Can the post 80s accept a marriage age difference of more than five years? Why?

I think it's normal to have a difference of 5 years, my husband is 8 years older than me, I feel very happy, because he can stand alone in both life and social, which will make you feel relaxed and secure, and you must find someone good to find a boyfriend, especially to be good to yourself, whether it is older than you or younger than you, as long as the two of them talk, they can do things in each other's hearts, the two of them are very relaxed together, and they can be together if they feel like relatives, and it's useless to think too much!

It doesn't matter if men are more than five years older than women, men are more charming when you are in you, and women are different, women age faster than men, if women are more than five years older than men, after middle age, two people together, women will look very old.

What's the matter, men are more mature and sensible than women and know how to feel distressed, and women age fast, men are just a little older, I'm also 89, it's me, I can also take love, why do you want to do so much, love, love is good, nothing else is an excuse.

It depends on whether it's a man or a woman.,If you can really reach middle age,,There won't be the situation you said.,Two people have been together for decades.,Personalities will become very similar to each other.。。

It's not incongruous, and if you start to care now, it means that you already have doubts about the two of you being together.

Actually, I don't think age is a problem, my buddy also fell in love with a woman who was more than ten years older than him, and my girlfriend was also older than me, which is actually nothing, as long as the two of them come together, hehe.

If it is a female male 5-year-old, it is not acceptable, and if it is a male male or a female 5-year-old, it is still acceptable.

My boyfriend is 5 years older than me, so I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

I think it's acceptable, as long as it's love, it's the love of both parties!

Love doesn't care about age.

It doesn't matter if it's coordinated or not.

The most important thing is to love each other deeply.

And I want to grow old with each other.

I'm 86 years old, in the middle. I think it's acceptable if you're 5 years apart.

In fact, the actual age is not the same as the mental age. My 89-year-old, my first cousin's 82-year-old, is ...... like my sister

Hey, don't be so old-fashioned, what's the difference of 5 years? The relationship is good, age and height are not a problem, isn't it, hehe.

What's there for a five-year-old? But are you talking about men or women? My boyfriend is 17 years older than me, and he is often like a kid sometimes, hehe. I'm 86.

As long as there is money and power, there is nothing that can be accepted or not.

The most important thing is to see if your feelings can accept it!

There are those who are happy and those who are troubled and painful, in fact, the age difference is not a problem, the main thing is that both parties learn how to manage the lifelong events of this marriage, and they will manage happiness and will not be painful.

Five years old is not much. Same as a normal couple.

As the saying goes: height is not distance, age is not a problem.

It should be very good, in fact, both parties should be able to understand each other and be humble to each other.

Age is not a factor in marriage.

Age is not an issue, what matters is whether you really have no feelings for her anymore? What would happen to you if she did leave? Have you ever thought that she has paid so much for you, yes, maybe she herself has thought that she is so much older than you, maybe she has considered such a thing.

You tell her the truth, will she afford it, is it you man, I see a lot of beautiful girls outside, so I think she is old, you should feel happy with such a wife, maybe the outside world is too exciting, you are a little ready to move in your heart.

Truly loving someone is not child's play, being with her is not child's play, and marrying her is not child's play, so you have to think carefully about your affairs.

Yes, at your age, you should be in your adolescence.

If you think like this, it means that you don't love her anymore, then there is another injured woman in this world.

But I hope you all have a happy ending!

Do you think she's old now? You have to be kind to your wife, she has done so much for you, you didn't look at her age when you married her, and now you can't abandon her because of her age.

In fact, I think that if a boy wants to marry the woman he loves, he should at least give her a place to live, which is the minimum. But the reality is that housing prices are so high that even a down payment mortgage is not affordable for everyone. Since you love him and want to marry and live with him, the current practical practice is to rent a house and get married, and then sell a second-hand house or mortgage to buy a small house in the future.

I wish you all happiness!

Most of the people in China don't have cars or houses, so it's impossible not to get married because they don't have a house, right?

In this material society, how many marriageable young people buy houses on their own?

Now the post-80s and post-90s society relies on the houses bought by their parents, and then they struggle to accumulate money the day after tomorrow.

You can't wait until you buy a house to get married, right? Oh, so you can get married now, rent a house, save money slowly, buy a small one, and then buy a big one!!

You can't have no place to live without your own house, right?

Then get married. Since you love him and he loves you, what is there to hesitate about?

As long as you don't see the house as an obstacle, it's not an obstacle.

If you both agree, then you can live in your current home after you get married, or buy a small house as a transition. Life is your own, and there is no need to make too many unnecessary comparisons.

This is normal.

But when you think about it, you both at least have jobs, you can basically buy whatever you want to eat, and you can afford to wear whatever you want (as long as it's not too much), what's not to be satisfied with?

We didn't have anything when we got married, and now it's fine.

In addition, you are far from the older mothers. China 30, foreign 36 later.

Don't worry about yourself, life is so beautiful.

The most enviable thing about you is that you love him and he loves you so well.

Many of my friends get married first and then think about the house slowly. See what you think. If you insist on buying a house first and then getting married, you still need to be frugal in life.

You can rent a house first, you two slowly struggle, then buy a small one, then struggle, and then buy a big one, little by little, they are all young people. Besides, you're not a very material girl yourself, and you still like him very much, so why bother with the house. How many families have a house and a car, don't they all rely on the hard work of two people?

