I m a 25 year old girl, I didn t procrastinate, I just wanted to repay my parents on my own, but it

I really don't understand your question.

Maybe for a variety of reasons, maybe your family needs you to carry it.

But this pressure shouldn't be yours alone. There are 2 types of people in the world who commit suicide, and one is the person who really has no way out.

The other is to think about changing your opinion on the spur of the moment! Because you are because your point of view leads to your thoughts!

Fight for a love for yourself in the future, so that your parents can live the rest of their lives well. And you're having suicidal thoughts? Why?

You don't want to do more for your parents? Raise you until you're 25 years old, and you're gone. Who do you think you're right?

First of all, you are already sorry for yourself. There is no endless road. Work hard and believe that you can do it.

Speaking of which, I'm really worried that you won't understand it, or that you won't be able to think about it in the future.

I'll tell you a story.

Here's the thing, there are 2 sisters. The eldest sister's husband died at an early age, and the younger sister's husband abandoned him because of a business deficit and hundreds of thousands of debts and ran away alone. As a result, the debt problem is all on the shoulders of their two sisters.

But the eldest sister is very strong, and they all have their own children. Someone else should have committed suicide a long time ago.

At that time, they were not capable, and they couldn't even afford the children's tuition, but the eldest sister later went to learn to drive.

Working day and night. If you don't earn 300 yuan a day, you will never go home. That's it. A few years down.

The eldest sister couldn't help but pay off all the debts, and both children went to college. (It's true).

Do you have any thoughts? Maybe you feel like you're unlucky right now, or maybe you're too stressed to breathe. But what?

These are all things that a person should go through, and this is a hurdle that you don't have the courage to cross. Then we in China will not have a population of 1.3 billion, and there will be more people who are unhappy than you. Happiness belongs only to the strong!

But the strong also need to use their own courage and confidence to pursue! I hope you understand what I'm saying.

I don't want your question to score points. I really hope that you will change your perspective, for the sake of your parents, for your future children, and for your own sake. Be strong. Give parents a bright future.

Don't have suicidal thoughts, you will be ashamed of your parents' nurturing grace, repaying your parents does not necessarily have to give your parents a lot of money is filial piety, as long as you have the heart of filial piety to your parents, often visit your parents, as parents are already very content, I am a father, I am very touched by this.

You live well is the greatest comfort to your parents, family affection is the most important feeling in a person's life, that is, love will become family affection in the end, so cherish your parents, do some ordinary things every day, so that it is the best reward for your parents, smile every day to face your parents, because their time is not as sufficient as ours! ～～

Find a good job, you are looking for someone who really loves you, you are not young now, and at this age, it is already very filial to be able to not let your parents worry about you.

Don't have the boring idea of getting rich overnight so that your parents can live a good life, don't think about looking for a rich son so that your parents don't have to worry about food and clothing The fact is to find a job in the local area, do it with trepidation, support yourself first, and remember to return to your hometown if you have a surplus, and slowly repay your parents

1.A person's temperament is the sum of internal cultivation, external behavior, way of talking, dealing with people, attitudes, etc. The elegant, generous, and natural temperament will give people a comfortable, intimate, and easy-going feeling

2.Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. As a woman, you can't say too much, but you know everything you want.

Usually you have to learn more things and read more books. If you have nothing to do, learn to dance, or exercise. I also need to learn more about communication.

3.Taste determines temperament.

4.So-called"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black"It makes sense that you can approach some people with good temperament, and you will feel a little different

5.Read more books, think more, temperament is not something that can be changed in a month or two. It takes a year, two years or even longer.

It is very quiet that many people have finished college, and people who have not seen her for a long time say that she has changed, but in fact, it is the influence of campus life. There are always benefits to reading more. Another point, whoever you want to become, you can be friends with whoever you want, a gentleman, and a villain.

After a long time, the temperament will naturally be revealed.

6.Reading is the most basic.

If you read less books, no matter how much you practice, there is still no connotation Besides, if you read more books, your eyes will be brighter After all, you can't wear makeup in your eyes Although some girls are beautiful, they are empty when they look at their eyes Full of sadness

7.Practice ballet.

Yoga or something, Hepburn's temperament is practiced by practicing ballet.

8.To have a good living environment, a good attitude. in order to cultivate a good temperament.

9.Temperament. Although makeup can change the appearance, the temperament depends on the inner cultivation If you want to express the temperament with external things, it is the model and the artificiality.

10.Since childhood, a different environment will create different people, and a person's experience, knowledge, and understanding of themselves will have a certain impact on temperament.

Appearance and body are the foundation of everyone's innate self-confidence, especially girls. Appearance is generally the first impression, and you need to have an appearance that others are willing to understand, so there will be ideas that others are willing to approach you.

Not to mention that the appearance must be very beautiful, at least it is necessary to have a good posture and look at the makeup of the past. The lowest-cost way to change the loss is to maintain your hair well, clean cotton shoes, and make your ** state look as good as possible.

If you have more time, you can apply some light makeup, but don't wear too heavy makeup, so it will look unapproachable. And in terms of wearing, it is best to be relatively simple, or start with the basics.

Usually in this world, most people's parents can't give you much, many people are alone, for example, I have a lot of colleagues and classmates around me, they are through their own hard work, they will feel very satisfied, and their self-confidence has also improved, relying on others will never be reliable, whether it is parents or friends, so you must believe in yourself.

After all, what you struggle for by yourself will never become people's, besides, how can you see a rainbow if you don't see the wind and rain, you can only rely on yourself on the road of life.

In fact, what you get with your own efforts is the most real, don't rely on your parents, come out step by step, this is down-to-earth, and at the same time prove your ability, which is good.

