Urgent. Emotional confusion. Campus romance, fruitless in love?

Not necessarily, it depends on how you live your life after that.

If you want to be together, then you follow him, marrying a chicken and following a chicken is an ancient truth, and your parents will understand.

For example, my sister-in-law left my hometown with my brother and came to our side, and they also fell in love in college, and now they are married.

I thought that I knew many of my former college classmates, none of them were still together after graduation, in the 21st century, the era of competition, there are fewer and fewer love saints, it is not that we are regressing, but that society is advancing, you must keep up with the pace of the times, otherwise it will be forgotten forever by this society!

A scientist's study of love between college students.

90 out of 100 couples will break up, 5 will divorce, and the remaining 5 will have a result.

It's not like this, as long as you have enough courage to bear the pain of separation and the impatience of lovesickness, many times love also has a lot of helplessness, mainly depends on whether you will be willing to insist. You can choose your own way of dealing with it, but you also have to consider his situation, you have to learn to believe but also learn to understand and cherish. Not all love will disappear because of distance, it mainly depends on your attitude towards him.

In this matter, most of us who are good in school will encounter, every couple is different, some can become husband and wife, and some end up unhappy, in the face of this kind of thing, you have to rely on yourself, ask yourself if you really like ta?

How much do you like it? If you really like it, you won't be distressed by the problem of work, as for quarrels, this is a very common phenomenon, we all have to get along with each other in the spirit of tolerance of their own objects, if tolerance is not good, then try to be friends, because then you are not suitable at all, it feels like unreasonable, so it is better to cut the mess quickly, don't delay yourself and delay each other when the time comes!

Although I'm single now, I know that I have to fight for it. Otherwise, when you are old, you will regret it and be sad. If you do break up, won't you be sad at some point in the future? Keep an eye out for his reaction.

In fact, it's better to give up this relationship!

Do you see the future in him? If you see it, go with him and go to him; It's not good, everyone is an adult, and there's nothing bad about it. If you can't see your future, then follow your heart; The twisted melon is not sweet, if the time has not come, wait for the opportunity, live your life first The most important thing, love needs bread to maintain.

Well! Although the campus romance is very beautiful, it can't withstand the blow of reality, sad!

It depends on your plan, well, don't be impetuous, your heart is useless, no matter how scared you are in the end, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain.

Be considerate of each other, and everyone will be in turmoil.

Now it's not like where did you come from after graduating before, it used to be popular to say that we broke up on the day of graduation, most of it was because of the work assigned by the school that they couldn't be together, and now this society doesn't just want you, I talked to my boyfriend in college, and we're getting married now, and many of my friends are talking about college, and now they're together. So on graduation day we broke up just to say it before.

There is a way to deal with everything, and breaking up is also your own choice.

It mainly depends on how you solve the problem, and many of my classmates are together.

Love is something that can't be trusted! The more you love, the more you hurt! The most unbelievable thing in the world is love!

Do you and him have long-term plans? Do you have any plans to continue living in the same city within a few years? This is a long-term love must be one: two people must have a common career ideal and life ideal.

It depends on how deep the relationship between you and him is, although two people who have walked out of the campus and separated in two places, and have not seen each other for a long time, is the main reason for the breakup. But if you love him, and he loves you, someone will compromise first and go to work with another partner....

It's hard to say what I feel, I'm not a party, it's hard to say anything, after all, it's not very clear. Maybe it's up to you or someone close to you to answer.

Cherish, what is cherishing in love? Don't blame others for not cherishing your love, it's you who despise your love and make your feelings cheap, so of course people don't care.

Many girls lose their beloved because they don't know how to cherish it.

Maybe she doesn't know how to love someone yet.

Or maybe she hasn't opened her heart for you.

Maybe you should talk to her.

If you don't communicate, you won't know what's wrong.

Friend, do you believe in fate? I didn't believe it before, but I believe it now.

I used to be just like you, and I was very good to girls, but the end result only left me scarred! Friend, nothing. It's a process of emotional growth.

Besides, there is no absolute right or wrong in emotional matters. If you want to love, you must understand that love does not have to have results, maybe you just need to enjoy the process of falling in love. You just don't know.

Finally, I'll give you an insight, don't keep thinking that only your girlfriend is the best in this world, make more friends. Make your life circle a little bigger. I think this will help you yourself.

Don't agree, first of all, she won't go out with you if she doesn't have a good impression of you, because the boy asks the girl out, and the girl agrees that she has a good impression of the boy, not a very good friend of the opposite sex, just a classmate, she will not agree to go out with her alone, and you also say that she is an introvert, and the introverted girl is willing to agree to go out with you, which proves that she has a good impression of you. As for going shopping with her friends, she may be embarrassed, after all, your relationship is not like that, and she may feel that if you don't feel that way about her and are seen by your classmates, it will be a shame. So her behavior is understandable.

Then you have the courage to confess and believe in yourself. I wish you the beauty you are chasing as soon as possible! (*

Student: Don't be reserved.

Let her know next time.

Since she comes out with you, you have a chance.

It's better to just confess it than to make a direct guess or not. Ha ha.

