How to save him, how to save this relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hehe, I think put, your boyfriend is unbalanced, he thinks you don't understand him, he thinks he loves you more than you love him, what you have to do now is to make him understand that you actually love him too, you have to make him understand that if he loses you, he may never find the person who loves him more than you, as long as he understands this, I believe you can still go on, and the contradictions in your hearts will be solved, I hope you can succeed, if you really can't, then walk away in style, He is already a person who is not worth your giving, the breakup is just a short-term pain, time will dilute everything, maybe one day you will find your true destiny, hehe! Hope you are happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you should give up.

    Feelings are a matter of two people, saying that he doesn't have you in his heart, the two months he promised you are just perfunctory to you, and you are just unwilling in your heart, two people are just together and they are just separated, have you thought about it in the future? Even if they are barely together, what is the result? Have you ever thought about marrying him?

    Have you ever thought about wanting him to stay with you for the rest of your life? I think you can see what your heart is thinking

    You can't even see your own heart, how do you decide.

    Don't say that you love him, because seeing what you described, I think you are just telling yourself over and over again in your heart that I love him, you are just your unwillingness.

    Calm down and think about it. Why be so tired What a woman wants is just a person's care and attention, he hasn't even done what you want, so why force it?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It feels like you've already made a judgment in your own heart: he has a new love.

    According to your description, it's really hard for you to get to this point and then go back to where you used to be. If you still want to be together, find your own reasons.

    You mentioned that "he feels that his efforts are not proportional to his returns" is that you have too much interaction with other boys and ignore his feelings, usually perfunctory and casually promised, and then give him the feeling that you don't care about him very much, you may think: I don't care about him dating other girls. Maybe you are jealous of him, but he feels happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it were me, don't ask him about it during these two months, and give him freedom and space. Care more about him and talk more about warm topics. Treat him like a bosom friend and make him fall in love with you again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Silly boy, twisted so hard that the melon is not sweet. Instead of being in a painful love, it's better to find a new one. Being in love for three years doesn't mean anything, it's what you want the most.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What you want to redeem may not be a certain person, but a certain period of time.

    What the hell are you obsessed with? You have to be clear.

    What is barely salvaged is actually a lot of complaints, a lot of unfairness.

    He may look down on your feelings, and you will have to keep your voice down. Such an unfair feeling, redeemed, what can be.

    Are you willing to share this life with that kind of person, see prosperity together, and go to life and death together?

    What about him? Would you like to?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    These words of yours I'll bookmark = I'm a screenwriter and I'm going to write it into a screenplay

    Emotional things What can others do for you Do things according to your own feelings Don't force yourself Don't wronged yourself Just do your best

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