Is this something I have indulged in by my tolerance? What should I do?

I'm just giving you a personal opinion, and if you think it's useful, please refer to it.

Such a man, I don't think it's worth love, a man shouldn't forget his lover even if he does, and if there is a problem at work, he must work hard to solve it, instead of ignoring you.

You can take out the working capital of a factory alone??? Even if you take it out, if there is a second or third time... This? Because this blames you, it is even less worthy of love.

I feel like you should let go and find someone who truly loves you, instead of bothering here.

Sister, I had the same thing.

In fact, you are so entangled when you love deeply.

Is that right? If you're not struggling with whether you should continue or not, you won't ask this question.

Is that right? Actually, you can't put it down.

Is that right? Ask your own heart, and if you think you still love him, give him a chance and slowly influence him with your tolerance.

If you are really disheartened by the injury, don't get entangled, don't contradict, turn away.

It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, it doesn't matter if it's money, it doesn't matter if it's quarrelsome, it doesn't matter if it's indebted.

Turn away and leave the good, that's enough.

May we all come out of the haze and meet the right person.

Break up directly, don't ink.

Do you like him? If you don't like it, throw it aside. If you really like it, I think you know how to do it.

This man is not productive.

Reach out to the woman and ask for money. Despise! ~~

Personal thoughts: I think it's possible that when he first came with you, he was purposeful.

I think people like that, just for money, not for love at all, should break up.

Cheating money and feelings, don't pay attention to him anymore.

I don't even understand if you guys started.

One thing, maybe he thinks that you can understand him very well, there is no need to break up like this, you should communicate with him first.

I think they were all right, break up.

Don't do this kind of impulsive thing to break up, which will only add more troubles to him, in fact, it is not easy to be a woman, and a man's dedication is already heavy, now you have to endure it for a while, and when the matter is over, it will not be like this! Women are suffering silently! You're not the only one who has this kind of thing, it's something that happens to a lot of women!

Break up directly This man doesn't love you At least he doesn't want to go on with you at all Trust me.

Don't waste your feelings on him not worth it.

Dear, hello I am very happy to serve you, I understand your doubts, the words tolerance and connivance do have certain similarities, but there are essential differences, tolerance is a positive, tolerant mentality, refers to the shortcomings and mistakes of others can be tolerated, understood, forgiven and dispersed attitude, tolerance does not mean that the other party ignores or accommodates the behavior, but on the basis of respect and concern for others, try to understand the motives and reasons behind their behavior, And to find a suitable solution to coordinate the relationship between each other, the teacher believes that the backlash should be modeled after your problem, you can say, "My tolerance is not the connivance of other people's behavior, but I hope to seek appropriate solutions and coordinate the relationship with others on the basis of respect and concern for others." ”

Summary. My inclusion is an understanding and acceptance of his actions and thoughts, not an indulgence or indulgence of his wrong or irresponsible behavior.

Your tolerance is a response to his indulgence.

My inclusion is an understanding and acceptance of his actions and thoughts, not an indulgence or indulgence of his wrong or irresponsible behavior.

Inclusion sometimes is.

Which side do you belong to?

There are bumps and bumps between classmates. Do you want to accompany money? What back.

Your family is one of the victims. When Wei's parents contact you, don't be polite, you or ask him to help buy a stool like new; Or let him sock and smile and compensate for the money to buy clothes, and you can buy them yourself.

What to call back to the teacher.

I think. You should follow the teacher's train of thought.

It's broken. I want them to pay for it.

This is quite normal.

It's not like bumps and bumps are over.

Of course he is. You can also reply to the teacher, this is a small problem between classmates, don't worry about it, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps between classmates.

Can you get back to the full point? Worse than me.

You probably don't want compensation.

It's just that classmates are embarrassed to ask for money, in case my child will also run into others.

In case your child also encounters someone else, and someone else needs compensation, it means that this is a parent's problem.

Children often fight with each other.

How could there be no bumps.

If your son accidentally gets someone else next time, other parents ask for compensation This is a parent's problem of being a person, and they are all staring at the side of a class.

You have to give your children room to relax.

Our attitude towards children is one of tolerance, not connivance.

What is Tolerance? Tolerance is an attitude of accepting children's childishness and generosity, that is, recognizing that "children are always children". He Lu Qiaowei will take the new leather shoes you bought for him at a great price, and in a blink of an eye, the leather of the leather toe will be gone; It only takes half a day to clean the upper body of the clothes, and there are stains everywhere; Chopsticks are used to tap rice bowls; Mirrors are used to make grimaces.

