Why do some people like to find someone to bully?

Probably because he was abused by his parents, and he couldn't resist, and over time there was hatred in his heart, so he had to vent it!

yes, who's the object?

Who is being bullied?

You'll have to write the title completely.

If there is any grievance that you can't solve by yourself, you can ask a third party or other people, including leaders, teachers, and elders, to come forward and judge you, make peace, and uphold justice.

Seeing your problem, first of all, you have to find out why you are looking for someone to bully you, what kind of psychology they are for, they are pranks, in order to have fun, whether the confusing person is unreasonable, or out of jealousy, misunderstanding, etc. If. It's out of mischievousness, happy or vexatious.

You don't have to be serious, if you can't change their approach for a while, it's better to ignore them, so that they will be bored, bored and self-defeating, and if they are jealous, don't be angry about it. There must be something in you that stands out more than others. Therefore, you should be proud of this, and if you are jealous, you can choose the right time to explain it to them sincerely and kindly.

If you can't explain it for a while, be tolerant and generous to them. I'm sure time will tell. In the face of them, you don't have to dodge, let alone cry, you have to learn to live easily, freely and freely, and learn to take the initiative to interact with the people around you.

Don't ask for it, but you can't ask for it, as long as you are willing to give your true feelings, you will definitely get friendship.

I can't bully myself, find someone to help, and I'm happy to be born.

It is advisable to consult a psychologist regarding masochistic tendencies. Positive ** correct it.

Some people are his mental pressure. It's bigger, so it's also kind of being bullied. A means of venting mental stress. Or a means of diversion.

Some people are. With such a special fetish. Flesh pain brings abnormal pleasure. Addicted. I can't quit for a while.

Some people feel that being bullied is also a close contact with others, maybe she needs the care and love of others.

Some people he felt. Sooner or later, he may be bullied by others, so he takes the initiative to ask others to be bullied, so that he can control the time when he is bullied, and reduce her anxiety and anxiety.

Some people are willing to be bullied by someone. Maybe he wanted to please her indirectly. Thus relying on him. Take refuge in him.

Some people he saw others being bullied after that. I couldn't save that person, and I felt more pain. So out of a redemptive mentality, he shared the joys and sorrows with the person who was bullied—willing to be bullied himself.

Regardless of the psychology. His relatives and friends include ** teacher. To ask about observations. Directly or indirectly aware of the situation. Determine ** and then have a target. Give guidance to correct, condition and **.

Because some people have a withdrawn personality, they are often beaten by others, so they are easy to be bullied when they are beaten by others.

No one is born with the desire to be bullied by others, these are all acquired factors, and it may also be caused by life pressure.

No one likes to be bullied unless one person really loves another person and is willing to enjoy being bullied by the other person as well.

I sympathize with your experience, in today's society, there are all kinds of birds when the forest is big!

Some people always love to bully honest people and like to make fun of honest people! To put it bluntly, the family education is not good and the cultivation is not enough! You're not kind to such a person!

What can you do to change that? You have to learn to joke with people, and in response to other people's attacks, you don't say nothing, that is tantamount to acquiescence. You have to think twice about his words, and then say something more profound (hidden), as if it were a joke, but you must not offend anyone, and make the other party feel embarrassed!

Over time, they won't dare to offend you, and you'll learn how to deal with unfriendly people, wouldn't it kill two birds with one stone! People have a good side and an evil side! When a person doesn't like you or even hates you, they want you to be bad, so they find ways to bully you and calm their minds.

If you are better than him, he feels angry, why are you better than him, he is unwilling, he wants you to be punished, or he thinks he is not good, and he can't let others live better than him, this is also part of jealousy, so you can't be too public, because people's hearts are complicated, this moment when you are a good friend, the next moment you can turn your face and not recognize people, and some are good to you on the surface, but actually hate you So look at these people around you with your heart, you will know who is good and who is evil, of course, except for the deep city. Since you haven't disrespected the other person and the other person is doing this to you, you should fight back. Even if the joke is too much, you should fight back!

If you are bullied by others for no reason, you must fight back, otherwise others will think you are cowardly!

