Can you be casual in love?

Of course not.

I'm sure you have that answer in mind.

Girls aren't for fun. If one day, you fall in love with a girl and find out that she is just playing with you, how do you feel?

It's mutual.

Either it's serious, it's vigorous, it's experience.

Even a breakup is a good story.

If you start with the mentality of having fun, you won't gain any experience.

It will only turn yourself into a big bad guy who hurts girls.

It depends on who you are.

What do you take feelings for yourself.

Many people treat their feelings as a game, and if they can afford to play it, they can play it, and if they can't afford it, they will roll it.

Play if you want to play If you don't want to play, don't play.

Feelings are not the same.

Just think of different countries.

No one will say that their country is bad.

I can't say a lot of things.

It's just relative.

It's better not to be casual, since you want to talk, talk about it.

Rather lack than abuse. Although we broke up, it was not a life experience in vain."

It is because of love that I have accumulated life experience.

Rather than falling in love for the sake of life experience.

Feelings are there, not for life experience.

Life experience is just a by-product of being in love.

Who said that? Underdrawn.

Each of us wants to have a happy and fulfilling love, and we strive for it. But when you really fall in love, you will find a lot of things that you don't know or don't know deeply enough. ......Specifically, these things include love that focuses on love but requires more strength to be sure, the right pair is really key for love, and love at first sight, although romantic, but not necessarily reliable.

1. Love focuses on love, but it needs strong strength as a guarantee.

In the minds of the vast majority of people, love is the state of focusing on love. These people will think that there is only love and nothing else in love. Such a view is inaccurate.

In fact, it is necessary to have a solid material foundation for falling in love, and if you don't have strong strength or sufficient superior economic conditions, the difficulty of successfully falling in love is very low. This matter can only be understood after falling in love.

2, Door-to-door pairs are really important for a relationship, and it's very crucial.

Many people think that the right pair is an outdated notion that simply doesn't matter to the person who is in a relationship now. But in fact it is by no means so. ......There will be very big differences between two people who are not in the right household in terms of living habits, economic conditions, ways of thinking about problems, and recognition of each other, which will lead to many problems in love between them.

And two people who are the right person have similar living conditions and similar ideas and concepts, so it is easier to produce a common language, and it will be easier for two people to succeed in love. This matter can only be known after falling in love.

3. Love at first sight is romantic, but it is not necessarily reliable.

Love at first sight is very romantic, and many people are extremely envious of it. ......But in fact, this kind of love will have a lot of problems because of the lack of understanding of each other, so love at first sight is not necessarily reliable, and many such relationships do not end up with the desired results. This situation can only be known after falling in love and preparing for teasing, and after having personal experience.

Zhihu has a topic, what kind of experience is it to be in love many times?

Someone said: "It's like playing a copy to brush up on experience, becoming more and more numb, even if you are separated, you can turn your head and forget." There is no sense of possessiveness and jealousy at all. ”

Some people also said: "After talking about love many times, you will feel that love has a process, it will be numb, and after chatting and holding hands and hugging and kissing at the beginning, you will already feel that it is time for these things to happen, but no matter how many times you fall in love, there is always someone who makes you feel that everything will be different." ”

Another person said: "I feel that I am no longer interested in falling in love, I feel that I can't find two people who like each other at all, falling in love suddenly becomes a tiring thing in my eyes, I don't want to touch love anymore, don't increase my relationship history because of anyone, you deserve to have that specific person at a specific time." ”

Everyone must have some prejudice against a boy or girl who has been in love many times. What is Casual? Is it a few more failed emotional experiences? A friend said:"Every love I've ever been in is because of my liking. "

That friend is a brave person, she is extremely attentive in every relationship, not for the sake of falling in love, but really liking it, so she decided to be together, although the ending is not satisfactory, it will not affect her next love.

She said: "Whether you have been in love many times has nothing to do with whether you are serious about your relationship or not. "I've liked a lot of people, but when I'm in love, it's enough to like just one person.

When you meet your favorite couple, you will boldly go together, and you will be fair and honest in your feelings, which is what you value yourself.

Zhang Yuqi, who recently rode the wind and waves in variety shows, once occupied the headlines on Weibo because of her love life, and bent Zhang Yuqi's views on her emotional marriage, saying, "I don't see men very well." He also told everyone with practical actions what it means to truly dare to love and hate. Everyone regrets her three relationships and marriages, and hopes that she can have a good relationship.

It's just that you have to say goodbye to a few wrong people in order to meet and cherish the right person who finally came to your side. The reason why we are together is because we have light in each other's eyes and love in our hearts, because we believe in each other to give us sure and down-to-earth happiness, and because we have a future in my life. And not because you've been in love many times.

Feelings are not math problems, there is no fixed answer, no matter what kind of solution you have, I hope everyone will find your answer.