The key to tolerance is to accept that the child has a wide range of emotions and desires that are within the limits of the law. The desire has absolute freedom without any restrictions. All emotions and fantasies, all thoughts and desires, all dreams and desires, regardless of content, should be accepted, all should be respected, and allowed to be expressed in an appropriate way.

It's like a fish can swim, a bird can fly, and a human can tell. There is no control over how children perceive, but they need to be responsible for how they perceive.

Children are not responsible for their feelings, but they are responsible for their actions to express their feelings. Destructive behaviour is not allowed, and if it does, parents should intervene to allow the child to vent his emotions verbally or through other symbolic channels. For example, drawing, running, or writing.

Accepting the child's imaginary and symbolic behavior is tolerance, while allowing bad behavior is connivance. Being tolerant of children and accepting all their feelings can give them confidence and enhance their ability to express emotions and thoughts. Indulgence can bring anxiety and increase the child's demand for privileges that can be detrimental to the child's character development.

Your child's emotions should be understood and dealt with, and some of your child's behaviors need to be limited and corrected. The attitude when restricting the child's behavior should be to maintain both the parent's self-esteem and the child's self-esteem. Restrictions can neither be arbitrary nor capricious, but must be educational in order to shape a child's character.

Such restrictions may eventually bring about children's self-discipline.

Tolerance with restrictions on early training brings self-discipline, and unprincipled indulgence can only bring willfulness.

Are you tolerant of yourself?

People who are intolerant of themselves have the following characteristics,1Afraid of making mistakes, no matter how big or small, once you make a mistake, you will be nervous, and you will keep torturing yourself with this mistake.

2.Can't accept yourself. I mean the whole self, the good self and the bad self. We usually only accept the good selves. Don't accept your bad self. For example, the grumpy self, the fat self, the short self, the mediocre self......

3. Do your best to make yourself excellent. Even if you don't have any talent, you don't admit it. I also stubbornly stumble on this aspect, so that I can expect to become excellent myself.

4. Don't let yourself rest. I feel that life is meaningful when I am busy.

My approach is:

1. Be brave enough to admit your mistakes and let your close friends say words of forgiveness. Firmly tell yourself that it doesn't matter if you make mistakes, people are not afraid of making mistakes, they are only afraid of knowing their mistakes and not correcting them. Give yourself permission to make mistakes.

2.Ask yourself: Is there anything perfect in the world? Isn't the angry self being yourself?

Only by accepting ourselves can we accept the shortcomings of others. will truly become tolerant.

3.Admitting that we are mediocre tells us that mediocrity has mediocre ways of living, and mediocrity has mediocre wonderful.

4.Only by combining work and rest can we create a better life. Being busy doesn't necessarily get a big deal, it may just be like a headless fly.

We are the only things in the world that are completely our own, so we should cherish them. Strive to make it live chic, live healthy, and live happily.

To be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of ourselves. A little more tolerance for others, in fact, a little more space in our lives. On the road of life with friends, there will be love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; The life of friends will be less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine.

In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.

To be tolerant is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars, and if they are exposed at every turn, new creations will be added, and old scars and new wounds will be difficult to heal. Forgetting yesterday's rights and wrongs, forgetting the accusations and abuses that others have made to you before, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget, only then can life have sunshine and joy.

To be tolerant is to ignore it, and forget it after the matter has passed. Everyone has mistakes, and if you cling to your past mistakes, you will form a mental baggage, distrust, lingering, and unable to let go, limiting your own thinking and limiting the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable.

The person who can withstand betrayal is the strongest person, and will also take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong will, and his majesty can give people more confidence and motivation, so that he can prevent or reduce betrayal. Everything is calculated, gains and losses, and life is tired, it is rare to go through the world, and chic is the most important.

Tolerance is a form of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should be based on retreat and active defense. The concessions embodied in tolerance are purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands.

Helplessness and compulsion cannot be regarded as tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings. To be tolerant is to endure.

Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, too much argumentation and "counterattack" are not enough, but calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe in the famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows out of a bush of thorns."

If you can take a step back, the world is naturally wide.

Tolerance also requires skill. Giving a chance is not connivance, it is not exempting the other party from responsibility. Everyone is responsible for their actions; There are all sorts of consequences for anyone.

Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly break the ban (wrong) and show weakness.