessarily, many people have an epiphany in an instant, but some people can't realize life in this life.
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It will change, my outlook on life is constantly changing, but the main purpose is the same.
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It depends on what kind of disease he has. If it's not easy to ** disease, then you can leave him. After all, you're a girl, and you have to think about your future. But if you love him very much, go out.
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Does illness have a lot to do with outlook on life?
If you're sick, of course, you're going to go all out.
Only a sound body can show one's outlook on life.
Accomplish your dreams.
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Finding a way to see a doctor is always sick and hurts self-esteem.
Feel like a piece of waste.
When the body is good, the mood and a lot of opinions are naturally good.
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Are you a sick man? Beware of widowhood!
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Pay more attention to each other's habits and build confidence in each other.
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Let him see more of the beauty of life
His vision is too small, too narrow, almost can't see the sun, a person's real self-confidence has nothing to do with academic qualifications, family background, is from himself, do not waste every day, can achieve something, sincere dedication, get sincere returns With these, it is natural to be optimistic
Not all rich people are bad people, not all poor people must be kind-hearted, for our sake, some people are successful and free to have their cleverness, or smart, or will be human, and have opportunities But if you want to treat people well for a long time, it is useless If you see too little sunlight, your eyes will naturally deteriorate, and even in the end, you will avoid the sun and "upstream", just like with you by your side, you are better than him in many places, but he feels uncomfortable, then you have to let him know that this is not all, It's not the whole of life, and the reason for inferiority should be, because it's better to have you, and progress together
If he can't change this, forget it, so as not to dislike each other and be uneven for a long time Everyone be kind, be peaceful, be sincere
This is the "right door", ideology, hobbies This is to cultivate each other and run in Bless you
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