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First of all,,, most boys don't like girls who take the initiative to confess, you must not confess, so that he will take advantage of you, and besides, if he ignores you, it may be that you hurt him from the beginning. Another thing is that after he gets to know you, he finds that you are completely different from the one he thinks of her, so this situation leads to the current situation, if he really likes you, you don't need to be so enthusiastic to talk to him, he comes back to you!!
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If you love, please love deeply.
If you don't love, you leave.
Don't wait blindly, waiting is the wrong choice from the beginning, if you really like him, you should tell him.
Even if you fail in the end, you won't regret it in the end, right?
Give yourself a little more confidence and courage.
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Girls should not be too proactive, there is no need, just like what was said upstairs, if he really likes you, he will come to you, let it be.
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Assuming he is sincere, then he is trying to get away with it, or he is narrow-minded, don't associate with this kind of man!
Assuming he doesn't mean it, this kind of man is even less worthy of association!
To sum up, don't bother him that the West likes you, just ignore him!
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Then he certainly didn't mean it.
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1 Hehe, I've faced the same problem before, but our perspective is just the opposite of what you are now.
I think he loves you, but I don't think he's mature. He didn't really think about the next path for you, or so to speak, he just didn't want to think about it. He enjoys the love you give each other now, but he doesn't want to let himself think about the annoying and trivial questions in the future.
It's also normal for men his age to be reluctant to talk about these things head-on.
Of course, he loves you, but he doesn't want to think about the future, I can only say that he loves you but he doesn't love you firmly enough, and he hasn't had the idea of going with you for a lifetime.
We used to be like this, but I was on your boyfriend's current stand, and then we separated...
It's very peaceful now.,On the surface we're still friends.,But after all, it's someone who has loved deeply.,How can you really not think about it.,Not sad.。。。
But if you think about it, it's always been him accommodating me, just like it feels like you've been accommodating him right now, and I think you're going to be tired. Just as I thought he would be tired, so in the end I set him free...
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It's really rare for a boy to not have children.
I don't think he really loves you.
Moreover, many of you have different concepts. My opinion should be the same as yours :
If you have a child, it would be better to have 2 if you have the financial conditions;
It is best and happiest to meet your parents early, and your parents agree to it;
If my girlfriend doesn't go to see my buddies and doesn't give me face, then how sad I am, and it's a very happy thing to integrate into each other's life circle and social circle.
Have an honest exchange, why not go and meet your parents? If you don't go now, when will you see you? There are a lot of marriages at my age, have you considered this?
I wish you happiness.
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Could it be shy?
There is a strange psychological disorder called social phobia, which may be that they are afraid to communicate with strangers, and this should be done slowly.
I think it depends on your description that he will be embarrassed to meet your friends and family, because of the fear in his heart, but in the end, he still did, which means that he is overcoming his fear, and then accompany you to meet your family and friends.
If it's really social phobia, he still likes your performance like that, and he doesn't want to see them because he's afraid of embarrassing you or something, but in fact he's really afraid of embarrassing you.
If it's not social phobia = = you're going to have to think about it yourself.
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He's not ready to get married, so why bother forcing him. It's best not to bring your boyfriend with your friends often, and it's not for nothing that good friends grab lovers. He ended up going with you, doesn't that mean he loves you? Why don't you do it, those people have nothing to do with him.
And men are always stubborn, so why not try to understand his train of thought.
I think it's not good for you to be suspicious of your feelings like this.
Personal opinion.
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The last three questions are not very big of a problem, it is influenced by the individual's personality and can be coordinated! But the first question is a matter of principle, you must have a consensus on the issue of children, otherwise it will be difficult to develop in the future, even if you get married, it is still easy to divide when you encounter this problem! So think about it!
And the other questions may be because your boyfriend is not very outgoing and shy at heart, right? But these are not big problems, it will be fine later!
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The child's thing, too early, you really get married in the future, the child is not a problem, maybe he is not ready to meet his parents, you can ask him, what do you think, everyone has their own principles of doing things, it may be wrong, but it will also insist, if he follows you, he is not him, hehe.
You want to take him to meet your friend, he doesn't know, he doesn't know him, he doesn't know how uncomfortable a person is, he doesn't know what to do or what to say
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I don't think he's very mature, really, if he really loves you, he will love the house and the house, see his parents, see his friends. I don't know what he thinks, but he probably doesn't think he deserves you.
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Maybe his main thing now is to focus on his career, earn more money so that you can live a good life, and also pave the way for the future children in the future...
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He loves you, but doesn't want to get married yet. And you want to get married as soon as possible, this is the biggest contradiction between the two of you. Also, you should give each other more space. From the few questions you said, I feel that you are better and stronger, and I have to listen to you. Be more understanding of each other.
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He probably doesn't have much faith in himself! Do you know him well? Was he serious? You get these things figured out first!
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I might be able to offer a little bit of advice on this matter.
In fact, this kind of person is very fragile inside, although he looks good, hippie and smiling, and not serious. In fact, these are all appearances, just to hide their inner thoughts. And then there's the kind of people who are kind. (Perhaps, this man is also a perfectionist - that's my guess).
This kind of person will not love easily, because once he loves, he will not hesitate.
Avoiding you, I think there are several reasons:
1. He himself is not ready, accept you casually, he will be afraid of hurting each other.
2. Although you are familiar with each other and have a good feeling, you may not have met the requirements of his inner object.
3. I had a girlfriend before, but after the breakup, I can't forget it now. Questions like this, first, perseverance, this is what you have to do; Second, give him time.
Hundreds of steels turned into finger wrapping soft... Work hard!!
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Quickly cut through the mess, from what you said, the authorities are fascinated, as a man, I can be responsible for telling you the indisputable fact that he does not love you,
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Chill him for a while, see how he treats you, and if he doesn't change, don't pester him anymore. It's best not to be someone else's spare tire, especially a girl, otherwise, when he finds his true love, you will be nothing, for girls, youth is the best wealth, don't waste so much time and energy on someone who is not worthy.
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This may be the so-called indulgence of lust. But girls can't see through it or guess it.
These things still have to be explained clearly in person, and it is not good to be wrong.
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Deliberately alienating you and not wanting to create opportunities for the two of you to be alone.
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