Knowing about her boyfriend and ex girlfriend, I was blocked in my heart and begged for help to get

Updated on psychology 2024-04-05
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everyone has a past, you will have it, be generous, the present is the most real, no matter what happened to them before, it has already passed, why bother with the past, add to your own blockage. Living the present and planning for the future is the most important thing, and the present and future belong to you and your current boyfriend. It's not related to other people, try to let go and meet tomorrow.

    I have also encountered many important situations like yours around me, and girls know about their boyfriends and ex-girlfriends, especially when they are so affectionate and sweet, they will always feel very uncomfortable and even angry. This is normal. My girlfriends will do the same.

    But it's really unnecessary to think about it.,How it used to be was someone else's business.,It has nothing to do with me.,How it's now that's your business.,It's not about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend.。。。

    Don't spoil your mood for irrelevant people, women should be kind to themselves...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not good to drill the tip of the horns. It's better for you to talk

    Tell him you're jealous, and he'll let you compensate. Then take you to eat and drink. Play around. Forget about the upset.

    Besides, it's you who is with him now. Cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone has a past, and maybe you have too! Remember, men have a past, and women have a future! Some men will know what they want when they have a past, and now it is you who are by his side, so you have to cherish it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hey, let's open it.

    Even if they are together, they may not be happy.

    Things always turn around.

    You might consider saying that you tell your boyfriend to give him a month to see if he can get along with his ex-girlfriend. If they can't get along, then he and his ex-girlfriend are separated, and the ex-girlfriend has nothing to say.

    You don't have to give up, give each other some time to calm down.

    It's not bad to retreat as advance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The man's way of dealing with feelings in the first place is wrong.,He should care about her ex-girlfriend.,But if you hurt you now because of that.,Then he's quite ignorant.。 The feelings for you should also be greatly reduced, don't think about it, and I don't think you're doing it right, you shouldn't persuade him to conform to her, I think you should let him choose for himself! Your persuasion will cause him more worries and unnecessary doubts.

    If you like it, you come back to him and let him choose again.

    Don't feel sorry for him, he will be embarrassed, his love has the right to fight for it, if he likes you, you let him be with someone he doesn't like, and you will also harm him!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I also think you should quit!It's not interesting if you don't quit and get caught in the middle!!Your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings at all!!

    If he really loves you, he won't care which woman does anything!!What are you afraid of!It's not his fault again!!

    What the hell is going on!!What do you say!!Think about it!!

    Don't think about hanging yourself from a tree!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your boyfriend doesn't love you at all, your love is too thin. Whether she dies or not is her business, that relationship is over, if he loves you, even if her whole family is dead, it won't help. Because he loves you, he wants to be with you for the rest of his life.

    Seeing that your ex-boyfriend is a child, it is too much to stand up. There are many good men, so when you are looking for it, wipe your eyes!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you opt out, it doesn't fulfill them.

    Instead, the pain of three people was chosen.

    Do you think it's worth it?

    Let's give everyone a little more time.

    Happiness is something you need to strive for.

    You should think of a better way.

    I wish you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Send me ** when you die, and I'll worship if I stop by.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just do everything with your heart

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you know that he still loves you now??

    In fact, it is easy for men to put a few people in their hearts.

    This also shows his sense of responsibility!

    Maybe he can't compare with the original person anymore.

    He is now only responsible for the past. I think I should be worthy of others, not to mention that they haven't seen each other now.

    You should believe in yourself, too.

    It's hard that you still don't know how much responsibility he is.

    You'd better treat him well! I remember how normal it is to have my first love, but when I met her a few years ago, I didn't know what else to do! Cherish the present!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Tell me why they broke up, is it because of external factors (such as two places) or psychological changes in two people (such as one has a new love)?If it's the first case, you give your husband a chance to reconsider, it's good for you and his future If it's the second case, then it's okay to be nice to your husband

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is always difficult for a person to forget his first love, because she is your boyfriend's first love, and it may be that for him, the memory of his first love is very deep, maybe your boyfriend's feeling for his first love is just a friend now, since you are together, so why not trust each other? Give him more time, let him understand that you trust him very much, and hope that you and your boyfriend will get along well, cherish each other when you are together, and don't have too many suspicions, but it will not be good for you. Bless you all!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Inclusion, that doesn't mean anything!

    If you still have the shadow of another man in your heart now, it is just like how your boyfriend feels.

    It's like you always have some feelings after reading romance.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It seems that you like him very much, if she loves you, he will not abandon you, if he loves her more then sooner or later you break up, this kind of thing cannot be forced, otherwise it will backfire I suggest you treat him better Move him

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think there's too much to worry about, I've met it before, since he let you know that he didn't carry you behind your back, it's already very frank, I think it's not easy to be a couple, it's normal for you to be jealous, you don't have to force him too much, don't show too strongly, but it's okay to be a little jealous, let him know that his current girlfriend loves him more. On the other hand, it proves that it is persistent in feelings, otherwise if you break up, you will forget it, so how can you trust him. And the lovers who broke up must not be in love with each other after so long, otherwise they are so generous.

    If you want to open a little, he will think that you are very good and sensible.

    Take a step back and think that if there is really something, I think he will have some behavior that is weird and so on. I believe it won't!! Haha, if you have any questions, you can tell me to help you think about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe his ex-girlfriend really did something very excessive, which led to a breakup due to a momentary anger, and now his ex-girlfriend regrets it and wants to reconcile with him again, and your boyfriend I think he should still love her, after all, he once loved each other. But I guess that's all in the past, and the end is the end. Now that you are his girlfriend, you should believe him and give him a chance, or you can have a good talk and say what you think in your heart, it will be better.

