If you ve been in love for so long, why give up so easily?

All giving up is not a split-second decision, it is very likely that the other party has been thinking about it in your heart for a long time, but you yourself are aware of it and do not realize it. A good friend of mine and a girl have been in love for five years from high school to college, and often show affection in the circle of friends, and we all thought that they could finally achieve positive results. But just because a friend said a few more words to a girl, the two broke up inexplicably, which made us all confused.

Later, my friend told me that he had already had the idea of breaking up, and he was just looking for an opportunity.

It may be that I have been in love for a long time, so long that I have spent all my strength, and I can't support it so much that I can only break up peacefully. It's not that I don't love, it's that I'm too tired of loving. I have loved for so long, I have doubted myself for so long, I have loved for so long but I have not received a response; I have been in love for so long, but I found that he still has another girl in his mind; I loved for so long before I realized that I was a joke.

It's not that I don't love, it's just that loving you has spent all my luck and strength.

I've been with my boyfriend for seven years, and I've been working hard to achieve something from nothing to now. I very, very much hope to be with him and grow old together. But fate quietly changed our relationship, so that I could not see my future, I didn't know how I would go on if I was with him, so I had to give up my current relationship.

I have a colleague who has been in love with her boyfriend for 8 years, and my boyfriend has never mentioned getting married, and finally my colleague proposed to break up, saying that he was too tired of loving and didn't want to be together anymore, and the other party couldn't give a promise. It's so insecure. There are many people who choose to break up after being in love for a long time, sometimes they feel too tired, or they feel that they want to break up because the other party can't give them security.

My personal opinion, since you have been in love for so long, you should always love to the end and not give up easily. Isn't it in vain to pay so much before, and people should understand and trust each other. That's the way to stay in the long run.

Instead of suspicion and complaining about each other. This is a very bad negative impact on the family and children.

There are many reasons for giving up a relationship, such as the obstruction of parents, the gap between families, the distrust between two people, and the infirmity between two people, all of which can make a relationship that has been in love for a long time easily give up.

Because, today's children basically don't have any ideas, they will listen to their parents, and they will do what their parents tell them to do, so sometimes, you may love you very deeply, but in the end you are separated.

Love for a long time may also be helpless for a long time, pain for a long time, love does not mean no pain, the so-called unforgettable heart is love and hate, pain and joy coexist, especially some love but not feelings, the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt, there is no other way except to take the initiative to give up the need for courage and courage.

I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I was in a very bad mood, although I have been together for more than a year, and I think it's okay in all aspects, but when I talked about marriage with his parents, I learned that his parents disliked my bad job, so I haven't been very satisfied, I think it's better to let go of a marriage that is not blessed, marriage is not a child's play, don't get carried away for a momentary love!