Now it s only the first year of junior high school, can I fall in love?

Yes, but you need to be prepared to break up. Now, you are the first in the first place, and your relationship will not come to fruition at all. Now you're just having fun, and he's not really saying that he likes it.

Besides, do you know what love is, your love is not really in love, it's just infatuation. So you should study hard and think about your future. If your parents know that it must be very sad, and your parents will be stricter, then you will not be free.

When your teacher knows, you will be a bad student in the eyes of the teacher and will not trust you. So you should study carefully. There are also junior high school students who fall in love and have no results, so why spend some energy here.

This happens all the time around me, so I'd better say no. But in the end, it's up to the landlord to decide, right?

Precociousness, in fact, doesn't matter. That's the way it is now. Everyone is very open-minded, but I think that since this idea is born, there must be a result.

I guess you must be hesitant. I suggest you read more classic world classics, the best about celebrities. I think you should be a little idealistic, you are a very smart girl I can feel.

I felt it many years ago, too. It's better to deal with it.

Little sister, for your age, it's too early to fall in love, there is a difference between touching and loving, and you know very little about love now, so don't fall in love. When you grow up, you're going to fall in love, and now you have to study hard, otherwise you'll regret it.

Falling in love in the first year of junior high school? Little sister, you'd better not even think about it now, wait until you're older, now you are the most important thing to learn!

Not yet.

It's still early. Wait a little bigger.

Oh, you're still too young, you don't know what love is, let's study it first!! Oh good.

Little sister, it's too early, how old are you, you can refuse him tactfully, it's still too early, if you want to fall in love, wait until 18.

Grow up a little more, and think about what he can give you now?

It's too early! Not good! Wait!

Yes, you can, but you have to have the mental preparation that the two of you can't be together, you are still young, but everything will only be opened up after you have experienced it, you can ask yourself, do you like him, if you like it, exile yourself, but don't do something stupid, don't give your first time to a person easily, because you can't be with him at the same time, but you can take him as your spiritual pillar.

It's too early, your task now is to study, so don't think about it, tell him what you have to do, don't delay yourself and don't delay him.

It's too small, it's easy to be impulsive, and it's going to hurt a lot in the end Because, at your age, it's not actually love, and if you don't hear it well, you won't be able to grow up When you go to college and go to work, it will change a lot You can't let your parents worry about disappointment, they must have great hopes for you

I think it's better not to be just a child now, don't be angry, really, you're still too young, it's fake to talk about feelings now, it's good if you're talking about it. There's nothing wrong with listening to GG. Hey.

Give yourself a little confidence! Since someone asked you to be his girlfriend, it means that you are great! But you're still very young.

It's not suitable for falling in love, isn't it good to keep a good friend relationship?

It doesn't affect your studies and life.

There is a degree of problem in everything, and in the traditional Chinese concept: this is early love.

Now that you don't know much about what love is at that age, try to talk to your parents.

Know that your parents will not abandon you at any time. Believe in yourself, communicate with them more, and you will benefit...

Falling in love with the 1st and 6th grades together is fruitless, so stop thinking about falling in love, calm down and study hard, and don't think about falling in love.

Don't be a child from an ordinary family, you still study hard in junior high school.

Junior high school is a very crucial step in life, although it is only three years, it can be a watershed in many people's lives.

About half of junior high school students don't go to high school and then college. At present, civil servants, public institutions, or better enterprises all require academic qualifications, most of which require a bachelor's degree or above, and some will also recruit junior colleges, but they will rarely be lower. It's not that if you have a high degree of education, you must be capable, and you will definitely perform well at work, but if you don't have a degree, then you can't even get an admission ticket; Or put in more effort to get into your preferred circle.

With a high degree of education, you can have more choices in employment. Moreover, going to high school and college brings people not only academic qualifications, but also the improvement of comprehensive quality, the accumulation of contacts, and even better love and life partners.

Sometimes I see some parents, they did not study when they were young, or because of family difficulties, there are no conditions for learning, after having children, they are very attentive to their children's learning, and would rather suffer themselves, but also to create a good learning environment for their children, and even some parents put the hope of changing the fate of the family on their children's learning, which is a bit excessive. But this fully illustrates the importance of knowledge and academic qualifications to change the fate of ordinary people. In the beating of life, these parents have personally felt that if they do not read enough and have low education, they will be deprived of many opportunities to improve their lives.

There are some things that you have that you think are nothing more than that; But if you don't, you will feel the importance of it. For example, youth, such as a bachelor's degree or above.

There are some things that can be done at another time, and there are some things that will not have this shop in this village after that. It's really not too late to fall in love and go to college, if you don't study well in junior high school, you can't go to high school, for ordinary people, you may not have a chance with college in this life.

We, ordinary, mediocre adults, are anxious for our children. But thinking about what he said when he was young, he didn't think much of what his parents said, after many years, with some experience, I realized that what the old man said was right, but it was a pity that he was disobedient back then, otherwise he would not have taken so many detours. I regret it now, but there is no going back.

There is a constant cycle between generations. Liu Xuehua, who always played the angry little daughter-in-law when she was young, now often plays the evil mother-in-law, Zhou Haimei was Zhou Zhiruo when she was young, and she became the extermination master when she was old.

Now in the eyes of the child, the parents are not close to the people, do not understand the old stubbornness, I hope he can experience the painstaking work of his parents as soon as possible, not for others, just for his own future not to work too hard, to have more freedom and choice.

The harm of children's early love is particularly great, and parents know it early and avoid it.