Look at the mountains and mountains will fall, being strong is the last word, the young man is not deeply involved in the world, and he has never been pitted.

I feel like I saw this thing a few years ago, but I don't remember seeing it in **.

I only remember that the girl suddenly woke up later, and when she woke up, she found that she was dreaming, a false alarm...

Then one day, he was at the airport and encountered the exact same scene...

Long live understanding, the predecessors planted trees, and the descendants enjoyed the shade, which is a metaphor for the predecessors to benefit the future. Ming Hu Wenhuan's "Selected Group Sounds, Qingxiang Class, Guizhixiang": "That knows the three outlines and five constants, only knows that the seven green and eight yellow, the oars fall from the round duck eggs, the bamboo poles are empty and long, and there is no food in the belly.

The first episode of Qing Yizuo's "Yellow Hydrangea": "As the saying goes: 'The predecessors planted trees, and the descendants enjoyed the shade.'"

We have guarded the inheritance of our ancestors, lived a lifetime, and later our children and grandchildren have the blessings of our own children and grandchildren. (Qing) Wu Qi's "One Law": "The people in front plant trees, and the people in the back rest and cool."

Each of us is playing out moral stories big and small all the time. I've also experienced moral tales, which are like tiny shells that glitter in the sun.

I remember one Sunday morning, my mother and I went to the supermarket to buy vegetables, and there was a cart of green cucumbers that attracted my mother's attention, and we came to the front of the vegetables, and my mother bent down to buy vegetables, and I was waiting for her next to her. Suddenly, I noticed that an aunt next to my mother had accidentally dropped ten yuan while paying, and she didn't feel it at all. At this time, I hurriedly walked over, and just as I picked up the money to my aunt, I heard a little girl say loudly

Auntie, your money is gone. When the aunt who lost the money was looking at the ground in confusion, the little girl pointed to me and said, "Auntie, your money has been dropped, and this sister helped you pick it up."

My face was flushed, and then I handed the money I had found to my aunt who had lost it, and my aunt immediately thanked me, and I happily said no thanks, and walked to my mother's side.

Morality is like a bouquet of flowers, a flower that blooms in the heart, and like a sentence, a warm word for you and me.

If everyone gave a little love, how much better the world would be! Many small things that happen around us, although ordinary, cannot be ignored, just like the father in the article "The Revelation of Fishing" said, "Morality is a matter of right and wrong." I want to be a moral and ambitious person like a fishing child.

It is normal for this society not to be filial to parents, and the reason is that the education as a whole is not perfect. ** Very developed, information is overflowing, and children are "educated" too much by TV, computers, and mobile phones. Thinking and thinking can not be traditional, lack of patience, and naturally unfilial piety.

After all, her daughter was raised by herself, and she can have today's ruthlessness and righteousness, and such selfishness is completely the result of her parents' education. Therefore, it is no wonder that only the parents themselves bear this kind of outcome. My friend's daughter is an arrogant and undressed girl, who eats and wears whatever she wants at home, and she doesn't always ask for the best from her parents' personality, so my friend also starts from the perspective of raising a rich daughter, which is responsive.

It wasn't until this daughter grew up and got married that she found out that her daughter always came back to ask her parents for this and that, but she gave her parents too little in return. Once my friend had a heart attack, and I called her in the hospital, and she told me that uncle, you go to my mother, I still have something to do. What's even more annoying is that after this child had a home, he was clamoring for his father to marry him a car, and my buddy really couldn't get so much money out of business at that time, so he didn't agree to him.

But soon after I got married, I came to my father, and she said that my father would lend me your car to drive, and I would go back to the city to do something. His father gave her the key without thinking about it, but who knew that the car that was driven away by his daughter had not been sent back to him. Every time my father asked for a car, he always said that I haven't done enough, you always want something with a very bad temper, and sometimes he leaves it without waiting for him to finish.

It's going to stop my buddy's angry heart. But what can be done about such a daughter, it can only be an unpreventable way to deal with such a daughter. In short, I said that for such a daughter who is not filial to himself, parents should never give him their savings and property first, because once given to him, he may not know how to squander, and he may not accept these with a grateful heart.

If the daughter is not filial, the parents can talk to relatives about him, talk to him about the problems they want to say, talk to him, communicate with him, if the daughter is still particularly unfilial, and do something particularly excessive, parents can protect their rights and interests through legal means, because children have the obligation to support their parents, if they do not support their parents, they can constitute the crime of non-support.

The son is not filial to the father, the parents are the best example for the child, the daughter is not filial piety is the biggest failure of the parents, the parents should reflect well, find the failure of education, communicate with the daughter, improve together, and redeem together.

Hello, I think I should tell my children since I was a child, it is not easy for parents to raise you, you must train your parents well, be filial to your parents, and wish you happiness!

Nowadays, there are many daughters who are not filial to their parents, and they raise their daughters little by little, and daughters do not care about their parents at all, do not honor their parents, only know their own pleasures, and do not care about others, as children, they should be filial to their parents and care about their parents.

Daughters should be filial to their parents, it's not easy to grow up you, when you're old, you're not filial, what's the use of pulling you, you need the filial piety of your children when you're old, when you're young, you have to endure hardships for your children, and the old man also has the situation, he has the ability to be unfilial, then go to them, if she doesn't have the ability to sue her, it's useless

The daughter is not filial. Let's find out why. One is doting, and the other is lack of love. Spoil your children and let them know about themselves. Children who lack love can only say that good and evil will be rewarded in the end. If you don't want to give, don't ask for so much if you ask yourself.