It will be even more unscrupulous!

You must learn to protect yourself and defend your dignity!

This kind of person is born without quality, and feels that bullying people is a kind of happiness, in fact, this kind of person himself is not happy, he feels bored and has to find something to do, and he is happy to bully others, in fact, he may not be happy, but he just uses bullying people to get psychological satisfaction, and when he encounters such a person, ignore him, let him stand aside, and if he bullies people too much, he will fight back.

Human nature, survival of the fittest! Only when you make yourself stronger, can you have the ability to compete!

When there are more tadpoles in the same pond, they release toxins that kill other tadpoles. It's also an animal instinct to bully others when some people don't do it completely. Man comes from nature and retains some of the instincts of animals, but these instincts are filtered by social morality and suppressed by human civilization, and usually do not manifest themselves, due to individual differences, some people retain more animal instincts, we might as well call them beasts!

They love to bully people because their selfish desires are excessive, because they are domineering, because they are not right-minded.

The embodiment of lack of upbringing, bullying the soft and fearing the hard, but not daring to hum when encountering more bullishness!

Because the lower ones will hurt each other.

Because of the lack of family education, low self-esteem and the evil element in the genes, there are both the so-called "original goodness of human beings" and the "original evil of human nature" proposed by Xunzi in this world, which can only be put on the right track through standardized and strict education. Lack of discipline in the growth stage, and lack of understanding of human feelings, are prone to the primitive state of living things: "domineering, selfish, barbaric, and arrogant."

deceive the good and fear the evil, and the weak eat the strong; This is the nature of all animals, this is the nature of living beings" You have to make him understand the social makeup, why people can't bully people! Because man is a higher creature, not an animal, he will take revenge for bullying him. You can't do it! Let him be stumbling in his way, and he will be troubled if he is not punished!

If you don't clean up this kind of person as soon as possible, let him learn a lesson; It's not good for you, it's good for him, it's for the people around him.

In Aesop's Fables, it is said that at first the camel was tall and large, and people were afraid of it and revered it, but when they found it docile and kind, and not aggressive, they felt that it was easy to deceive; Since then, he has been led by the nose as a cow to make a horse and a mermaid. People should still have their own tempers! Let people understand that you are not easy to mess with, so that you will not be deceived by villains!

The gentleman is frank, and the villain is a relative. Don't have compassion for those who are evil, and in vain encourage unhealthy tendencies!

It may be because of the family of origin. Childhood. Soaring.

Didn't think about others. But she was very happy. Because there is.

Her family spoils her. If he's such a bully, don't be his friend. Because you are not the same kind of people.

Everyone should be moral. The person who bullies others is himself an unreasonable person, everyone is equal in society, and those who bully the weak and fear the hard, such people should be condemned by morality, we must care for and love the disadvantaged groups, and it is our responsibility to help them.

I hope that everyone will learn to help others and convince them with reason.

Some people always feel that they are better than others, and bullying people will be addicted and make him happy.

in a person's moral and moral problems.

Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, we just need to be a good person, cause and effect have their own retribution, and there is no great mercy in the south to save the suffering Buddha.

Hello friends. The conditions of the people themselves are relatively superior. He will look down on the people around him. I love to bully others. I always think that I have a sense of superiority. Everyone else grabs.

We often hear people say: "People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden." Why is it that the more honest and kind people are, the easier it is to be bullied? What kind of psychology are they doing to bully honest people?

1. Subconsciously think that honest people should be bulliedSome people subconsciously think that honest people are easy to bully and are taken for granted to be bullied, and this subconscious may be influenced by some environment or some people, creating their wrong psychology, so they will bully honest people.

Second, think that honest people are cowardly and incompetent psychologyHonest people are kind, do not like to fight, and do not like to show themselves, some people will regard the kindness and love of others as their cowardice, and think that honest people cannot, and then destroy their body and mind.

3. Bullying the weak reflects their strong psychology This kind of people are despicable and shameful, they bully the soft and afraid of the hard, how dare the egg touch the stone, they only pick the weak to bully, in order to reflect their strength, to bully honest people to prove that they are also a strong person, in fact, they are a shameful weakling.