Has he thought about how you can be rich, the problem we have is the same. Hopefully, he will get rich in such a good form of economy. He's so happy to have you!!

Let's rent a house and get married, many people are like this, and the current housing prices are too expensive, and my boyfriend and I are about to get married, and we are also looking at the house, which is a headache.

What's this, my partner and I are both 80, and we didn't have a house when we got married, we got married in 05, and the house came down in 07.

According to the actual situation. If you need it, buy a small one first.

Rent first, work together to make money, and buy when you have money.

That medicine depends on what you think.

If you are really inseparable, rent a house, rent if you don't buy it, and don't live with his parents anyway.

I wondered, he is 80 years old and 29 years old this year, why doesn't he have a house yet?

As long as you look after him and believe in him, you will live in a better house than theirs in the future.

Hehe, as long as you care for each other, what kind of house do you want? Hurry up and rent a house to live in and tie the knot, and then work hard to buy a house. If you can't decide, it's up to him to see what he means.

Personally, I think it's better to get married first.

Not to mention the house, I still don't have a girlfriend.

It's like a shoe, the person who wears it knows if it fits, but others don't. The guy upstairs said that men are older than women, but men have a short lifespan and will die early. Women are older than men, and the world feels abnormal.

However, it is necessary for the marriage to understand whether it is right or not, not what others say. A colleague of mine has a wife who is eight years older than him, and his life is still happy, and now his wife is in her fifties, and it seems that he is quite right.

It has little to do with age, life is mainly dominated by personal thoughts and needs.

Addressing the age gap between men and women in marriage. Personally, I think the age gap is too big for sure. The greater the age difference, the more problems there will be.

But it doesn't mean that the two of them have to be average to be just right. I think there should be a degree of age difference. The best difference is 8-10 years old.

Whether it is a man or a woman, or a woman or a man, some people can still identify and accept it.

The combination of people with too big an age gap does not rule out the possibility of true feelings. But I don't think what young man or woman would not want to live with someone who is not much different from him. And willing to live a life in front of a person who is much older than himself every day.

I think the first thing to do is to understand what you want. Try to choose a marriage that is not too different in age, and in the future life, you may take fewer detours, so that your life will be more happy and less regretful and regretful.

In fact, with the same age and similar experiences, it should be easier for couples to communicate with each other. Couples of the same age should seize this biggest advantage and manage their marriage well.

These are just a few of the insights on the age gap!

I strongly support the situation of the landlord, and if you like it, you have to fight for it!

Marriage is regardless of age, so it is very realistic to fall in love in today's fashion era, as long as you take the initiative to pursue and believe that you will have the best opportunity, don't hesitate to attack, embrace your favorite!

If the gap is too big, there will definitely be a problem, but the gap between you is not big, especially the male and female are better, chase her, you have enough ability, you will give her a lifetime of happiness!

Actually, you can mainly look at the girl, if she thinks it's nothing, you can chase it, if she thinks that kind of couple is not good, then you should give up as soon as possible.

You can choose a place and time, and it's better to ask on the side. (Of course, the atmosphere should be very relaxed) What do you say?

It is normal for men to be under 10 years older than women!

I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend is 27 years old. So, the age difference between the two of us is 7 years. We don't have a problem getting along, maybe I prefer older boys, because I think the other party's thinking will be more mature, and the career has been stable, which can give me a stable life.

If you really like her, you have the courage to chase her, because girls hate timid, ungenerous and unconfident boys the most, are you even so afraid of chasing a girl? Do you want the girl to come back and chase you??? Being good and beautiful doesn't mean anything, the most important thing is inner beauty.

Actually, I'm also a good and beautiful girl

If she feels the same way for you, then that's fine

It's normal, you can refer to Yang Zhenning.

No problem, depending on how you get along.

Xia Meng: Is the marriage of "old cows eating tender grass" happy? Come and listen to the woman's opinion, it's realistic!

Of course, it can't be understood that way. When looking for a marriage partner, you should pay more attention to your inner thoughts. If the other party is the same age, you can talk about it, do you still want to break up?

This is certainly unrealistic. The key is to find someone who is suitable for you, such as a certain condition that you want the other person to achieve. More importantly, two people who are together can understand each other, trust each other, respect each other, and build a bridge of communication at the same time, so that the relationship can be more stable and life sweeter!

This is not necessarily, it has something to do with the man's personality and hobbies.

There are no absolutes. But older men are a bit more mature. I don't think I need to look for it. The men who are flowery are all over 30.

It all depends on the seriousness of both sides.

This is indeed a very tricky problem, and it is one that many people have. Money disputes are the biggest headaches.

I've been in this situation before, and I can only state a few facts, and the rest is up to you.

1.Whether your relationship is really reliable or not is a prerequisite for you to be together and live for a long time.

2.Do your parents approve of you being together, marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families.

3.Can you reach more than 60% consensus on this matter? Too much contradiction will cause a rift in the relationship.

4.Whether your boyfriend blindly obeys the arrangement of the family, whether he is assertive or not, the decision-making power is in your hands.

5.Your partner's family background is relatively complicated, and you are ready to integrate into such a family.

It's better to think about it now than to regret it later.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is also a major event, and there should be no less etiquette things, so as to show the importance of you.

Marriage can be compromised, love can not be compromised, when love has not become a marriage, it is determined that love is voluntary, in order to withstand the long-term run-in of marriage.

Finally, I wish you happiness!