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You should choose to stay. Why?
Reasons:1She and her ex-boyfriend have broken up, and they are married.
2.When you are leaving, she still begs you, and she is reluctant to let you go.
Think about these two reasons. It's because she loves you that. You should understand her feelings, she loves you, but there is still a knot for her ex-boyfriend that has not been untied.
She can't let go of her ex-boyfriend, so she always wants to refuse you and doesn't dare to accept it. But love you again. You should understand her contradictory feelings.
So what should you do?
In my opinion, you should stay and take good care of her. Then untie her heart knots so that she will slowly accept you. She said that she didn't want to get married and so on, that is, because she had never untied the knot in her ex-boyfriend and couldn't let go.
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If you believe it, you're a fool.
Women say so, after all, they are sensual, you continue to take care of her, she will accept you sooner or later.
Girls usually say this after breaking their hearts, but that woman doesn't crave her love. The one is not alone in the middle of the night. The older you get, the more you feel it. Go for it, may you give her a happy day!
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I understand her heart, she really doesn't love you, she loves him, her heart is very lonely, she needs your care, but she really doesn't love you, she can't forget him, she loves him very much, and she has paid true feelings for him
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Sometimes, it can be a white lie or a sincere lie.
It's better to be obedient like this, if there is really no love, nothing can be changed.
If it was deception, why didn't she take her kindness?
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That's definitely not going to happen.
Because everyone has their own ideas, everyone also lives for themselves, and you don't want others to be like you, it's not good to blindly follow the trend, not to mention the problems that involve your own happiness in the future and the two families.
I think that since you are going to get married, you must consider whether the other party is what you like, whether the other party is compatible with your personality, whether the three views can also be compatible, and whether the other party also loves you based on your own experience with the other person. The word marriage is not so light, because there are too many things to consider after marriage, such as if you don't have enough money to buy a house and a car, and what to do if you don't have time to take it after having a child, etc.
But if you are still single, don't be embarrassed to think that you are still single because everyone around you is married, so you fall in love for the sake of falling in love. This is the worst thing, because it delays others as well as yourself. Since you are still single, you must find a suitable person you like to be your future marriage partner.
All in all, people live for themselves, and what others do has nothing to do with them, just be yourself, live happily, and don't have to affect your happiness because of others, and it's too late to regret it.
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Who doesn't want to have someone who knows the cold and the hot to accompany them to old age. However, when they find that marriage is really a grave, there is no happiness and beauty in it, and there is a high probability of living together, giving birth to children at their own risk, and unfinished housework, they feel that they are better alone.
Is it better to find someone who is not suitable to hurt each other than to be single? It's so good to get married, why are you desperately trying to pull people in and compete for resources? I think I can get married when I meet someone who is particularly suitable.
There's nothing wrong with living on your own. Lonely, you say? I think it's okay, at least better than finding someone who also lacks a family role or a macho man.
There are few good men.,If you meet the right one, you'll catch it.,But a lot of good boys were snatched away in college.,Casual fate.,If you don't, there's no.,It's hard for people like me to see the object as close as their parents.,Parents are always the first.。
People are seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and if they get married or are single, they will bring benefits to themselves, and of course they will take the initiative to choose. In fact, if you have to give a conclusion about whether some people really don't want to get married, I believe that there really are, and conversely, whether some people really want to get married, I think there are also people, so this question is not very meaningful.
Of course, if you don't get married, it's just because you don't have a suitable one, so why not get married if you have a suitable one? Who doesn't yearn for a good life, and doesn't get married for the sake of not getting married. Loneliness is just a matter of accepting it calmly, not because you like to be lonely and old that you don't get married.
It's just that in real life, there are too many unhappy marriages, too many unfortunate marriages around us, and too many feelings in ourselves that we can't bear to recall, so we don't dare to get married, and we don't want to get married!
I think loneliness is the norm in life, but it doesn't mean it's bad. Personally, I like the feeling of solitude, and I enjoy being alone with myself more than having a group of people partying. I think it's really tiring to try to maintain relationships between people.
As far as I'm concerned, I don't really want to live too long, and if there is no reason why I can't leave, I can leave at any time.
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It's not true, it's just that many people don't find a suitable marriage partner and are unwilling to compromise, so they say that they are not suitable for marriage.
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I think that I often say that I am not suitable for marriage, not because I don't want to get married, but because of the pressure of marriage, so I don't want to get married.
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I think so, because people generally have their own ideas, and it's normal not to want to get married, and there's nothing to be sad about.
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No, I say I don't want to get married, but I don't really want to get married, it's just that I haven't met this person who wants to get married. When this person appears, the feeling that he wants to get married appears, it's not that he doesn't want to get married, it's just that fate hasn't arrived yet, what is needed is time and waiting. Need that person.
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The marketization of love and the commodification of marriage have become a common phenomenon in China. In China, it is difficult for people who truly love each other to come together in the end, and all marriages are purposeful and conditional, and they are all products of the commodity economy, so Chinese marriages are unfortunate.
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He doesn't necessarily really want to get married, it's just that he hasn't found a suitable person, so he says that he is not suitable for marriage and avoids others from saying other things.
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Didn't meet the guy who wanted him to get married.
So he said that he was not suitable for marriage.
Wait for the person who made his heart flutter to appear.
There would be no thought of it now.