Fourth, think that people are honest and have no "worries" after being bulliedHonest people generally choose to swallow their anger and not resist, and they will form a psychology of obedience for a long time. This also makes some people feel that bullying honest people has no worries and can be unscrupulous. Fifth, Wang Yan is easy to vent bad emotions on the weak psychology Now in the fast-paced society, the pressure is very great, and some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak body, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a feeling of superiority.

Fifth, it is easy to vent bad emotions to the weak psychology Now in the fast-paced society, there is a lot of pressure, some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a sense of superiority.

Recently, the practice of a boy putting a magnet into a girl's water cup has attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. ......In daily life, there are some people who bully others in the name of joking, and this behavior causes great harm to the other party. Specifically, this kind of bullying that seems to be a joke includes deliberately giving the other person a bad nickname, joking about the other person's shortcomings, and deliberately belittling the other person.

1. Deliberately give the other party an ugly nickname, and once the other party gets angry, say it's a joke.

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations where we give people nicknames. ......Nicknames between familiar people, and the nickname does not have a bad meaning, this situation is a real joke, not only will not affect the relationship between each other's Qin and Messenger, but also can make each other get along more harmoniously. ......But some people take the opportunity to deliberately give people nicknames, and the meaning of nicknames contains derogatory elements.

To do so is to deliberately bully people.

2. Joke about the other party's shortcomings, which is actually deliberately bullying the other party.

Each of us has our own shortcomings, and this is a normal thing. In our daily interactions, we all avoid mentioning each other's shortcomings so as not to cause harm to each other. ......But some people deliberately embarrass each other by saying their shortcomings.

If the other person is angry, he will say that it is a joke and avoid the situation where he deliberately bullies others.

3. Deliberately joking and belittling the other party is actually bullying the other party.

Each of us will have a corresponding evaluation of the people around us. Some of these evaluations are good, and some are bad. Some people will take advantage of this opportunity to bully people.

Specifically, they will deliberately belittle someone in front of everyone and cause harm to the other person. And once the other party investigates, he will prevaricate in the name of joking to cover up his bullying problem. These people are just kidding, but they're actually bullying people.

Their actions can cause serious harm to others.

Soft persimmon psychology.

Frankly speaking, this kind of person is very calculating, they are well versed in the way of socializing, they are always able to exploit all kinds of loopholes, and they will use different methods to achieve their own goals in the face of different people. Whenever I see those who have suffered losses but are silent, their psychology of pinching soft persimmons immediately begins to move.

The reason why they have been able to succeed again and again is precisely because of their extremely low sense of social morality and rogue mentality. All kinds of struggle experiences have made them tried and tested repeatedly, so the soft persimmon psychology has become their logic and experience, and it has become a kind of communicative inertia.

In their consciousness, there are two common human natures: introspection and order. When there is a problem, they take the lead and use the methods of questioning, doubting and scolding to deter the other party, find the problem from their own side, and let the other party fall into a false impression that they are wrong, and they will not find the reason from him, but feel sorry for him.

The reflex arc of people is relatively long, and by the time they react to what is going on, the matter is often over.

Mis-transfers and emotional garbage**.

Psychologists point out that self-blame and self-imposed pressure are more likely to damage a person's mood than anger. Those who are unreasonable take advantage of precisely this.

For example, if something goes wrong, they will put the main blame on you, which is a classic mistransfer.

There is a special defense mechanism in their minds, so that they can't tolerate the feeling that the mistake is self-inflicted, so those who cooperate or collaborate with them become the object of their blame. In the final analysis, it is they who are unwilling to take responsibility alone, and they always want the people around them to bear the same bad experience as them.

Of course, none of us are stupid, it's just that sometimes we choose to be silent. But how can we possibly remain calm after suffering a lot of dumb losses? At this time, it is inevitable to be angry, not only angry with those scumbags, but also angry with yourself, and even angry with the whole society.

We are angry, why would we cooperate with such a person who is buried or buried? Why would such a scumbag let himself meet? Why are you so stupid, you have been tricked by this kind of person, and you still know it later.