    As for what you said about finding a man who loves you, there are always pros and cons between loving and being loved, although it is painful to love someone, it is also a happy thing; Being loved may not hurt you, but in fact, it is also a kind of torment in your heart. Therefore, love is a matter of two people, two people are happy with each other, and they want to stay together for a lifetime!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The man still has an ex-girlfriend in his heart, and he always wants to care about her, will he get back together?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Observe him for a while longer, and move him with your sincerity!

    But if it keeps going like this, it's better to give up. Otherwise, you will all be miserable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you love him, give him time.

    You've only been together for 4 months.

    Don't be discouraged, everyone has a past.

    I'm sure he'll forget about his former girlfriend.

    If you love him, don't give up easily.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If so, I advise you to consider carefully. After all, he didn't show his sincerity.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Women must find a man who loves them!

    Otherwise you'll be miserable for the rest of your life!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you divide it, you'd better break it up with him, and if you go on like this, you won't have any good results.

    He's dividing without changing his words.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I have a problem like you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    He still kept the things that his predecessor gave him, and he was reluctant to throw them away.

    In his mobile phone, there is also his predecessor's **.

    When the ex needs help, he will step up.

    Sometimes it seems sad, and there is no way to fully devote yourself to the incumbent.

    A man who still loves his ex in his heart seems to be very affectionate, very affectionate, and a very reliable man, but in fact he is just very stupid, he doesn't know how to let go, and he doesn't know how to be responsible for the current one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The landlord thought about it a lot, this situation will not happen If the landlord can maintain a good relationship with his boyfriend, generally a man decides to give up and finds a new girlfriend and will not look back Very simple, if she didn't give up completely, then why didn't he continue to struggle? And to find another one, I used to be the same as your boyfriend, but I gave up on my ex-girlfriend, and even though I didn't get along with my ex-girlfriend, I didn't go back to my ex-girlfriend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Men are amorous. But he has a sense of responsibility, and you can rest assured that he won't abandon you. But it's impossible for you to make him completely forget about her.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I guess it's no fun He hasn't let go of her yet, so he shouldn't start a new relationship It's very irresponsible, at least that's what I think.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Wouldn't that be great? Give everyone a stroll to familiarize themselves with the process of falling in love, give each other a feeling of being together, and find a reason for yourself to continue.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    To the beholder, this is a rare and somewhat unreliable. Come to comfort you when he has a girlfriend, if you come with his girlfriend to comfort you, you don't have to be sorry, it will be repeated between you. If you know him well, that's a different story.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Part of the reason I broke up with my ex-boyfriend.

    It's because he can't forget his ex-girlfriend in his heart.

    To be honest, I can't stand it.

    He even had to say it.

    It's hard to have a very indifferent attitude.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    That's for sure, if your current boyfriend doesn't have an ex-girlfriend in his heart, would you want such a heartless person!

    Give him a little more time and space, infect him with your tenderness and empathy, and help him get out of the shadow of his ex-girlfriend.

    It's not easy to meet someone you can love, so work hard.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Looking at your description, my opinion is that even if he doesn't love his ex-girlfriend anymore, he won't necessarily fall in love with you. In this relationship, you are the one who takes the initiative, he takes care of you when he is in a good mood, and ignores you when he is in a bad mood, so you must be very hurt. Although, you ask others for help, in fact, you know in your heart that he does not love you.

    But why can't you let him go? Because you have illusions in your heart, fantasizing that he will change his mind and will miss your good.

    If he treats you like this, if you ask a thousand people, ten thousand people, they will persuade you to leave him. However, you love him so much, all you want to do is wait for him to fall in love with you.

    In that case, then you can wait until you can't wait for him before letting go.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Whether he loves his ex-girlfriend or not is one thing, whether he loves you or not is another, agree with what was said downstairs, even if he doesn't love his ex-girlfriend anymore, he may not be able to fall in love with you, I don't know how you started, you don't necessarily have no feelings at all, let's talk to your boyfriend.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't be delusional that he will be able to forget about his ex-girlfriend and only have you in his heart. Because the way you get along with each other is already like this, and it won't change. Leave him, or continue to be his spare tire. The choice is yours.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let him, he's not educated, he doesn't have morals, and he doesn't respect you, and if you don't leave him, you're a pathetic person, and if you leave him, let him be a pathetic person.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    With my personal experience, I should communicate with him at such a time If you feel uncomfortable in your heart, it will be unnatural for the two of you to get along, and after a long time, you will inevitably end up separated.

    If you are communicating with him now, it is not a matter of asking the teacher to ask for guilt, you should first show your understanding, people have feelings, they once loved each other after all, and it is normal for people to think about it occasionally. But you must let him know your bottom line clearly, after all, you are the most important person to him now, and ask him to respect your status and feelings. Tell him that you can tolerate his occasional reminiscences for half a year, but you must make sure that you are the most important person in his mind before you want to continue to be with him.

    It takes two people to work together to get along, and your blind forbearance will not help your relationship; He should learn to settle his remaining feelings, clean up his past, and give his girlfriend a complete love, which is his duty as a boyfriend. Talk to him, if he says he can't do it, you really don't have to wait for him......

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    People are like this, always think about what you can't get, but you can't see what you get, and you don't know if it's a business, if you really love him, then prove it to him, let him pay attention to your existence, if you feel awkward in your heart, persuade you to think about it, and the taste of others in the middle should be uncomfortable.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Talk to him well, what the hell is going to do? If they still can't let go, if it's me, I'll leave, I wish them happiness

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    What you can't get is better, and you have to make him understand the consequences of losing you. So that he will cherish you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Ask him what he thinks in his heart, and if he really can't let go, no matter what you do, he won't see it.

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