1. Seriously affect learning and destroy thinking.

At an age like adolescence, learning should be the primary goal. Children in this period are full of youth and vitality, and it is the period when they are energetic and active in thinking, and it should be the most helpful time for learning. However, if you fall into the turmoil of early love, it will make the child's thinking deviate, and it is especially easy to get distracted during class, which will greatly reduce the efficiency of learning.

2. Psychological frustration.

Everyone knows that the end of early love generally ends without a problem. Because the reason why it is called puppy love is because everyone makes immature decisions in immature things, and such decisions are definitely not correct in the end. And adolescent children are very sensitive in their hearts, and if they break up in an unpeaceful quarrel, it is easy to hit the child's heart.

It turns out that many children who are in early love and fall out of love will become depressed and withdrawn for a period of time. In severe cases, it can also lead to mental illness.

3. Premature sexual intercourse.

Children who are in early love are prone to "stealing the forbidden fruit" in ignorance. When sexual consciousness germinates, they do not have enough experience to control it, and they are particularly impulsive. If there are some deviant actions in such a situation, there may be some cases of unmarried pregnancies.

This kind of thing may be painless for boys, but it is a very big thing for girls.

The harm of women prematurely to the reproductive system is very great, and it will even affect the fertility in the future, so the parents of girls in the family should pay more attention to this education.

When it is found that the child has a precocious love situation, if the parents choose to abuse it at the first time, it will definitely backfire.

So be sure to educate your children in the right way:

1. Talk to your heart. Heart-to-heart talks are very useful for adolescent children who "eat soft but not hard". Sometimes, the reason why many children fall in love with each other may be precisely because parents do not pay enough attention to themselves, so they let their children make such a choice.

When you find out that your child is in early love, you must communicate and communicate with your child gently, and only by understanding the "why" can you understand the "how".

2. Be reasonable.

At this time, it is necessary to give the child some space to think independently. You can tell the child what is being like a person. Like someone, that is, you have to do better yourself, in order to make the other party better, at this age, are you worthy of this stage of love?

Can you make the other person happy and happy in a practical sense? If something bad happens, can you afford it? Telling your child these things may help him stop and think about whether it's the right thing to do.

3. Understand the consequences.

It is difficult for children to think about things in such a long time, and we have to tell children what kind of situation they will find and what consequences they will have once they fall in love too early. Letting children understand the consequences will better prevent early love.

May occur during puberty. I used to have it at that time, too. The world of adults only talks about the result, ignoring the process, ignoring the joy and enjoyment that the process brings.

It doesn't make a child accept the rules of the adult world. As long as it does not affect learning, there is an impulse to save and continue, until there is no impulse, which is good for the child in the future. Many 12 or 13-year-old children who are inhibited and die studying will basically find it difficult to find a partner in the future unless they are born to contact people.

Therefore, it is a good thing for the two to be impulsive, and it will help the child's future development.

There should be no results. Because he is still young, his thinking is not yet mature.

People in these two grades are still children, and it is not the intention of falling in love, it can only be the impulse of adolescence and curiosity about the opposite sex, and there is no emotional and economic foundation, which can only affect learning and psychological growth in adolescence.

Distance, time, space, and feelings comprehensively determine the outcome of love.

Love in junior high school generally doesn't last long, because after all, junior high school students are young and don't know what love is, even if two people like each other, they just have a good feeling, not love in the real sense.

Our first love generally starts in junior high school, and the love in junior high school may just be the kind of special and simple like, as if you will miss it if you can't see it, and you will be happy when you see it. And this kind of relationship is not love in the simple sense, this kind of relationship is more like friendship, there is no exchange of monetary interests.

Moreover, the love of junior high school students will also change as they grow up, and junior high school students don't know what it means to start from the beginning, as long as they like it. Girls in junior high school have more of a kind of worship for boys, such as which boy is handsome, which boy can play basketball, which boy can play football, these are all goals that girls like.

If you meet a better guy, you will turn your attention to other people. There is another important reason why junior high school students' love cannot last for a long time, that is, the opposition of parents, which parents want their children to engage in objects in junior high school, this is early love, it is expressly forbidden, and if parents know, they may be scolded.

Besides, even if some junior high school students fall in love, they will generally part ways after graduation, because after graduation, two people may not be able to go to the same school, if two people are assigned to different schools, the environment will be different from before, and the people they meet will be different, and it is inevitable that the problem of empathy will occur.

Therefore, the love of most junior high school students will not last long, maybe there is really a love from junior high school to growing old together, but there are too few such loves.

Generally, no.

The most colorful season of youth is the years of junior high school;In this young boy and girl of this age, because they are not deeply involved in the world, they have a hazy experience of love;So when two people fall in love, it will be unforgettable and will not be forgotten for a lifetime;Because boys and girls, from childhood to adulthood, have never experienced love, so they will give desperately.

Many firsts in life happen during this season, so they will be unforgettableBut because of deep love and true love, the love in this period can't withstand the wind and rain, and as long as there is a little contradiction, it will break up unhappily.

It doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, you can't fall in love for a lifetime in junior high school;Not only can it not last a lifetime, but it will also be very short, like a flash in the pan, disappearing in the blink of an eye;Because junior high school students fall in love, they will love more deeply and love more truly;Therefore, many things on the road of love will be more important.

Boys don't know how to be considerate of girls, and girls can't accept some of the boys' behaviors;So as long as there is a little contradiction, the two people will break up unhappily and go their separate ways;But the love in junior high school, because each other is the first love, so the love will be very beautiful and will not be forgotten for a lifetime.