I broke up with my boyfriend and felt uncomfortable

Yes! I just broke up with my boyfriend who has been with me for two years, even if you dump him, you will feel uncomfortable, because, people have been together for a long time, whether they love each other or not, they will have feelings, and people will also form a habit in the loss of time, you are very accustomed to the life with him, used to the life that someone cares about, and suddenly become your own person, you will definitely not get used to it, and the mood will definitely be bad, but time is also a good thing for you to forget the pain. After a long time, you will naturally forget about him and start a new life of your own.

Believe in yourself, the destined person will also come on time, wait with a good mood! ok！

Even if you break up, don't ask why, just let yourself forget him, and don't bitterly recall the past, you just take it as an episode in your life, you are suitable to live your new life, but don't be alone, then you will still think of him, you go out with friends more, it is best to find a way to let yourself out of that sad relationship that does not belong to you, find a friend who knows your heart, talk about your heart, but find someone a few years older than yourself, so that she will listen to you, It will also hand you a lot of things, so if you want to walk back, you have to rely on yourself, how to comfort yourself.

Why is it uncomfortable, you are uncomfortable means that you still love him and don't want to break up with him, but you broke up, then the reason is that your boyfriend doesn't want you, people like him who don't love their women deeply, what's the use of being nostalgic for him, you should not only not be miserable but should be happy, you can finally get rid of him, and you can finally find a man who loves you deeply.

I just broke up, of course I'm uncomfortable, and I've gotten used to a lot of things in the past two years. But it's going to get better over time.

This is normal, because you really loved. If you forget it, what does it mean to truly love?

Just like me, I loved someone, and that person loved me very much. But for some reason we had to separate, but I still think of him. I knew we couldn't do it anymore, so I had to slowly forget about him and think about him ten times today.

Think about him eight times tomorrow, and slowly I will forget about him.

It's normal to fall out of love, it's not a big deal! You have to go through this kind of thing in life to grow up!

It shows that you are a very emotional person.

But since I have given up.

Just learn to be optimistic.

Start your new life.

Find a new one to replace him, and you won't think too much about him.

This is also a fact that there is no way, just let time change everything!

You can find another man.

Understandable. So do I.

Psychological dependence is no longer empty.

Anything will pass. Why did you break up?

Why give up a forest for a tree?

The reason for this mentality is that everyone has become accustomed to the process of getting along with each other. Because two people may also experience a lot of things in the process of getting along, if they propose to break up at this time, it may also make everyone feel very reluctant. After this happens, everyone must adjust their mentality.

Because the personalities of two people are not compatible, there may be various conflicts even after marriage. <>

Many people may find that the personalities of both parties are incompatible in the process of falling in love, and even various conflicts may arise due to many small problems. In this process, everyone may also have the idea of breaking up, but they will be very reluctant to break up after the thought of breaking up. So this situation occurs because everyone is used to having each other's company, and they are also used to the process of getting along with each other.

Once you think that two people are going to break up, everyone's hearts will be very tormented, and at the same time, they feel that they are reluctant to break up with their partner. <>

After this situation occurs, everyone must adjust their inner state in time, because there may be various conflicts between two inappropriate people. Even after two people get married, there may still be quarrels due to some minor issues. At this time, once you quarrel, it may also affect everyone's feelings very much, and even make everyone want to divorce.

Therefore, after this situation occurs, everyone must think clearly about their inner thoughts, and also think about whether they want to continue to be with this person. <>

Maybe everyone will meet some more suitable people when they are in love, but in the process, everyone will still miss their ex. After this happens, it may also make everyone's emotional path particularly unsmooth. There are even some people who are reluctant to let go in the process of getting along with their boyfriends, knowing that the two people are not suitable.

After encountering this situation, it will also make everyone very tormented. Therefore, in this process, everyone must also learn to deal with feelings rationally.

I think you are eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, an irresponsible behavior towards others, since you have chosen to be with others, and you feel that it is not appropriate, if you have this kind of mentality, it is better for you to break up as soon as possible.

You want to ride a donkey to find a horse, feel reluctant to be good to you, and don't want to be with others.

I think you have this kind of mentality of being wronged and seeking perfection, and I advise you to let go as soon as possible, and hurt the boy in the back.

The boyfriend is not suitable, but he is reluctant to separate. Since you have begun to doubt, or hesitate, it means that you have doubts about this relationship, do not trust, and do not have good expectations for the future. This is easy to lay hidden dangers for future emotional crises.

I don't know if it's inappropriate, whether it's the so-called living habits, values, or hobbies. Some inappropriate can be improvised, but some inappropriate cannot be compromised. Since ancient times, it has been said that it is because of the same level of class, living habits, values, and hobbies are easier to match.

Two people will be relatively comfortable together. On the contrary, the mismatch of living habits, values, and hobbies can easily exacerbate the contradictions between the two. If you want to live a harmonious life, there must be someone who pays more and bears more.

I want to encounter this situation, first reflect on myself, whether it is enough to love, whether it is worth it...

First of all, it depends on how you set the criteria for whether it is suitable or not. It is the mainstream view of society, the door is right, there is a car and a house, a talented woman is good-looking, or they are connected with each other's hearts, and the three views are consistent. If you want to have a love that is envied in the eyes of others, and you are also very much in agreement with the mainstream standards, please stand on the side of the mainstream insurance.

If you value the second criterion a lot, go with your gut instinct and go with the flow. Some people will say, can't the first criterion and the second criterion be met, and if they do, you won't ask questions. For myself, there is no time limit for love and marriage to be completed, make your own decisions that you will not go back, you can't make everyone around you like your lifestyle, then listen to your own heart.

Time is the time to slowly fade your emotions. It must be reluctant to break up at the beginning, after all, two people have been together for so long, and they have real feelings, and it is not easy to take a person away from their hearts. But if you don't feel it, don't procrastinate, don't drag the mud and water, you must be decisive, and you are responsible for him.

Pain for a while and everything will be fine. We will not forget the people who have been important to us in our life journey, but the once sincere emotions are just memories, and there is no more heartache, just an understated story.

At this time, it is necessary to get out of this state in time, this is because the two people are not suitable at all, and if they persist, the damage to the two people is relatively large, so you can also choose to travel, or you can choose to eat delicious food to divert attention.

Break up completely, and then quickly leave the city to find new development, and a trip or a new relationship.

Then tell each other about your problems, hope that the other party can solve them, and the two people can solve them in the best way, and they can be very well together.

My boyfriend said that I broke up and is now reconciled, and I feel uncomfortable, I think if I can accept it, we will be together, and if I can't accept it, I will separate, otherwise it will be easy to have problems.

Your boyfriend said that the breakup is now reconciled, but you also feel uncomfortable in your heart, the main reason is that you feel that he doesn't care about your relationship a little bit and sees the breakup as easy, so you are a little uncertain in your heart, which is also a sign of insecurity.

Tell yourself not to have a grudge, let the past pass, you should look at the future, take a long-term view, and don't hold on to everything.

I think in this case, you should adjust your own mentality as soon as possible, you shouldn't think like this, only if you try to bow your head, then the relationship between you will be better.

Then you should talk about it, communicate this problem well, and solve this misunderstanding, so that you won't feel uncomfortable.

If you really love your boyfriend, I think you should put yourself in the right mindset, if you don't love your boyfriend, I think you can have a good talk with your boyfriend and break up.