You ve had these troubles in your adolescence!

Put it in perspective

I don't think I can think of this as homosexuality, but it can only be regarded as a peer liking, because I also liked a girl in our school, but she didn't know me, so I looked at her from afar, but then she changed schools, and I called my good friend and cried, and after a few days, I adjusted, and I didn't think it was gay, because I still like boys.

I went out the other day because I was in a bad mood when I went out, so I was still angry when I got on the bus, and then I looked out the window, and I saw the girl who was transferring to another school, and she was riding a bicycle and a boy was next to her, and she was smiling so brightly that it made me feel better. I can see that the other person is living happily, and I am already very satisfied.

Ah, such a thing, depressed.

Are you gay? Oh my God? I haven't seen gay miles how much do you qq I'll add you !

Isn't it pretty, I'll help you change it, hehe

It's me, and I've avoided it a long time ago. She's not gay, it's normal for her to find a boyfriend, you have to understand her, I suggest you tell her about her difficulties.

It is recommended that you go: Tieba - Same-sex consultation.

They are the only ones who understand you.

Along with our physical development, our cognitive abilities are developed, our self-awareness is constantly enhanced, and our emotional world is enriched. These changes make us feel novel, but also cause us contradictions and confusion. The ambivalence of adolescence sometimes annoys us, but it also provides an opportunity for us to grow.

Only by actively facing and correctly handling these psychological contradictions can we grow up healthily. The formulation of the question stem is correct.

Summary. The ambivalence of adolescence is annoying, and that's because you're not smart enough to solve it, so you always get lost when dealing with it.

Therefore, one's own growth is in a distorted state, which is not beneficial to a kind of growth, so such an existence lies in the fact that oneself has lost a kind of upbringing, and that oneself does not trust oneself enough.

For your own trust, the cultivation of faith is not tenacious enough, so you must understand what your youth is like, what kind of education you need, what kind of companionship you need, and even what kind of romance you need.

Be sure to plan well, so when you are conflicted, you can decide who is better to manage for you according to Mao Dun's world.

For example, if you are now your parents, you will hand them over to your parents, for example, if you have classmates and friends to chat with, if you trust the teacher, you can share your troubles with the teacher and let the teacher give you a solution.

So believe in all the ivory tower life of your youth world and make yourself more perfect.

The ambivalence of adolescence is troubling+ and has no reason to judge our growth in any way.

Hello, I am consulting your emotional fairy sister and waiting patiently for me.

The ambivalence of adolescence is annoying, that is because I am not smart enough to solve it, so I always let myself be confused when dealing with it, so my growth is in a distorted state, which is not good for a kind of growth, so such an existence lies in the fact that I have lost a kind of upbringing, because I don't trust myself enough to trust myself, and the cultivation of faith is not tenacious enough, so we must understand what the growth of our youth is like and what kind of education is needed. What kind of companionship do you need, what kind of romance do you even need, you must plan well, so when you are conflicted, you can decide who can help you manage it better according to Mao Dun's world, for example, your parents now, you will hand it over to your parents, for example, you now have classmates and friends to chat, for example, if you trust the teacher, share your troubles with the teacher, and let the teacher give you a solution, so believe in all the ivory tower life in your youth world, and make yourself more perfect.

Personality in adolescence manifests itself as follows:

1. Personality sensitivity and envy emotional polarization: adolescent children are emotionally strong, enthusiastic and unrestrained, and the polarity of emotions is very prominent, they will not only be excited for a moment of success, but also depressed and depressed for Xiaoqiao's small frustration, their emotions are changeable, and they often have inexplicable troubles and anxiety.

2. Closed personality and psychological "lock": Entering adolescence, boys and girls have ended the childhood of "teenagers do not know the taste of sorrow", and have entered the "eventful autumn" At this time, due to the continuous development of psychology, their emotional self-control ability has been greatly improved compared with childhood, and they have learned to cover up and hide their true emotions, and the characteristics of psychological "lock-in" appear.

3. Unstable personality and impulsiveness: In the brain of adolescent adolescents, the nerves responsible for controlling feelings and impulses have not yet matured, which is the reason why they are impulsive.

Hello, the troubles of adolescence are not only manifested physically but also psychologically, adolescence is a sensitive stage, they will be curious about their physiological changes, will explore whether their peers have the same changes as themselves, if there is a will feel normal, if not, will become nervous. More curious about the opposite sex, if you communicate well with your parents and teachers, you will deal with this stage of the relationship, and if you don't handle it well, you will fall in love