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This girl doesn't care too much about how you usually behave. In fact, the details are the key to success, but it's a pity that she doesn't cherish it.
Sometimes, a girl is just a vain thing to satisfy her feelings, so that she feels that you are the one who loves her. So, after the matter passes, she will think about it and will understand.
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Take back your words, you have to! Tell her with sincerity: Every family has its own life, and of course there will be differences between different families, whether it is living conditions, lifestyles, and attitudes towards life.
In the meantime, there are things that can be compared, and some things that can't be compared. What you can have is the most precious, but not what you see but can't have. What your daughter-in-law sees is the material condition, but what about the inner world?
Is her girlfriend also envious of your pick-up and drop-off to your daughter-in-law? You ask her to buy her more things from now on, but no longer pick her up and take her to and from work, to see if she can accept this condition? Do you know how many rich women envy those women who have husbands who care?
People want to be realistic, you can't have everything, others marry a rich generation or something, why didn't you insist on marrying a few generations in the first place? Others can tolerate a few generations of rich people with a little three or four or something, can you bear it? When I was able to marry your current husband, then of course he has something that touches you, life will be dull with time, but emotions should not change!
People should compare, but don't compare! People have to live confidently, her living conditions are better than yours, but she really doesn't necessarily have to be happier than you! It's just that this happiness you have to think of as happiness!
No matter how good others are, they are someone else's after all, and those who grasp their surroundings are those who grasp happiness!
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You have to let your girlfriend know that there is no point in comparing them side-by-side, maybe your girlfriend only sees one side of the other person, that you've done a good job, that others may still envy your girlfriend, and that love should be considerate of each other, give to each other, be heart-to-heart, and tell your girlfriend that she should understand you.
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You have done a very good job, maybe she is in the blessing and do not know the blessing, you put your words "think about the two months of love, she got off work at 11 o'clock in the evening, no matter the wind and snow and mud, every day to pick her up, send her, send her food during the day, rely on her everywhere in life, to her, I do have a clear conscience, in the end it is thankless, I don't care about her, and I also compare other people's boyfriends with me!" "Send it to her, if she still thinks you're not good enough and compares you to others, then you don't need to keep her, the pay is not one-sided, is she good enough? If you have done well enough, and she still wants to compare like this, then she will never find someone who suits her heart, because there will always be better people, and you deserve better girls.
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From your description, you can tell that this girl is vain and immature. Let's make up your own mind about emotional matters!
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Love is not a one-sided effort, taking care of each other is the foundation of marriage.
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You're not good enough for her, what are you going to do, be nice to her.
She wasn't asking too much of that.
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If it is true, it will be judged when it is broken.
I think if it's not a province, it's a long distance, you can first consider whether you can work in a city, although the distance produces beauty, but the distance is really far away, sometimes it's difficult for a girl, and the feeling of insecurity when your boyfriend isn't around when you need it the most is really bad. >>>More
Your frustration is understandable, but you also have to consider the actual situation, whether she is very busy, etc., in fact, the most important thing is that if you can feel her sincerity, then don't be too demanding, the mood when you are in love is very complicated, and you can't use reason to analyze the problem, so you have to be sober.
Condition is a question, but for me, what kind of character a person is is the most important thing. In fact, the most important thing for you to understand his personality is first. Don't be like many people, wait until you get married to say that you regret it, and only then say that you should not agree to him if you knew that he was like that, these are too late, we should have a clear choice. >>>More
Calm down first, and then take the initiative to talk to the other person.
I don't have the same views as your friends.
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