The distress of the introvert 5, the distress of the introvert

You can go on a blind date through relatives and friends to help you introduce you to a blind date. You are introverted and don't like to talk, and girls will think that you are very down-to-earth. When two people have been in contact for a long time, there will be a topic.

Go find some. Location.

Push yourself to be less introverted.

I used to be very introverted, too. When I was a freshman, I was pushed to the position of class president. That one will, this one will. What events to organize. Ask a friend for help.

In the past, I used to pass notes when I talked to my tablemates. But. For example, organizing events. Can you pass notes to your classmates one by one?

If you are still in school. It is recommended that you become a squad leader, and then a member of the discipline inspection committee. Both of these positions are positions where you have to communicate with others. The difference is that the squad leader has to talk to someone else. And the discipline inspection committee is being found.

If you don't go to school anymore. It is advisable to try some careers in sales. Not for that little salary.

The communication itself is more important than the content of the communication.

Make yourself more extroverted, get in touch with extroverts, see how they behave with people, be cheerful, and engage in physical activity.

While enriching yourself, it is natural that there will be girls who will pay attention to you.

Be confident that others will not pay attention to your shortcomings, and you will exude personal charm, and you will look down on yourself or disrespect yourself, who can look up to you and respect you.

Each has its own advantages, after all, sometimes you still need to be outgoing. ,

How can you tell the difference between extroverts and introverts? Jung said that people who need to get their mental energy from the outside are extroverted hosiery sellers, while people who need to get mental energy from within are introverts.

Chatting in a group of people, he hardly speaks, and even if he does, he doesn't take the initiative to start a topic, and he usually echoes someone else's topic. I felt a little frustrated before, why was I so afraid to get someone's attention in the chat? Why can't I talk and tell a story in detail?

In fact, one-on-one chatting is quite "normal", and it can also express one's meaning well, but why can't you chat freely when there are many people? Have you ever had self-doubt, is it because you are not confident enough? Limited presentation and communication skills?

I slowly realized that my personality was just more introverted, and the older I grew up, the more I knew how to accept my introverted personality.

While others get energy from others and from the attention of others, I get more energy from being alone. Especially this eleventh holiday, a trip back to my hometown, every day the schedule is full, to participate in weddings, to meet relatives, and classmates reunions, to see the house, etc., every day from early in the morning to eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening are constantly receiving all kinds of information, simply physically and mentally exhausted. I booked a ticket to return to Beijing two days in advance, and I knew that I needed two days to rest, and if it was only one day, I would definitely not be in good shape when I went to work on the 8th.

It turned out that my decision was so right, I went back to Beijing on the evening of the 5th, and I did a lot of things alone all day on the 6th, and at the same time, it also brought me some sense of accomplishment. Stewed crucian carp and radish shredded tofu soup in a different way, the taste is very delicious, a fried egg is added, the color is also good-looking, and the drama is beautiful while drinking soup in rainy weather. I pickled a mustache with the leftover radish and made a pickled radish, which I could take to work on the 8th and share it with my colleagues.

In addition, I also went out to do a beauty, on the way back and forth for a long time, watched a drama, did the bookkeeping during the National Day, and the plan for these two days, and found a new route to work, you can try it on the 8th, and then evaluate the duration of each route as a whole. In the evening, I came back and took an online class to learn new skills.

A very fulfilling day, rather than going out with friends and getting information and inspiration from friends, I would rather do something by myself, read a book, run a run, tidy up my house, get new skills, etc., and only kill time by being alone, which will make me more grounded and feel safer. Everyone has their own way of life that they like and yearn for, learn to know themselves better, accept themselves, and then become a better version of themselves step by step.