Can you accept a flash marriage Can you accept a flash marriage?

I can't accept such a thing as a flash marriage, what I hope more is to understand each other and slowly cultivate a relationship with each other, rather than losing my mind in the face of sudden feelings, and still accepting flash marriage hastily by a momentary impulse.

Many years ago, the marriage of our ancestors was mostly the order of our parents and the words of the matchmaker, and the elders of the family arranged their own marriage and emotional life, which lasted for thousands of years, but with the development of our social concept of marriage and love, and the improvement of individual love freedom, more and more people began to control their marriage and no longer accept the old ideas.

As long as we can accept it, what kind of marriage and love we want to live, first get married and then fall in love, or get married naturally after falling in love to a certain extent, or even flash marriage, it is the freedom of each of us, and we can choose by ourselves without interference from others......

I know an example of two men and women who got to know each other for 4 hours after they officially met, chatted as if they had known each other for many years, and went to get a marriage certificate the next day. Even their parents were stunned. Of course, they are also considered to be talented men and women, a very compatible pair.

I haven't heard any news of their divorce now, so I guess I'm living a pretty good life.

But I'm still not very receptive to flash marriages. Not to mention that in 4 hours, you will marry each other ......

Most of those who get married in flash now are because their feelings have been empty for too long and they are older, so when they meet each other's hearts, girls want to marry themselves out quickly, and boys want to marry their wives ......home as soon as possible

But before that, whether they know each other well enough, whether the other party's life concept and lifestyle, whether they are more consistent with their own or completely different from their own, are prone to conflicts, and they will not consider these. Instead, he thought impulsively, let's get married, so I went to get a marriage certificate.

For me, if I had to choose, I would probably choose to fall in love first and then get married. We must have a stage to get acquainted with each other slowly, adapt to each other's integration into our own lives, instead of getting married very quickly, but only to find out that we can't get along with each other at all in life, and then because of "incompatible personalities", we will "get married and ......divorce" very quickly

Got married so quickly, divorced so quickly, and because of such a bad personality, why did you go before getting married? So what to do in a hurry?

Although there is less and less discrimination against people who are divorced by marriage, I still hope that my married life can be more cautious, which is a more responsible attitude towards each other's feelings and a more serious approach to life......

You must know that many lovers, after the beginning of the relationship, have a lot of contradictions. Not to mention that both parties in a marriage have to live together every day, and conflicts and conflicts will be more intense ......If there is no stable emotional foundation......How can we face those contradictions together?

At the very least, you should understand it before you consider getting married! The stakes for a flash marriage are too big! It's also a kind of irresponsibility to yourself! Give yourself to a stranger for the rest of your life! I can't accept it.

Acceptable. However, flash marriages are not accepted.

Marriage proposal is just a formality, anyone can do it, and it really doesn't matter if you don't have a head.

The most important thing is to understand each other before marriage, to see the man's character and sincerity to you.

Marriage is a very serious, deliberate decision that involves the lives and futures of two people. In marriage, both parties need to respect each other, trust, support and reconcile each other. For this reason, I recommend that you and your partner communicate and think carefully before considering marriage to determine whether both parties' ideas and future plans are consistent and reasonable.

If you both think you're fully prepared, then of course it's time to get married. Be aware, however, that this is an important decision to be taken with caution and be considered carefully to avoid making the wrong choice on impulse.

Unacceptable, marriage is only once in a lifetime.

Unacceptable. Life goes on, work hard, live hard.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have her own stable job, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground of being a military anniversary to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight of this inner feeling or receiving cannot be described.

Even if I meet someone I like, I won't choose a flash marriage.

Because even if you like a person very much, you must understand his personality and his style of doing things, and then you must understand the actual situation of his family. I think falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, and it has a lot to do with the parents of both parties. If I marry him again and find that I don't get along with his parents, then I will regret getting married.

In order not to give myself a chance to regret it, I would not choose a flash marriage.

In fact, most flash marriages are because they are hot-headed and feel that the other party is their true love, so they marry each other. But I don't think it's possible to determine whether the other party is the person you really want just by looking at each other, you must contact the other party, understand his character, and know what shortcomings he has to determine whether you can get along with this person. Both people will be very sweet when they practice, and they will also feel that the other party is the other half they want, but as they spend more time together, the shortcomings of the two people are slowly exposed, and they will quarrel, and if they don't handle it well when they quarrel, it is easy for the two people to break up.

If you get married at this time, even if you want to break up, you can't do it, you can only endure it alone.

When some men and women go on a blind date, after a few days of communication, both parties feel good about themselves, and their feelings heat up quickly, and they soon complete a series of emotional and legal procedures to tease them, and walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand. On the surface, this kind of flash marriage after a blind date is a manifestation of encountering fate, but in fact it is an emotional impulse, at least a manifestation of not being serious or imprudent in attitude towards marriage.

So I think you can not be cautious when you fall in love, but you must be cautious when you get married, because marriage is a major event in your life, and you only get married once in this life, if you don't think about it well, regret is a lifelong regret. I think that marriage must be deliberate, and when getting married, the parents of both parties must also agree, so that the marriage of two people will be happy. I think a marriage with the blessing of parents will be happy, and if the marriage does not have the blessing of parents, then this marriage is destined to be unhappy.

So I'm going to have to think about it, and it's best to bring him home to meet my parents, and if my parents agree, I'll think about it.

In the blind date, if I can meet the right person, I will not choose flash marriage, because marriage is a serious issue, marriage is a lifelong event, and it can't be too casual. I think getting married is a very important thing, and you can't get married on the first day of meeting on the third day like a blind date arranged by your family, which may lead two people down the wrong path in marriage.

On the one hand, before getting married, you should go through a hard love run, and both parties need to go through a period of understanding and getting along, so that they can understand each other more deeply, so as to better determine their feelings. On the other hand, the families of both parties also need to understand each other's family background in a timely manner and understand each other's family situation clearly, so that both parties can better integrate together. Flash marriages, on the other hand, will not be satisfied in this regard, so flash marriages are not recommended.

Moreover, marriage is not only an emotional certainty, but also a spiritual and social certainty. Marriage is a social custom, it is a spiritual and social stability, and it is also a social responsibility, so it should also be considered carefully. Flash marriages are often not much mentally and socially prepared, and they are often married on impulse, which may bring a lot of unnecessary troubles to future married life, so flash marriages are not recommended.

All in all, marriage is an important thing that should be considered carefully, and flash marriage is not recommended, especially in the blind date arranged by the family, if you meet the right person, it is best for both parties to let each other know more first, and then choose to get married after two people lack lead letter and have feelings for each other.