What's this, you're too sensitive. You don't think people have anything to do with you, you are knocked down by your classmates, you are together, what if you see your mm and don't know the situation, go back and say what you have. So don't blame the female classmate, she did the right thing to do.

Besides, since it's all in the same class, you can hang out with four of you, which is nothing, so it seems that you are very friendly, and if you get along well with everyone, the girl will like you more.

What I don't understand is what's so shameful about this? You're not a couple, so it's natural for her to hang out with someone else. If you reject those two female classmates, what is the relationship between the two of you?

You said it yourself, just hanging out in the name of your classmates. Why should she leave them behind and walk with you?

She has a crush on you, if she hadn't been shopping with you for a long time! She was also embarrassed to meet her classmates, after all, they were all studying

I don't agree, maybe she deliberately did that because she liked it and felt embarrassed, the girl's mind is very special.

Everybody likes to be pretty. But the key is to get along. What's best for you isn't necessarily the best.

Love is something that goes with the flow, not what you want in your junior year, with the same major, compatible, beautiful... You just happened to meet such a woman, and at the same time people liked you. You have to keep in mind the feeling at all times, you can't stop it when you come. I didn't ask for it.

If you want to take the graduate school entrance examination, take the exam well. Don't think about anything. Not everything goes the way you want. There is really such a woman in your amateur, and you will have things that affect your mood and study.

It's good to be admitted to graduate school. You are doing this out of a period of spiritual emptiness. But not all emptiness has to be filled with love.

I'm in my junior year now, but I have a good boyfriend, and he happens to be in the same major, but I help him in my studies, and he helps me in life. It's normal for a guy to want a beautiful girl, because it's lonely or empty, and it's normal to want to find a girlfriend. You say that you have been hurt before, but have you been hurt or forsaken?

When it comes to falling in love, one of the parties will always be hurt. But if you use the injury as an excuse, it's wrong for you, you say you want to maintain friendship, that's what it means to be nice with a lot of girls, then you are enjoying the feeling of girls surrounding you, making you feel that you are not so unpopular? Actually, you never thought about being responsible.

The reason why you want to fall in love is just to go to graduate school.,Have a companion.,Struggle.,Too。。。 Let go of the past, there are many good girls, even if they are not very beautiful, but as long as you treat them sincerely, each of them can accompany you through the lonely time, and each of them can become your bosom love. It's useless to complain, and sometimes life should lower your profile. Come on.

If you are in love, you can still have freedom, and you are not locked in a cage and can't get out, if you find what you see, then you can pursue it.

I always think of the sunshine dedicated to the earth as my own

Always see the tenderness you give as the only one

Always, if only I wasn't with you.

It's always like this, if only I were by your side.

Always, if only I didn't love you.

Isn't it crazy that the moon has run out before the sun has set?

It's raining, why don't you hold an umbrella.

Tired. Slept.

What is freedom. Freedom is not only about doing whatever you want, but also about being able to do what you want and being recognized by your parents, friends, and society. You should see yourself as a free man.

Don't just look for someone to fall in love with because you see someone in pairs, it's a terrible feeling of regret.

True love for someone not only means stretching out your hands to have each other, but also wishing her happiness while having each other. Do your duty, and as long as there is a glimmer of hope, don't ruin your marriage easily. Goethe said:

Responsibility is having a love for what you are asked to do. "People live in the world, they have to bear all kinds of responsibilities, family, work, society, in addition, we also have one of the most fundamental responsibilities, that is, the responsibility for emotions and life. In this world, we only have one chance to live, and if this only time is wasted, we cannot talk about the meaning and value of life.

In other words, other responsibilities in the world can be shared or transferred, but the responsibility for one's own emotions can only be borne by oneself alone, and one cannot rely on others at all.

Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one. Maybe you have an unforgettable love before joining hands, such a marriage should be cherished, both men and women should always have a sincere, gentle, grateful heart, and each other to work together in the family and career, share joy and success, and bear difficulties and misfortunes together; Maybe you are in a loveless marriage, or even a wrong marriage, but since you have finally chosen each other, you have the responsibility and obligation to bear the pain, loneliness and loss that it brings. We should always accept each other with a tolerant, trusting, and understanding heart, think more about each other's benefits and advantages, take on more family responsibilities, and do not say goodbye easily until absolutely necessary.

With the passage of time, when you come to the twilight of your gray hair, you suddenly look back, it turns out that human marriage is in the process of tolerance, understanding and shared responsibility to achieve a happy ending, showing your shoulders to bear for each other.

However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretching out your hands to have each other, it should be that while owning each other, you should work together with each other to cultivate your family and career, share joy and success, bear difficulties and misfortunes together, and tide over the wind and rain together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

Hey, it's not your problem.

Don't keep looking for reasons in yourself.

It's his immaturity.

It's only a one-month trial period.

There's no need to live together.

Mature men don't take this seriously.

"Love Psychologist".

If two people really love each other, he will not do this to you. So let's get married as soon as possible.

Love has to face a lot of worldly things, and if you are sure that these things will not affect you, then you chase after them, and if not, you can't give up early.

Say it to her if you like it, but don't overdo it, work hard after graduation, and give her a happy life.