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If you say that you are not suitable for marriage, do you really not want to get married? It's because he didn't find his beloved and the person who loves him, so he didn't reach the stage of getting married, if he was destined to find his beloved, then he would get married.
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Hello, I often say that I am not suitable for marriage, I don't really want to get married, but I politely refuse because I haven't met my true love.
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I often say that I am not suitable for marriage, not that I really don't want to get married, but because I haven't met the person who let me get married.
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Definitely not, it means that he hasn't found the ideal one yet, and if he finds it, he will chase it with all his might, so he is shirking it when he says this.
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Summary. 1.That is not wanting to marry him, when you are not sure that the first idea is to marry him, it means that you are hesitating.
2.He shouldn't give you enough security, or you don't love him so much, so when you really face marriage, you are not so brave when you are in love, which fully shows that you don't love him so much.
I'm not sure if I want to marry him.
He shouldn't give you enough security, or you don't love him so much, so when you really face marriage, you are not so brave when you are in love, which fully shows that you don't love him so much.
He gave me a sense of security that was resistant to destruction, Changbei I don't know why, I wondered if I was with him from the beginning because of a lack of love, and I suddenly got married after 3 years of being together, and I wanted to live after a loss, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all need money.
So do you love him.
Now I regret it a little, I don't dare to say to him, and I don't dare to tell my parents, Chang Jian I'm afraid because my original defeat hurts everyone, but I don't want my future life to quarrel because I don't have money, I don't know what to do now, this is a lifetime thing, I'm afraid I'll regret it and divorce in the future, I'm afraid of hurting everyone if I don't get married, I don't know what to do, I don't know if it's love, or because I pity him, or because of a familiar kind of dependence.
I think since you haven't thought it through, explain the situation to the other party and let you think about it again.
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Summary. Good evening, dear drops, it's a pleasure to answer for you; Hello dear, your girlfriend has made it clear to you that she doesn't want to get married in the past few years, she has no plans to get married, if you want to get married, she can't marry you, you want to get married and find someone else.
My girlfriend said, I said, I don't want to get married in the past few years, don't force it, if you want to get married or something, go to her by yourself.
Good evening, dear drops, it's a pleasure to answer for you; Dear to you, your girlfriend has told you very clearly, she doesn't want to get married in the past few years, and she has no plans to get married, if you want to get married, she can't marry you, you want to get married to someone else.
Hello, dear, at this time you should consider whether you can accept not getting married for a few years and waiting for your girlfriend.
If you can't accept it, you should stop your losses in time.
Then what should I do to her.
Dear drop, this depends on whether you accept the other party or can't accept it, and you have to stop the loss in time.
If you accept, reply to the other person; I am willing to wait for you until the day you marry me.
If you want to stop the loss in time, reply to the other party; I can't stand the lead sedan for a few years and can't get married, I hope you will also consider my feelings for me, if you still don't plan to get married in a few years, we will separate.
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I used to party with my colleagues a lot, but now I rarely attend it.
In the past, I used to smoke twenty or thirty from Zhidan's family, but now it is 10 yuan, and the alcohol I drink has also decreased.
Having children, raising children, housework, etc., these are not available before marriage, or can be reduced, and after marriage, these are all necessary. Children are born and raised by themselves, and the housework is trivial and self-done, which is inevitably not as good as before.
Those who say that they do not want to reduce the quality of life after marriage are either greedy or stupid. If you are married, your salary has not increased, your housework is increasing, and you have one or two more babies, how can you maintain the quality of life before marriage?
After marriage, you have to pay more and work harder than before marriage to barely maintain the standard of living before marriage. However, most of them are difficult to do. Just because you don't want to reduce the quality of life, you should not get married or have children, not necessarily, marriage must have infinite charm, attracting countless people who continue to enter the pit.
Marriage is something to give. I strongly agree with that. If you don't want to give at all, then it's okay to be single, but at the same time, you should also bear the series of problems that come with celibacy.
There is no such thing as the best of both worlds in this world, and there is no such thing as sitting back and enjoying it. In exchange for that little joy, a little sweetness, a little blessing, I personally think it's worth it.
In short, there is a give-and-take, a small give-and-take, a big give-and-go, and a big give-and-go. Entertainment expenses for singles: After getting married, you may reduce the expenditure on some entertainment activities related to singles, such as bachelorette parties, social activities, etc.
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I feel that marriage has brought him too much trouble, such as Zhendan or he will only say this when he is hurt, there is a brigade ship sentence that doesn't say that scum, marriage is the grave of love.
If you don't want to get married, of course, you are selfish, because this is your irresponsibility for marriage, if you don't want to get married, don't deal with the object, and if you don't get married, you are irresponsible to others, and you are selfish.
Men think like this is very selfish, not at all for the woman, the child is not alone, and when they grow up, the single-parent family will also be discriminated against in all aspects, the woman thinks like this is simple-minded, since she has children, marriage is a kind of proof, to introduce her husband to relatives and friends, the other half of the future.
He has already told you that he doesn't want to talk to you recently, so you have to find out why he doesn't want to talk to you, and then you can know what to do next.
Marriage means happiness for women and greater responsibilities for men. Generally, men will get married only if they are fully prepared, so that women can enjoy greater happiness, and if they are not ready, of course they don't want to get married.
You can strongly show her that you are also unmarried. That way, she won't feel guilty and can be with you with peace of mind.